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Any Good Sites To Find Japanese Sugar Daddies?

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Looking for any suggestions on sites to find a good, long-term Japanese sugar daddy.
I do escort but recently I feel like a mutually beneficial arrangement would suit my present lifestyle/work schedule a lot better.
I actually had tried Universe Club before a few years ago but was only ever introduced to one guy from there, it likely was also because it was very difficult to log in to their site and keep updating my profile/pictures (got so many login errors, the interface was just crap, maybe it's better now).
There were not so many guys on Seeking Arrangement in/near Tokyo it seemed (haven't logged in for a while as I forgot my account and need to make a new one), a lot of the profiles seem like they are foreign men who are not here permanently but rather pass through on business sometimes.
I was in contact with some of them but they tended to be really flakey about setting up actual real meeting times and places, and a few were more interested in trying to get me to skype with them at their convenience. Seemed like a huge waste of time and some were very pushy about the whole skype thing which seemed like a huge red flag. Are there more guys actually living in Tokyo on Seeking Arrangement now?
Any other sites which are more geared to Japanese clientele that are worth checking out?
Does anyone here have any success stories about finding a good sugar daddy in Tokyo?
 
Hi VeronicaTokyo, welcome to TAG!

I don't have a solid answer to your question, but there are a number of people here with SD/SB experience that may be able to answer your questions.

There are some ladies here that meet up with Japanese guys on service level (Escort or other) but I've not heard about any of them having a successful Japanese SD, yet.

@User#8628 and @User#16452 may have some info on their experiences (as SB) that may be relevant.
 
There are definitely some SDs on SA who are either Japanese or foreign residents of Tokyo, but there are also many (more I think) SDs who spend time regularly in Tokyo but are not residents. (Personally I am sort of in-between.) It is also possible to find Japanese SDs and foreign resident SDs via UC, but it is often difficult to deal with the company, and very few of their SBs get any significant number of dates. So, with SA or UC, you need some patience and/or luck to find a good resident SD. Moreover, they are in demand, so there is a lot of competition.

There are numerous other date clubs that cater exclusively or almost exclusively to Japanese SDs, but for the most part you need to speak Japanese well enough to conduct your dates in that language to use them. Obviously your chances of getting a Japanese SD improve dramatically with your ability to speak Japanese.

-Ww
 
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I think in this situation, your best bet is working kyabakura. I bet 99% of the customers there are shitholes but maybe there's a possibility that you bump into a good one. Atleast your time is paid when you are working and meeting the shitholes.
 
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One advantage of SA is that you can be very specific about what sort of arrangement you wish to find. For example, you could indicate that you are not interested in SDs who are not residents or who are not Japanese if those are your preferences. Of course, lots of jerks will ignore what you write (or never read it), but it will filter out at least some of them.

-Ww
 
There are definitely some SDs on SA who are either Japanese or foreign residents of Tokyo, but there are also many (more I think) SDs who spend time regularly in Tokyo but are not residents. (Personally I am sort of in-between.) It is also possible to find Japanese SDs and foreign resident SDs via UC, but it is often difficult to deal with the company, and very few of their SBs get any significant number of dates. So, with SA or UC, you need some patience and/or luck to find a good resident SD. Moreover, they are in demand, so there is a lot of competition.

There are numerous other date clubs that cater exclusively or almost exclusively to Japanese SDs, but for the most part you need to speak Japanese well enough to conduct your dates in that language to use them. Obviously your chances of getting a Japanese SD improve dramatically with your ability to speak Japanese.

-Ww

My Japanese is pretty much fluent, and up until now I've escorted almost exclusively with Japanese clients.
Do you happen to know the names of some of these date clubs?
The only other ones I could find seemed quite similar to Universe Club so it's really hard to tell which ones have more active male members. Some also seem to focus on recruiting a very specific type of girl, a mold which I know I don't fit, so I don't really want to waste my time or theirs.
I used to know a Japanese woman who was running her own date club privately, unfortunately I was very young and naive at the time and tended to turn down her offers because I didn't really know the nuances of what was up and was a bit too absorbed in whatever I was doing at the time. Looking back on it I kind of regret that and wish I could find another person doing something similar. Most of her clients looking for dates were athletes and older musicians.
 
It's always a bit of a bet and sometimes you don't get lucky fast. I don't have much to add to the options already mentioned but i can tell some things about my own experience with them.

It also depends a bit on how high your expectations are for financial support and how much time you are willing to spend with your daddy. High expectations will have lower succes, and will make some of the options mentioned before quite useless to try (deai cafe and quite some of the Japanese kosai clubs cater to mostly normal salary men and some guys with reasonably got jobs like doctors or small company shachos but they might not have a big lot of money to spend or might be stingy).

As for seeking arrangement, try to search guys by yourself and approach Japanese people or residents of japan. Ignore the messages from guys who live in other countries unless they state that they visit japan like every month for business.

For universe club, it might be worth to request to renew your pictures. You'll get boosted to the front page again and might get a few new dates. Most girls dont get many dates but sometimes it only takes one shot to find a good sugar daddy. The men using UC are often pretty wealthy.

Kyabakura is a nice option to meet rich men, i'm super interested in it as well. However if you dont have a solid visa the clubs that will accept you are often low level and dont have a big stream of new customers so it might be hard to find someone rich there.

