Rikako Katayama
What I find incredibly sexy? Kindness.
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I've had a (first meeting) client telling me that during sex. I didn't know how to react because he looked serious -also sweaty- and sounded like he thinks there's no better time to tell me this. It made me feel uncomfortable, but, but simultaneously, I was happy to know he was having a good time. Also, it's nicer to say "I love you" than "I hate you," amirite? So, after a good 6 seconds, I told him "Yeah, I love being here with you too" with a smile.
To me, saying the phrase "I love you" is a huge deal. (regardless of my excessive usage of the word "love," e.g, "I love watching it rain" or "I love pilot G-2 pen") It's like showing a vulnerable side of me that is hidden. IT'S BIG and those three words carry a lot of weight. I think there were better phrases for showing how he felt.. to a 22 yo escort who he hired to be in his hotel room- but it's my personal opinion.
I've also had clients (some are married with kids) who threw me phrases such as "our mixed race baby will be cute "(lol) / "I want to introduce you to my parents" / "I think you'll be a great mother to my child",,, each time, I try to weigh out how serious they are and come up with something to say.. the feeling was never mutual..
But with 7+ billion people on the planet, the odds of meeting someone (even if you're paying for their time) who you like enough to say "I love you" or "I want you to deliver my child" is almost miracle. So I think it's cool from that perspective.
To me, saying the phrase "I love you" is a huge deal. (regardless of my excessive usage of the word "love," e.g, "I love watching it rain" or "I love pilot G-2 pen") It's like showing a vulnerable side of me that is hidden. IT'S BIG and those three words carry a lot of weight. I think there were better phrases for showing how he felt.. to a 22 yo escort who he hired to be in his hotel room- but it's my personal opinion.
I've also had clients (some are married with kids) who threw me phrases such as "our mixed race baby will be cute "(lol) / "I want to introduce you to my parents" / "I think you'll be a great mother to my child",,, each time, I try to weigh out how serious they are and come up with something to say.. the feeling was never mutual..
But with 7+ billion people on the planet, the odds of meeting someone (even if you're paying for their time) who you like enough to say "I love you" or "I want you to deliver my child" is almost miracle. So I think it's cool from that perspective.
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