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Café Kirari Shibuya – Okay Times with Cute Yu

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Pardon my Newbie commentary – this was a first for me.

After spending one hour at Flamingo, a sekukyaba in Shibuya, I decided to drop by this place to see who might be available. As per my usual routine, upon reaching the reception desk, I launched into my friendly introduction in Japanese which put the tencho at ease.

I paid the ¥2,500 entry fee, found a seat and scanned the room on the other side of the magic mirror. Obviously, it's always the luck of the draw anytime one visits any place as a walk-in. It looked like slim pickings. There were about 5 girls, most of whom look like depressed frumpy librarians. One girl was definitely overweight.

Then I spotted Yu, who is slender, has a cute face and is taller than average (165 cm as I discovered later). I walked out to the reception and the tencho seemed surprised that someone had caught my eye so quickly.

I had a nice conversation with Yu and asked her how much she would like for dinner. She quoted ¥20,000 so I agreed. Yes, I might have overpaid, but she's cute and 165 cm, so I wanted to seal the deal and not eat alone.

We ended up going to a really good Korean BBQ place not far from Café Kirari. It was fun. I enjoyed dinner and conversation with Yu. I drank beer and she drank juice, although I tried to put her at ease by telling her that it was not my goal to make her drunk.

We had a nice time and exchanged LINE IDs.

We chatted for a few days and decided to go on another date. The plan we agreed upon was dinner, then Skytree.

Soon after we agreed upon that, Yu asked for ¥30,000 because it was going to be a longer date. I replied that I would pay ¥20,000. She replied "Okay."

Dinner was nice. One odd thing occurred at the start of dinner. When Yu first arrived and sat down, she immediately asked for her money, which I thought was unusual. Maybe that's not a good sign. I thought she would want to be more discreet. It didn't matter to me. She quickly put it into her wallet.

She allowed me to take a few pictures of her and our waiter took a picture of the both of us, the latter of which she promised to send to me. At the end of dinner, we agreed to cancel the Skytree because of the rainy-cloudy weather. After all, visibility was probably extremely limited.

When we parted, I gave her a goodbye hug which she seemed to be okay with. And then as she stepped away, she high fived me, which was interesting. She did that the night of our first date too and another J-Girl did that too. Is this high five thing a new thing among J-Girls?

Anyway, she seems to have ghosted me. I sent her the pictures I took of her, along with a friendly little message, both of which she has yet to read. No big deal because I'm back in the U.S. and she is in Tokyo. It's just that I was considering her as a potential option for future trips.

I'll probably try Café Kirari again – schedule permitting.
 
You should have gone to the reverse Kirari in Shibuya close to Baskin Robbins. Girls will be the one choosing and you won’t be sitting down for long, they’re just DTF.
 
You should have gone to the reverse Kirari in Shibuya close to Baskin Robbins. Girls will be the one choosing and you won’t be sitting down for long, they’re just DTF.
Thank you. The dinner route was my choice. I had already enjoyed an excellent session earlier. Otherwise, I would have requested the Love Hotel route. If that was the case, and Yu said "no," I would have explored other options.
 
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Thank you. The dinner route was my choice. I had already enjoyed an excellent session earlier. Otherwise, I would have requested the Love Hotel route. If that was the case, and Yu said "no," I would have explored other options.
I think probably you got a luke warm experience because she was there for a hotel date. in my experience kirari is mostly just for hookups, whereas other avenues are more for actual sugar dating. the girls at kirari are often time focused too which is likely why she asked for more money when the date went longer
 
I think probably you got a luke warm experience because she was there for a hotel date. in my experience kirari is mostly just for hookups, whereas other avenues are more for actual sugar dating. the girls at kirari are often time focused too which is likely why she asked for more money when the date went longer
I mean yeah. From the point of view of a guy, 20.000 is a lot for dinner. But from the point of view of a girl who is not opposed to hooking up with strangers, they can make the same money in half the time in a hotel room.
 
You should have gone to the reverse Kirari in Shibuya close to Baskin Robbins. Girls will be the one choosing and you won’t be sitting down for long, they’re just DTF.
So I sit my fat bald ass down and the young beautiful ladies offer me money for small penis action that results in a fake orgasm? SIGN. ME. UP.
 
20k for dinner only?
I’ve done meal and social outings for similar or more. when you don’t want to be a loner outside, it can be worth it for the convenience. if he’s been in the scene since ‘94, utility from money is likely very low vs time. eventually the primary tradeoffs become time and money.
 
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I mean yeah. From the point of view of a guy, 20.000 is a lot for dinner. But from the point of view of a girl who is not opposed to hooking up with strangers, they can make the same money in half the time in a hotel room.
First, I was on vacation. Second, I have a セフレ here in the U.S. I usually meet at her place. We hang out, we have sex, then go out to dinner. In the case of Yu, paying her 20,000 yen and going to dinner is less expensive than my typical dinner with my セフレ. I have always used Our Hobby as a supplement to my dating and sex life. Although, the older I get, my dating options might start to decrease.
 
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When we parted, I gave her a goodbye hug which she seemed to be okay with. And then as she stepped away, she high fived me, which was interesting. She did that the night of our first date too and another J-Girl did that too. Is this high five thing a new thing among J-Girls?
Gone on a couple dates with a FOB J-girl here in New York, early twenties and was high-fived twice as well. I didn't think much of it until I saw this post but perhaps it is popular with the yute.
 
Was the high five (or "high touch" as they call it here) similar to the ones they do in this commercial?



I always lol when I see that in the subway. It's like if a bunch of aliens saw people high fiving each other and it's their first attempt at imitating this strange human behavior.

Edit: And to add to the cringe, I just realized how hilariously over protected those 3 girls are. They're decked out in helmets, knee pads, elbow pads and even gloves for some reason. No one else is wearing any of that. And they got all armored up just so they can show them riding really slowly for a few sec and then kicking up their skateboards.
 
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Was the high five (or "high touch" as they call it here) similar to the ones they do in this commercial?



I always lol when I see that in the subway. It's like if a bunch of aliens saw people high fiving each other and it's their first attempt at imitating this strange human behavior.

I would call it an "around the world" ハイタッチ for lack of a better term. Both times she wound up low and swung her arm out from behind before meeting me up high. There is like a 30cm height gap between us but I'm not sure if that's any more convincing than her being an alien.
 
I just realized how hilariously over protected those 3 girls are. They're decked out in helmets, knee pads, elbow pads and even gloves for some reason. No one else is wearing any of that. And they got all armored up just so they can show them riding really slowly for a few sec and then kicking up their skateboards.
It's Kawaii.
 
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Gone on a couple dates with a FOB J-girl here in New York, early twenties and was high-fived twice as well. I didn't think much of it until I saw this post but perhaps it is popular with the yute.
Did you use a Dating App? OKCupid is the only one that I use after I left Match and Tinder.
 
Did you use a Dating App? OKCupid is the only one that I use after I left Match and Tinder.
I've retired from the apps. All in person.

There are a number of Japanese hotspots and events in the city and you can find a lot of FOBs looking to make friends there.
 
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