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I know this has been discussed numerous times, but I would like an unbaised opinion.
I have been chatting with a girl in Japan whom I met from one of my previous visits a few years back via LINE. It isn't a "business" account but I also don't believe it is her main LINE account.
I have in the past only sent a message to her once every other month if at all just to see how she was doing (I am not in Japan obviously). She would initiate a message even more rarely, maybe once or twice.
Since this summer of Covid, I started to up the frequency a bit, trying to engage in a "real-time" back and forth conversation. Now she seems unthreatened by me as she has given me her home address, real name and mentioned other personal info such as family members, where she works etc.
To be clear, she has never asked for anything from me (money or gift wise). I have mentioned when I visit Japan again that I would take her out to dinner, someplace fun or even offered to cook Japanese dishes that she likes. She has always responded favorably, even making suggestions.
Now to the analysis. As has been mentioned before, J-girls don't seem to respond quickly to any message sent. I understand that. But I am seeing more of a pattern recently....
I would send a message that is in the form of a question. That message will not be even marked as READ usually before she actually responds which for the past month has been around 8:45pm on Tuesdays. I would quickly respond to her within 10 to 30 seconds with a follow up question. That question will sit there unread for the full week until next Tuesday night.
Lately her responses to have been brief but not negative. Just not encouraging conversation.
Now I am not looking for daily responses, but a quick one week look and out is odd.
I tried to get more info by jokingly replied, "Are you doing ok? You haven't chatted in a week!" With a laughing emoji.
Her response was odd, "These days, I fall asleep easily."
Didn't really answer the question, and my instant follow up question is still sitting unread, probably until next Tuesday.
My assessment is she is just being nice and is just tollerating me. She must have her LINE notifcation off and/ or a second account away from her close friends account.
What is odd is the recent clockwork response recently (this past few months) on Tuesday night at 8:45pm.
Sad as it sounds, she is the only LINE account I could muster from my 5 years visiting Japan.
I like having people (mainly girls) to hang with when visiting.
Other than "Just drop the bitch!" What are your thoughts?
I have been chatting with a girl in Japan whom I met from one of my previous visits a few years back via LINE. It isn't a "business" account but I also don't believe it is her main LINE account.
I have in the past only sent a message to her once every other month if at all just to see how she was doing (I am not in Japan obviously). She would initiate a message even more rarely, maybe once or twice.
Since this summer of Covid, I started to up the frequency a bit, trying to engage in a "real-time" back and forth conversation. Now she seems unthreatened by me as she has given me her home address, real name and mentioned other personal info such as family members, where she works etc.
To be clear, she has never asked for anything from me (money or gift wise). I have mentioned when I visit Japan again that I would take her out to dinner, someplace fun or even offered to cook Japanese dishes that she likes. She has always responded favorably, even making suggestions.
Now to the analysis. As has been mentioned before, J-girls don't seem to respond quickly to any message sent. I understand that. But I am seeing more of a pattern recently....
I would send a message that is in the form of a question. That message will not be even marked as READ usually before she actually responds which for the past month has been around 8:45pm on Tuesdays. I would quickly respond to her within 10 to 30 seconds with a follow up question. That question will sit there unread for the full week until next Tuesday night.
Lately her responses to have been brief but not negative. Just not encouraging conversation.
Now I am not looking for daily responses, but a quick one week look and out is odd.
I tried to get more info by jokingly replied, "Are you doing ok? You haven't chatted in a week!" With a laughing emoji.
Her response was odd, "These days, I fall asleep easily."
Didn't really answer the question, and my instant follow up question is still sitting unread, probably until next Tuesday.
My assessment is she is just being nice and is just tollerating me. She must have her LINE notifcation off and/ or a second account away from her close friends account.
What is odd is the recent clockwork response recently (this past few months) on Tuesday night at 8:45pm.
Sad as it sounds, she is the only LINE account I could muster from my 5 years visiting Japan.
I like having people (mainly girls) to hang with when visiting.
Other than "Just drop the bitch!" What are your thoughts?
