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Banging multiple women without drama

Sorry for the late reply here. Of the girls I am seeing on Paddy, PJ and sugar dada, those girls all have multiple JPN papas and are banging them weekly.

If you think you are the single white knight, then maybe you should not be in sugar dating. Unless you are paying her magic # for monthly allowance.

Kind of dumb...but how much does the average sugar baby run? I am not wealthy but wouldnt mind seeing a cute girl and spoiling her up a bit for some GFE service.
 
ny advice on having a rotation in Japan without drama?
In the West, a couple can be sexually active, but aren't considered exclusive until they've had "the talk". Until that point, they're free to date other people. Most women are seeing and even banging multiple guys before you date them for the first time

Is it the same here in Japan? I read somewhere that casually dating multiple people is considered taboo here. If that's the case, what can I do to keep things at a friends-with-benefits level? Is there any way to have a rotation of multiple women a week without lying and cheating?
Not that I'm avoiding cheating out of morality, I simply can't be bothered to maintain alibis and stories.

The best options are either:

-Just basically lie and say "No I'm not seeing anyone else." For this to work effectively, you shouldn't really need too many alibis. Then continue to meet other girls and do what you like. For best effect, establish from the beginning taht you regularly have parties, or other girls coming over regularly so if she ever finds hairs in your bed or house that can be explained away. After that just empty your trash regularly. This is basically the "Japanese way" of treating the situation.

-If your Western guilt and morality is holding you back from this, then just go mostly honest. Tell girls "I might see other girls occasionally, but I'm interested in you and want to know you more." It's polite to not shove it in their face, of course.

In my case, I have literal large parties and streams of girls coming both into my house and to clubs and bars and events with me, so there's almost no chance they will believe I'm monogamous. I also tend to tell girls I sleep with for more than a couple times that I coach nanpa and pickup. It's never been an issue, but I don't really hide it for the most part. Although I do have two girlfriends, one is a porn actress and the other is a very sweet, petite, young office lady. The porn actress would not care if I sleep around, but the petite OL wants a romantic disney relationship so in her case I just tell her that I have these girls around just to fulfill the needs of both my coaching/business, the events and clubs attendance, etc. She says "I know you'll never be foolish enough to touch the 'tools of your trade'". Anyway, from each according to their jealousy to each according to their desires..
 
The best options are either:

-Just basically lie and say "No I'm not seeing anyone else." For this to work effectively, you shouldn't really need too many alibis. Then continue to meet other girls and do what you like. For best effect, establish from the beginning taht you regularly have parties, or other girls coming over regularly so if she ever finds hairs in your bed or house that can be explained away. After that just empty your trash regularly. This is basically the "Japanese way" of treating the situation.

-If your Western guilt and morality is holding you back from this, then just go mostly honest. Tell girls "I might see other girls occasionally, but I'm interested in you and want to know you more." It's polite to not shove it in their face, of course.

In my case, I have literal large parties and streams of girls coming both into my house and to clubs and bars and events with me, so there's almost no chance they will believe I'm monogamous. I also tend to tell girls I sleep with for more than a couple times that I coach nanpa and pickup. It's never been an issue, but I don't really hide it for the most part. Although I do have two girlfriends, one is a porn actress and the other is a very sweet, petite, young office lady. The porn actress would not care if I sleep around, but the petite OL wants a romantic disney relationship so in her case I just tell her that I have these girls around just to fulfill the needs of both my coaching/business, the events and clubs attendance, etc. She says "I know you'll never be foolish enough to touch the 'tools of your trade'". Anyway, from each according to their jealousy to each according to their desires..

Hey Sinapse. Interesting getting a reply from you, I was reading your book just the other day

I saw your interview with the Japanese girl last night, where you guys said seeing a girl once a week pretty much means relationship status here in Japan. Do you think seeing a girl once every TWO weeks could make it feel more casual? At what rate do you usually see women?

At any rate, I’ll definitely keep your advice in mind. Looks like I’ll have to buy some Koro Koro Carpet Cleaners for the hairs I’ve been finding in my apartment lately