Anyone know any good lounges and bars in Tokyo for meeting men with money?

[Sweetbeetease]

I really want to try going to bars, lounges, and clubs instead because it seems like a better way to find SDs and clients. It's old fashioned, but I find it's a much better way to meet men, and they tend to be less crazy.

People have mentioned R2 Supper Club, Two rooms, Maduro, and Oak Door Bar but there has to be way more.

I'm okay with locals or expats.

Just a question about each place
1)Is the male female ratio good?
2) Is it usually packed?
3) Are there more locals than foreigners? (Either is ok, am conversationally fluent).

 

[TAG Manager]

Any of the upscale hotel bars will have a fair amount of people that usually have money.

You may want to give us some idea of what level of SB you are. (And escort too?)

We have a few people that are in SD/SB relationships that are active here, so you may get some feedback from them. But, at least declaring what level of SB you are helps narrow down where you may find willing SD's.

And, Welcome to TAG. We have a few discussions on Sugar Dating here: https://tokyoadultguide.com/forums/sugar-dating.49/

 

[owlet]

I think pcm in marunouchi can be ok

 

[Sweetbeetease]

I guess I'm looking for middle to high level sugaring. Pretty much what I called having a boyfriend who pays the bills.

So it will require a guy with some funds.

 

[Exnocomment]

I would say have a peek in the SB/SD lounge and.. Calling @Wwanderer !

 

[TAG Manager]

Pretty much what I called having a boyfriend who pays the bills.

But not a live-in arrangement, correct? Having a boyfriend but still maintaining separate housing.

 

[Wwanderer]

New York Bar in the Park Hyatt.

OP - Are you familiar with Universe Club and, if you speak reasonable Japanese, other kodai/dating clubs?

-Ww

 

[Sweetbeetease]

But not a live-in arrangement, correct? Having a boyfriend but still maintaining separate housing.

If I could get a live in arrangement, that would be great. But I really want the bills paid. That sounds like a nice bonus.

 

[Sweetbeetease]

New York Bar in the Park Hyatt.

OP - Are you familiar with Universe Club and, if you speak reasonable Japanese, other kodai/dating clubs?

-Ww

Sure thank you for the recommendation.

I actually just saw the forss about them the デートクラブ or 交際クラブ。Or using ハーピーメール or わくわくメール. I will apply for them soon.

But I want to see if I can meet them live.

 

[User#6517]

Sure thank you for the recommendation.

I actually just saw the forss about them the デートクラブ or 交際クラブ。Or using ハーピーメール or わくわくメール. I will apply for them soon.

But I want to see if I can meet them live.

I've never tried Universe Club or those mail sites.. but I'd strongly advise against using dating cafes like Kirari and Momo.. unless you're willing to spend 2-3 hours with a (possibly weird) guy and have unprotected sex with him for 10,000-15,000 yen. I'm not trying to be funny.. this is usually what they'll try to get from you.

I do agree that it's better to meet potential SDs in real life. You can usually find these gentlemen in upscale hotel bars, steakhouses, art auctions/galleries, and VIP social events. I'd recommend areas like Azabu-Juban, Ginza, and certain parts of Roppongi.

As for R2 Supperclub and Oak Door.. I haven't been to either in a long time, but R2 was a good place to go to on Friday and Saturday nights.. especially when they're hosting a Blacklist event. Oak Door is quite dead, to be honest.

 

[Tricky]

I really want to try going to bars, lounges, and clubs instead because it seems like a better way to find SDs and clients. It's old fashioned, but I find it's a much better way to meet men, and they tend to be less crazy.

People have mentioned R2 Supper Club, Two rooms, Maduro, and Oak Door Bar but there has to be way more.

I'm okay with locals or expats.

Just a question about each place
1)Is the male female ratio good?
2) Is it usually packed?
3) Are there more locals than foreigners? (Either is ok, am conversationally fluent).

Can you provide more info about yourself? Appearance, age, SD experience?

 

[User#8628]

I've never tried Universe Club or those mail sites.. but I'd strongly advise against using dating cafes like Kirari and Momo.. unless you're willing to spend 2-3 hours with a (possibly weird) guy and have unprotected sex with him for 10,000-15,000 yen. I'm not trying to be funny.. this is usually what they'll try to get from you.

I do agree that it's better to meet potential SDs in real life. You can usually find these gentlemen in upscale hotel bars, steakhouses, art auctions/galleries, and VIP social events. I'd recommend areas like Azabu-Juban, Ginza, and certain parts of Roppongi.

As for R2 Supperclub and Oak Door.. I haven't been to either in a long time, but R2 was a good place to go to on Friday and Saturday nights.. especially when they're hosting a Blacklist event. Oak Door is quite dead, to be honest.

The cafes pulled up a bit recently. I got 30.000 for a protected quicky from kirari recently so i am not complaining.

I personally dislike bars because the unwritten rules there are less clear than in the deai cafes and i would hate to confess to being an escort if the setting is not obvious, plus there will be alcohol involved and while one or two drinks are fine, i dont want to deal with drunk guys. But to each their own style.

I strongly recommend kosai club like UC to any girl. Its how i met @Wwanderer so i'm very thankful, and i probably wouldn't have joined TAG without his encouragement.

 

[Wwanderer]

I strongly recommend kosai club like UC to any girl. Its how i met @Wwanderer so i'm very thankful, and i probably wouldn't have joined TAG without his encouragement.

You may now consider me melted! (https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/man-melting-phrases.13273/)

-Ww

 

[Sweetbeetease]

Can you provide more info about yourself? Appearance, age, SD experience?

Sure. So I'm in my early twenties, have a about a year and some change experience with an SD. I am short and thin with an hourglass figure.

 

[daneyboy]

If you want to meet a wealthy Japanese you should consider becoming a hostess at a high end club in Ginza.

Your odds will be much lower finding a willing, wealthy foreigner living here who hasn't already found what he needs.

 

[Kulbutor]

I've never tried Universe Club or those mail sites.. but I'd strongly advise against using dating cafes like Kirari and Momo.. unless you're willing to spend 2-3 hours with a (possibly weird) guy and have unprotected sex with him for 10,000-15,000 yen. I'm not trying to be funny.. this is usually what they'll try to get from you.

I do agree that it's better to meet potential SDs in real life. You can usually find these gentlemen in upscale hotel bars, steakhouses, art auctions/galleries, and VIP social events. I'd recommend areas like Azabu-Juban, Ginza, and certain parts of Roppongi.

As for R2 Supperclub and Oak Door.. I haven't been to either in a long time, but R2 was a good place to go to on Friday and Saturday nights.. especially when they're hosting a Blacklist event. Oak Door is quite dead, to be honest.

Wow, you know what you are talking about...

Hana Maria = Mata Hari?

 

[Jennifer Maddingly]

I recently went to R2 and it was packed and everyone seems to find their 'mate' by around 12. A lot of guys aren't willing to cough up any cash for the night however and will make fun of you if you admit to being an escort looking for a Jon. When is Oak Door meant to be good? I went there once and it seemed classy but kind of hard to drop the "give me money" bomb...