Anyone Notice Your Punting And Your Partner Activity Share Something In Common?

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  1. Panda989

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    I kinda had a notion the other day that my punting sex life and my partner sex life share similar peaks and valleys.

    for a while i was looking for a night of fun with just about every trip in every country, most times just the once, but some times 2-3 times in a short period of time.

    but after a while i started going for quick convince vs planned quality evenings (due to just scheduling issues because of work) and i think it turned me off for a while as i haven't had a punt in months. maybe it was one too many last night late night dial for instant vagina encounters, but though tempted i just dont seem to have it in me to make the call. Even stuck in china for weeks and i couldn't bring myself to call (though i think that was more a security thing and the fact that you couldn't see 5 feet in front of you).

    Same thing with my partner, when i am in a punting cycle, i am always after her when i am home, its as if my sex drive is up to 11. but that fades pretty fast after a while as i think i just get sick and tired of having to do all the work in getting things going, that and its as exciting as watching bread rise.

    could it be that one just gets turned off by the experience in both cases and just loses the desire? or just a hormone cycle?

    dont know the answer there, but it seemed interesting enough to note on here and get some thoughts from others if they see the same thing in their lives.
     
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    Did you get over-stimulated and thus your brain is not willing to do the activity for a time?
     
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    . Don't think so. More a case of when I stray from the higher quality range of women I find that I lose interest in the act it's self as if I don't really enjoy the experience or if I do it will carry over into the normal life. It does not fix it, but good makes you care less, and avg makes you lose all interest.
     
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    Variety is the spice of life? I find if I vary the type of women I see it seems to help. But I get bored too. I think we all do. Then when I need it again, I go for it.
     
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    I tend to agree, for the most part i don's see the same girl more then just the once. There are a couple of exceptions of course, but the vast majority its a one and done. And its all due to the variety. I have thought about having a non p4p situation to rely on, but that quickly turns into way more then you really want, and my circle of relationships will rear its head eventually and that would be less than ideal for me. Though it would be nice to find a married women who has no intention to get divorced to have a someone regular relationship with, i just don't have the energy to try and dig one up that is outside of my network.
     
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    Have you thought about requesting a unique scenario from a P4P provider you like, have seen before, and who might be up for some more kinky/risky stuff? Sometimes it's not about the girl, but more about the situation. I've found that when I fuck my main FWB in the same place over and over, we both tend to get bored. But the thought of railing her behind a vending machine in Kabukicho gives me an instant boner and makes her gush. Just a suggestion...
     
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    It's a thought. But if I was to do that I would take the time and energy to find a FWB again.
     
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    Well, you could always make a list of 2-3 things you want to do with a P4P girl and game them out in one or two sessions with standard drinks&chat in between. That whole contrast between publicly acceptable behavior and clandestine, nasty, risky shit is super hot. Be imaginative!
     

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