Wow! What gives? What did
I do?!
Of course not! Nobody is forcing anybody. That would be unethical and illegal.
On a much more serious note however.
I'm guessing that based from the response you gave in what appears to be a sign of mild anger, I may have offended you when I said this.
While I do apologize if the content of what I wrote has offended you, it was merely truth based on the observation
and reviews of fellow TAG members. I know it may be frustrating to be compared but considering P4P is indeed, a market, customers who engage comparisons between providers are inevitable. The cheapest, the funnest or the highly recommended. They are all separated within these labels. It is what defines a provider. If I have to explain in another way, it's like selling fruits besides someone who are selling the same thing as you. Except that they have been in business longer than you, have delivered quality products(regardless of the price) and have gained a very strong reputation among buyers. If you are selling the same thing, obviously, people will go and buy from the vendor that has a reputation and has proven themselves in the market. You have to build the trust, understanding and favor of your clients. Word of mouth spreads from there. I'm not saying you're not reputable. This is meant towards my comment that you took offense off.
I am sure you are very capable, reputable and worthy of your own right. I have acknowledged both your reputation based on the reviews I have read about you and your physical characteristics as well. My post clearly states this.
My comment only implied that If I wanted to spend the same amount of money that I would require to employ your services, I would go somewhere that is more reputable, extremely recommended and very well reviewed. However, that does
NOT mean that I will not give your service a chance. That does not mean that I will retain my judgement over you without trying. I was ready to be proven wrong and to be proved that my money will indeed be well spent. Again, I have clearly stated this in my post.
and when Goiter provided me a brief review of his experience with you, I positively and fully acknowledged it.
Although I did mention that you are not my type, I was still willing to employ your services to see if regardless if a woman is my type or not, the chemistry and the overall experience itself will outweigh it. This is common knowledge. It doesn't matter if a person is your type or not. What matters is how you click with each other and the compatibility you both share. It is not about the preference, it is about the experience.
You are very beautiful. The people who have experienced your company has vouched for you and I have acknowledged them and have taken their recommendation seriously and into thought.
However, I am very much disappointed at the way you chose to handle this situation, Ms. Anna. Professionalism and good public relations are very powerful tools in your arsenal. Use them well when dealing with potential clients or critics. Remember that the average anonymous Joe who reads the reviews on this website only follow through the recommendations of others. You are dealing with a very selective type of clients. One unsatisfied customer or one blunder can inflict a major blow in your enterprise. My personal advice. I know that through your rigorous hard work and dedication, you have developed your own network of clientele and pretty much mine or other people's opinion may not bother you or your business. Plenty of fish in the sea after all. However, acting in such a way in where you tell your critics/potential clients retorts such as "IF YOU DON'T LIKE ME, DON'T MEET ME! IT'S THAT SIMPLE!". You are very correct that sometimes, a person's chemistry may not be ideal regardless of the person, but
assuming your chemistry with someone over just one criticism/slightly negative input is not a good way for you and your business. In fact, it turns people away over display of such somewhat childlike behavior. It's like saying "IF YOU DON'T LIKE ME, DON'T PLAY WITH ME!" or "IF YOU CAN'T SAY ANYTHING NICE ABOUT ME, WE DON'T HAVE TO BE FRIENDS!". You
can be friends with people despite criticism and negative response. It just takes a friendly approach, understanding and open mind, inviting personality and a warm heart. Isn't that what GFE is all about?
In conclusion, if you did feel offended over what I wrote about you, Ms. Anna. I humbly and sincerely apologize for my post. It was not meant for criticism. It is just my personal preference. I do hope you understand. If you do feel strongly about it, then I shall withdraw my statement regarding my consideration for your services as per your advice regarding our "chemistry" due to my post. I shall respect your decision to deny me of your service.
I am not biased nor am I choosing sides here (I have not yet tried Kitty yet, only read some of her reviews), but this right here is how you professionally reply and engage a critic. Especially someone who called you "annoying". Very well done, Ms. Kitty.
Again, no offense to you, Ms. Anna. More power to your endeavor.