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Break-up Gift and Break-up dinner

Hey, ya dump on me....I dump on you. (pun intended)
 
btw, I've done this twice....the box thing.
 
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The relationship is over. But you still have a chance of reversing this situation and ending it on your terms, not hers. Go to the dinner. Try to get her really drunk. Say or do whatever you need to do to get her in bed one last time. This would include lies about potential marriage, making a family etc. Whatever you think she might want to hear, let her hear it so you can get her in bed. Then bone her brains out including all of the normal forms of degredation you are so up to date on from watching so much porn. Then YOU ghost on her.
 
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Try to get her really drunk. Say or do whatever you need to do to get her in bed one last time. This would include lies about potential marriage, making a family etc. Whatever you think she might want to hear, let her hear it so you can get her in bed. Then bone her brains out including all of the normal forms of degredation you are so up to date on from watching so much porn
Lol, remember what happened last time you suggested something like this?
:rage::rage:
get your flame-retardent suit ready.
 
I'd take her there and bail on the check. I'd also shit in a box and wrap it up really nice and leave it on the floor next to her. I'm a sentimental guy.

Wow, now I understand why you chose Just4fun as your alias! :D
 
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I know I’m asking for trouble, but I just can’t stand to see a guy get fucked with like that.
So in short you're a white knight... for guys?:)
Sometimes revenge feels good but no need to be that drastic , if the guy truely feels wronged and bitter why not just inviting her for this last supper, start a very nice conversation, excuse himself to go to the toilets... and quietly disappear and leave the bill to the b**h (then ghosting). You need to find a restaurant with easy and discrete escaping possibilities though, like in a big hotel for instance.
 
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You are getting old and soft; you didn't propose raping the girl.
Let the record show that I NEVER proposed rape. I believe my wording was to provide "a good rogering", and I was careful to say that said rogering needed to be consensual.
 
So in short you're a white knight... for guys?:)
Sometimes revenge feels good but no need to be that drastic , if the guy truely feels wronged and bitter why not just inviting her for this last supper, start a very nice conversation, excuse himself to go to the toilets... and quietly disappear and leave the bill to the b**h (then ghosting). You need to find a restaurant with easy and discrete escaping possibilities though, like in a big hotel for instance.
That would be OK too. The box of shit idea is not bad either. But the only true revenge is to do to her what she did to him. A biblical, Old Testament Eye for and eye yarinige.
 
If you do meet her, make sure you jerk off first.
 
Let the record show that I NEVER proposed rape. I believe my wording was to provide "a good rogering", and I was careful to say that said rogering needed to be consensual.
That would be OK too. The box of shit idea is not bad either. But the only true revenge is to do to her what she did to him. A biblical, Old Testament Eye for and eye yarinige.
If it’s consensual.. why would you need to get her “really drunk”?

As far as we know.. she didn’t lie to him. She just proposed a very stupid idea and he hasn’t gone through with it yet (hopefully).
 
If it’s consensual.. why would you need to get her “really drunk”?

As far as we know.. she didn’t lie to him. She just proposed a very stupid idea and he hasn’t gone through with it yet (hopefully).[/QUOTE

I wouldn't approve of getting someone drunk to get them to the point of being unable to make good decisions. I would though undulge together with a fine lady in copious amounts of fine claret with the hopes that she might become amorous and toss caution to the wind.

She didn't lie to him. True. She ditched him though. You don't just ditch someone after two years. Uncool. Right? Its not about revenge. Its not about teaching a lesson. It is about the OP regaining his pride and self confidence.
 
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Break-up sex can be a mutually rewarding way to end a relationship, but it depends on the mindset of each party. It has happened to me, too.
The first time, I was sure that the deed would serve as our one last memory. The problem was she wanted to make amends, repair what was broken and continue with the relationship. The result: drama and an even messier uncoupling.
A few years later, I was on the other side of the equation. I wanted to hold on and salvage our relationship after break-up sex. More drama followed. Getting my heart kicked to the curb was hard.
On a lighter note: I’m a big fan of Tom Selleck’s Jesse Stone TV movies. Great stuff.
Seems like we had a similar experience. Ain’t no fun being on the wrong side of heartbreak.
 
That’s horrible.

I dated a Japanese guy for a few months and he ghosted on me out of nowhere.. blocked me on social media, messaging apps, everything.. just because he couldn’t tell me that he wanted to end our relationship. It was shocking, but I accepted it and moved on fairly quickly.

Ghosting or “silent breakups” seem to be common in Japan. Maybe because a lot of Japanese people are non-confrontational? I’ve wondered if Japanese people also find it rude when it happens to them..

I wouldn’t go on one last date. You already wasted 2 years of your life with that person.
 
Folks you’re only getting one side of the story. You don’t know her side. Maybe he deserves leaving. Who knows? But to say that she needs to be compromised by alchol, shit on, and otherwise degraded because she chose to break off her relationship with him is despicable. What kind of humans propose that kind of nutty behavior? That ruins all chance of getting back together.
 
That ruins all chance of getting back together.

Well, that may be the point for some people. If they are not sure about their own will of mind they might try to break things horribly to make sure they will never make the same mistake of starting with her again.

I am an old fashioned guy and I recommend being nice to the girls you date, even when they don't deserve it. At least you can think about the break-up later and not feel shitty about your own actions.
 
Folks you’re only getting one side of the story. You don’t know her side. Maybe he deserves leaving. Who knows? But to say that she needs to be compromised by alchol, shit on, and otherwise degraded because she chose to break off her relationship with him is despicable. What kind of humans propose that kind of nutty behavior? That ruins all chance of getting back together.
Its how she did it. Nobody said to shit on her. Just to do back to her what she did to him.....
 
Well, that may be the point for some people. If they are not sure about their own will of mind they might try to break things horribly to make sure they will never make the same mistake of starting with her again.

I am an old fashioned guy and I recommend being nice to the girls you date, even when they don't deserve it. At least you can think about the break-up later and not feel shitty about your own actions.
I agree with this. Be nice. But there is a limit. And I hate to see people get stepped on.
 
I hope the OP comes back with the update on this and whether or not he went through with it.

More probable is though he is chilling with beers with the envelope man and the guy who found the Japanese AV-star for under 10k.