I kinda had a notion the other day that my punting sex life and my partner sex life share similar peaks and valleys. for a while i was looking for a night of fun with just about every trip in every country, most times just the once, but some times 2-3 times in a short period of time. but after a while i started going for quick convince vs planned quality evenings (due to just scheduling issues because of work) and i think it turned me off for a while as i haven't had a punt in months. maybe it was one too many last night late night dial for instant vagina encounters, but though tempted i just dont seem to have it in me to make the call. Even stuck in china for weeks and i couldn't bring myself to call (though i think that was more a security thing and the fact that you couldn't see 5 feet in front of you). Same thing with my partner, when i am in a punting cycle, i am always after her when i am home, its as if my sex drive is up to 11. but that fades pretty fast after a while as i think i just get sick and tired of having to do all the work in getting things going, that and its as exciting as watching bread rise. could it be that one just gets turned off by the experience in both cases and just loses the desire? or just a hormone cycle? dont know the answer there, but it seemed interesting enough to note on here and get some thoughts from others if they see the same thing in their lives.