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This is not a sugar situation yet, but I am guessing you guys know the most about emotional attachment. Here is the situation.
Happily married in sexless marriage (oxymoron?). I do P4P worldwide and she doesn’t know or pretends she doesn’t. And so we are both happy.
Always meet girls I like, but I just found a unicorn in Brazil. A true ten in all categories, the most important of which is kissing. Pure heaven on earth. But a ten in looks too. No lie. And really sweet (I know, I know, that’s why I call her Thifany the Unicorn).
Anyhow I am smitten and think about her a lot. And we’ve written back and forth some and she’s sent photos. Wow. I pinged her today (we met last week) and said how much I liked her and she came right back and said she really likes me and had the best night of her life. I am old enough to know the game but she is young enough to be completely sincere. (Maybe)
I am seriously considering flying her for a meetup. It’s about $1000. I of course know to buy the tickets myself — we do after all barely know each other (save having had passionate sex twice). But what are the other watch outs here? Clearly emotional attachment on either side. Some other possible scam?
Sleeping full nights together with me snoring up a storm — maybe learning each other’s faults.
The meetup would be in another country so no real danger of running into friends or the like.
Am I crazy? Or just a love struck adventurer. Any and all thoughts welcome.
Happily married in sexless marriage (oxymoron?). I do P4P worldwide and she doesn’t know or pretends she doesn’t. And so we are both happy.
Always meet girls I like, but I just found a unicorn in Brazil. A true ten in all categories, the most important of which is kissing. Pure heaven on earth. But a ten in looks too. No lie. And really sweet (I know, I know, that’s why I call her Thifany the Unicorn).
Anyhow I am smitten and think about her a lot. And we’ve written back and forth some and she’s sent photos. Wow. I pinged her today (we met last week) and said how much I liked her and she came right back and said she really likes me and had the best night of her life. I am old enough to know the game but she is young enough to be completely sincere. (Maybe)
I am seriously considering flying her for a meetup. It’s about $1000. I of course know to buy the tickets myself — we do after all barely know each other (save having had passionate sex twice). But what are the other watch outs here? Clearly emotional attachment on either side. Some other possible scam?
Sleeping full nights together with me snoring up a storm — maybe learning each other’s faults.
The meetup would be in another country so no real danger of running into friends or the like.
Am I crazy? Or just a love struck adventurer. Any and all thoughts welcome.