Deai cafes are pretty budget and aimed at regular salary men. I have definitely met some rich guys there and some guys looking for a girl to support but the usual guy either wants karaoke or dinner, or some reasonably short hotel time. Not many guys who wanna spend the evening dinner and hotel for a bit more money. Might not be worth the try.

Other Japanese kosai clubs might be what you are looking for but a lot are not as high level as universe club so if you expect a lot of money you might not get many dates or they might not be able to repeat with you.
I forgot the names of the ones i signed up with but did you search a bit on japanese internet on terms like "kosai club"? If you pm me i might be able to hook you up with the scout who helped me sign up with some.
Most dont really have athletes and mucicians as far as i know (like i said, more like doctors, business guys and small company owners) universe club really has some of the wealthiest clients.
 
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My Japanese is pretty much fluent, and up until now I've escorted almost exclusively with Japanese clients.
Do you happen to know the names of some of these date clubs?

That your Japanese is fluent is a huge plus of course...and you have my envy in that regard. My own ability in Japanese is somewhere a few notches south of totally pathetic, so I don't know the Japanese kosai club scene at all because I have no access to it myself. Talking to @User#8628 privately (and other TAG escorts maybe) is probably your best bet (within TAG).

-Ww
 
I forgot to add but the japanese dating sites and apps can be pretty good.
Happy mail has the richest guys as far as i know. Many of them looking to be someone's exculsive papa. Again, most are not insanely rich but some might be and worth a try.
 
Let's not forget, TAG is also an option. Actually, probably one of the bests, though not Japanese. But there are some really generous foreign gentlemen on TAG who is a permanent Japan resident. You just gotta find your perfect timing.
 
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In my experience, the only worthwhile place is SeekingArrangement. As you mention that you work as escort, it might be worth mentioning that you are open to a sugar relationship in your ads/website. I have had a few discussions stem that way.

At seekingArrangement did you find any legit guys or were most of them flakes.
 
I forgot to add but the japanese dating sites and apps can be pretty good.
Happy mail has the richest guys as far as i know. Many of them looking to be someone's exculsive papa. Again, most are not insanely rich but some might be and worth a try.

What are other apps or websites besides happy mail?
 
In my experience, the only worthwhile place is SeekingArrangement. As you mention that you work as escort, it might be worth mentioning that you are open to a sugar relationship in your ads/website. I have had a few discussions stem that way.
I forgot to add but the japanese dating sites and apps can be pretty good.
Happy mail has the richest guys as far as i know. Many of them looking to be someone's exculsive papa. Again, most are not insanely rich but some might be and worth a try.

Thanks for the info. I had thought that Happy Mail was more for enko but this sparks my interest, might give it a shot.
I used to use a site called Ke-kura in Osaka, it was good for finding customers as an escort and some became semi-regulars, but in Tokyo the male customers on that site tend to be stingy and flakey in comparison to Kansai so I stopped using it.
 
Looking for any suggestions on sites to find a good, long-term Japanese sugar daddy.
I do escort but recently I feel like a mutually beneficial arrangement would suit my present lifestyle/work schedule a lot better.
I actually had tried Universe Club before a few years ago but was only ever introduced to one guy from there, it likely was also because it was very difficult to log in to their site and keep updating my profile/pictures (got so many login errors, the interface was just crap, maybe it's better now).
There were not so many guys on Seeking Arrangement in/near Tokyo it seemed (haven't logged in for a while as I forgot my account and need to make a new one), a lot of the profiles seem like they are foreign men who are not here permanently but rather pass through on business sometimes.
I was in contact with some of them but they tended to be really flakey about setting up actual real meeting times and places, and a few were more interested in trying to get me to skype with them at their convenience. Seemed like a huge waste of time and some were very pushy about the whole skype thing which seemed like a huge red flag. Are there more guys actually living in Tokyo on Seeking Arrangement now?
Any other sites which are more geared to Japanese clientele that are worth checking out?
Does anyone here have any success stories about finding a good sugar daddy in Tokyo?

Since your Japanese is fluent, you could do a search using 'パパ募集' and you should get a few Japanese boards where people are advertising for SD. However, I have no experience with any of these boards so not sure if they are effective in finding the kind of SD you want.
 
Thanks for the info. I had thought that Happy Mail was more for enko but this sparks my interest, might give it a shot.
I used to use a site called Ke-kura in Osaka, it was good for finding customers as an escort and some became semi-regulars, but in Tokyo the male customers on that site tend to be stingy and flakey in comparison to Kansai so I stopped using it.
It's mainly for compensated dating but some of the guys look for a steady girl to become her papa.
 
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This was just for fun, actually i am looking for mature friends to chat ,hang out ect
 
I used to know a Japanese woman who was running her own date club privately, unfortunately I was very young and naive at the time and tended to turn down her offers because I didn't really know the nuances of what was up and was a bit too absorbed in whatever I was doing at the time. Looking back on it I kind of regret that and wish I could find another person doing something similar. Most of her clients looking for dates were athletes and older musicians.
Wish that site was still active.................
 
i will try ,if i get any chance to find any place, or a party like that, i hesitate coz of my broken nehongo, thanks