Bliss out gangbang

[Zelgadis]

So I’m considering trying to go to bliss this Saturday for the gangbang event, but I’m a bit concerned that it might not work out for an overweight middle aged single guy. Can anyone share their opinion? I’ve always wanted to participate in a gangbang, but not sure if I want to spend that kind of money for nothing. I’m just trying to get a feel for how hopping this place is on Saturday nights

 

[User#8628]

Well, since the girl(s) are (not supposed to be) getting paid, you don't have the right to think you can actually participate in a gangbang. I don't know what this event is but unless there is some kind of deal, its hard for me to believe that there will be girls who want everyone in the place to join.

I think its relatistic to assume that if you go to a happening bar as a single guy, you most likely will just be the public for some action, and if you get invited to join, that is the jackpot, but don't count on it.

I don't know if you ever go to Europe, but Germany is famous for affordable gangbang events.
In Japan, sometimes parties like this are hosted, but they are not totally legal and require good Japanese to join.

There is also a J couple that organizes gangbangs with foreigners sometimes and not for a fee (maybe have to cover accommodation though), you might try to join them sometimes.

 

[Zelgadis]

Oh don’t get me wrong, I’m not thinking it’s my “right” to do anything. I know guys can be like that - I should have been more clear. What I’m saying is - I have body image issues like many people. I don’t have any experience with swinging although it fascinates me. Usually in the states I only hear about “select single males” being invited to these events. I’m trying to judge how crazy I am to think that I have a chance at this sort of event, given that this is an alien culture to me in a few ways. Thanks for sharing your thoughts though.

I know I can always P4P but I’m more interested in things like MFM, which isn’t usually on offer.

 

[impish]

its hard for me to believe that there will be girls who want everyone in the place to join

I would suspect that since they are advertising this night as a "gangbang event" that there is a higher than usual chance that the women going may be interested in exactly this. Looks like the women aren't being paid, and they do have to declare they are participating in the gangbang.

 

[Zelgadis]

I guess if I really try to distill my question down, it’s trying to evaluate my chances between “snowballs chance in hell” and “probably so long as I’m not a creep”. I suppose I get to attend a live show if nothing else.

 

[Desktop]

You can at least be sure it will not be empty... now.

 

[Zelgadis]

Has anyone here actually been to a gangbang event at bliss?

 

[Frenchy]

Has anyone here actually been to a gangbang event at bliss?

No (there are some limits to my own masochism, insecurities-wise) but went to a shibari event and it was nice. Purely based on voluntary participation , nobody forced to do anything, and there were more ladies than during a non-event night, from what people told me.
But I brought my lady (well in fact she was dying to enter that kind of place). To be honest I dont like guys who just bring their dick to the party. Dress well and bring an escort !

 

[Zelgadis]

Hmm interesting thought to bring an escort. I don’t know if that’s frowned upon. It’s not like the club people wouldn’t be able to tell

 

[Frenchy]

Hmm interesting thought to bring an escort. I don’t know if that’s frowned upon. It’s not like the club people wouldn’t be able to tell

Of course not. And from what I remember only me needed to show an ID for registration there (then you get a members card)

 

[User#8628]

I would suspect that since they are advertising this night as a "gangbang event" that there is a higher than usual chance that the women going may be interested in exactly this. Looks like the women aren't being paid, and they do have to declare they are participating in the gangbang.

There is always a chance that zero women will show up. Bliss Out is often a sausage fest already, and these conditions don't seem favorable for women and couples at all.
Sure, women who come to happening bars are often interested in group sex, but both women and couples often prefer not too big groups and don't want to let things get out of control.

Hmm interesting thought to bring an escort. I don’t know if that’s frowned upon. It’s not like the club people wouldn’t be able to tell

Certainly frowned upon IF you reveal it, but you are right, they are usually not able to tell.
Then again, you would have to find an escort who is ok with MFM and with a whole group of unknown men going at her for free, and since you also want to be on a budget that doesn't seem like it would appeal to many girls.

I've been to happening bars on a normal night and have selected about two guys to join with me and the one who invited me. I try to pick guys that are at least a bit my type, but people in happening bars are often not real stunners so i don't think your bodytype will be the main problem. Keep also in mind that this definitely goes for the women as well.

 

[Zelgadis]

I try to pick guys that are at least a bit my type, but people in happening bars are often not real stunners so i don't think your bodytype will be the main problem. Keep also in mind that this definitely goes for the women as well.

I suppose I have that going for me, I’ve never had much use for conventional standards. The fact you mention that no women might show up is what I’m worried about. Now that would not be good. I was worried that this happening club might not be very happening at all. Looks like that is a true statement

 

[joeking]

Would an escort consider going as social time, so she could just watch but the guy could get in without any trouble? Or would that identify them as escorts and have the happening bar kick them out?

 

[Frenchy]

Would an escort consider going as social time, so she could just watch but the guy could get in without any trouble? Or would that identify them as escorts and have the happening bar kick them out?

There is absolutely no obligation to do anything , be it for an escort or otherwise. In fact the room on 1F is just like a normal lounge bar . If you want to watch some action it’s on B1F. If you want to participate to this action you need to either bring your own lady or ask one already there (or a couple) and if she/they accept, only then you can enter the play room.

 

[Simonka]

Hmm interesting thought to bring an escort. I don’t know if that’s frowned upon. It’s not like the club people wouldn’t be able to tell

A lot of the club owners are actually happy when escorts bring their own clients. The more the merrier! Some European escorts from agencies, or freestyle escorts in Roppongi get drink backs from the clubs they visit, when they order expensive drinks or bottles. But i think it's just an incentive to drink way too much so I refrain from it, also I want to be honest with my clients. I don't think it's ethical to do that to someone who already generously pays you. I do bring my clients to clubs if they ask me to take them somewhere for nightlife entertainment / clubbing, but not Bliss out and I protect them from the pushy club owners and always tell them to pay by cash Not that I have issues with Bliss Out, so far no one has asked me to take them to that kind of entertainment venue.

One issue could be that things escalate quickly and the escort may be asked to participate. In that case I think paying her private time price would be a good idea, also some charge more for couples or MFM. Some don't accept such offers.

 

[DJnLJ]

Can't speak specifically to Bliss Out.

Lifestyle clubs that organize gang bangs often already have a few regular females that are interested in GB events. They will often try to set it up so that it is convenient for many of these females/couples to attend. Just like they do with other events that have special attendees (like BDSM).

As a single male the first rule is going to be: BE CLEAN. I mean super clean, especially your breath. After that be somewhat personable and not sheepish. At least not for a GB. It would help a lot more if you were a club regular, as that way people get to know you and you are more likely to be invited based on your personality.

As for looks, everyone likes different things, and people in the lifestyle come from all types. Clubs tend to cater towards different crowds though, Bliss just is one of the few that caters towards foreigners.

Paid companions, they may get you in the door, but if they are not playing, you are just another single guy. And if they appear to be extremely attractive and you are not, and they are not playing, everyone will sense that there is a reason why. I've known guys to bring escorts to lifestyle events, and if the escort is playing it can be pulled off well, but if not, you are more likely to be further ostracized.

 

[just4fun]

So what happened? Did you go?