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Dolce (SL) Dolce Soapland - Hani

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Service and/or Provider's Name:
Dolce の Hani

Date of Encounter:
June 2017

Contact Method:
Walk in

Appointment Length & Costs:
80 min for 31,000

Type/Location:
Soapland

Language Notes:
Basic Japanese

Details of the Encounter:
There has been a lot written about Dolce here, with many reviews quite mixed. Nonetheless I decided to give it a go, and was rewarded with one of the better p4p experiences I've had.

The door staff was friendly (two young guys). No issues with very basic Japanese. They only offered me one girl: Hani. Inquired after two other girls who I had short listed from the web. One was an hour wait and the other didn't accept foreigners.

https://smart.cityheaven.net/tokyo/A1311/A131101/otome/girlid-16235719/

I'm not going to go into too much detail here but suffice it to say that Hani was great. 20 years old, slender with a really nice rack (Japanese D cup I would say) and a cute face. What set her apart however was the service level. The level of GFE and care was much more akin to what you would find at a high end shop. DFK, BBBJ, even mat play.

Honestly it wasn't as skillful as at the top end, but from what I understand the fact that she did the mat at all is remarkable at this shop. She even let us run a few minutes past the buzzer so I could get my last shot in.

interesting aside: she has been working in the soap since Feburary. Before that she was at a kyabakura in China, but she quit after having to get sent to the hospital with alcohol poisoning. She figures the soap is safer and better money (which she needs as she is supporting her single mother and grandparents... with a heart of gold... how can you resist!)

Final Thoughts:
Recommended, Will Repeat.

Closing Comments:
 
Their website says 26000 for 80mins. Did they charge gaijin tax or why did you pay 31k?
 
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31000 was the amount posted on the sign I the shop. I don't think there was a gaijin tax. Maybe the lower price is a morning discount or something?
 
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I always enjoy the providers that do it as a side job as I get a good quality time.
 
interesting aside: she has been working in the soap since Feburary. Before that she was at a kyabakura in China, but she quit after having to get sent to the hospital with alcohol poisoning. She figures the soap is safer and better money (which she needs as she is supporting her single mother and grandparents... escort with a heart of gold... how can you resist!)
You are able to communicate in basic Japanese and was able to get this info from her? I'm impressed.
Why do you feel you need to share this info?

Guys please stop asking why they do it, it's rude and it's none of your business.

I don't understand the obsession with having to know why.
 
Thanks for the perspective! I hadn't thought about how asking for girls backgrounds could be offensive. I will keep that in mind in the future!
 
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I really don't like those "supporting their parents" stories.
Not only from SW but also for OL who give their paycheck to their parents.
I think its great to pass your old parents some money every month, and to take care of them when they need help, but those people who put their children in a situation they have to spend their adult life working just to support their parents, not to make a life of their own, that feels so wrong to me.
 
I really don't like those "supporting their parents" stories.
Not only from SW but also for OL who give their paycheck to their parents.
I think its great to pass your old parents some money every month, and to take care of them when they need help, but those people who put their children in a situation they have to spend their adult life working just to support their parents, not to make a life of their own, that feels so wrong to me.
If the parents didn't make much money and the kids manage to I think it's natural to support them.
That said I'd prefer meeting an escort who do this job without any money pressure or needs, It doesn't feel good to take advantage of someone's poverty, I'd prefer an escort who do this job mainly because she likes it, someone who likes having sex not someone who's rather not have sex but forces herself because she needs the money.
 
If the parents didn't make much money and the kids manage to I think it's natural to support them.
That said I'd prefer meeting an escort who do this job without any money pressure or needs, It doesn't feel good to take advantage of someone's poverty, I'd prefer an escort who do this job mainly because she likes it, someone who likes having sex not someone who's rather not have sex but forces herself because she needs the money.

I sort of agree, but isn't there a pretty big spectrum between those extremes? I mean, a lot of women in this industry don't hate their job, but most will tell you they mainly do it for the money. Also, helping out one's parents doesn't exactly mean one is in poverty.
 
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I really don't like those "supporting their parents" stories.
Not only from SW but also for OL who give their paycheck to their parents.
I think its great to pass your old parents some money every month, and to take care of them when they need help, but those people who put their children in a situation they have to spend their adult life working just to support their parents, not to make a life of their own, that feels so wrong to me.
Thats some extremely judgmental stuff right there considering you don't know the circumstances of the people you are judging.

It doesn't feel good to take advantage of someone's poverty, I'd prefer an escort who do this job mainly because she likes it, someone who likes having sex not someone who's rather not have sex but forces herself because she needs the money.

Everyone needs money and most people who work do it because at the end of the day they need money.

I'm with @Soapysoap66 on this. I'd rather a service provider not ask me why I'm paying for sexual services and I'm not going to ask her why she is doing that line of work either.
 
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Thats some extremely judgmental stuff right there considering you don't know the circumstances of the people you are judging.



Everyone needs money and most people who work do it because at the end of the day they need money.

I'm with @Soapysoap66 on this. I'd rather a service provider not ask me why I'm paying for sexual services and I'm not going to ask her why she is doing that line of work either.
I believe that as a parent, you must grand you child the right of living their own life. If parents lean on their children to support them, the children have less opportunity to find a live partner, have children themselves and take care of their own family.
I think its a very nice thing how people take in their old parents in Asia and take care of them, or people who send some money to their parents every month, but priority should be the child's own life.
Imagine having to be responsible for your parents at first priority until they die, and then when they die there will be a middle aged child who is left with NOTHING. No partner, no children, and in case of a sex worker no study, regular carreer experience or saving.

Of course i cant judge about this particular case but i'm sure there are cases like this where a parent burdens their children like this instead of letting them build their own life and i think its very harmful.
 
Agreed. That's pretty messed up.

AI used to be part of the 夜の世界 and almost every girl I talked to did it for the lifestyle not manageable by most. There were a few cases for loans but otherwise a large part of the drive is lifestyle support.

I really don't like those "supporting their parents" stories.
Not only from SW but also for OL who give their paycheck to their parents.
I think its great to pass your old parents some money every month, and to take care of them when they need help, but those people who put their children in a situation they have to spend their adult life working just to support their parents, not to make a life of their own, that feels so wrong to me.
 
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I worked in the night world once upon a time and the number one rule of success is not asking about work :/ i believe the same applies to personal lives of workers.
 
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I worked in the night world once upon a time and the number one rule of success is not asking about work :/ i believe the same applies to personal lives of workers.
Yes. It absolutely gets on my nerves when guys ask things like "whats your real name", especially at the first meeting. I get that guys like a sense of trust, but a stalker could ruin so much. I think we can be affectionate and still protect our private life. Knowing a real name or other personal information doesn't automatically make you closer to someone.
 
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I believe that as a parent, you must grand you child the right of living their own life. If parents lean on their children to support them, the children have less opportunity to find a live partner, have children themselves and take care of their own family.
I think its a very nice thing how people take in their old parents in Asia and take care of them, or people who send some money to their parents every month, but priority should be the child's own life.
Imagine having to be responsible for your parents at first priority until they die, and then when they die there will be a middle aged child who is left with NOTHING. No partner, no children, and in case of a sex worker no study, regular carreer experience or saving.

Of course i cant judge about this particular case but i'm sure there are cases like this where a parent burdens their children like this instead of letting them build their own life and i think its very harmful.
There are all kinds of circumstances that lead to adults having to take care of elderly parents and not all of them lead to the scenarios you imagine. It happens to people in relationships, with their own children as well. You can't even assume that sex workers haven't developed any other employable skills or savings either.

You really can't judge if you haven't walked a mile in the other persons shoes.