Okay, I've been trying to put myself out there and trying to meet people and I got three different experiences that I considered are the worsts. I will start from the least annoying.
(1) Been looking up in personal section in craigslist, there's these posts that look for beautiful woman, for hang out (no sex), lunch dinner and it says model/fashionable girl for going out, the post said he loves fashion and he is a guy so he would like to take a beautiful girl out shopping. There are about 5 different posts like that and different captions that looks for a beautiful model like girl and the guy is willing to pay for dinner/ shopping, travel and stuffs like that,I message those all and turned out to be coming from one guy. So when I had to go to tokyo, I met up with him, at my convenient place, the guy is very nice, very polite, but he looks like a homeless guy, not dirty and all just his clothes and bag are all worn off like completely broke. Even if I saw how unsophisticated he was, I didn't dare judge a book by it's cover. I still went to a restaurant with him, since he came to the place I chose. When we were talking he was very nice. However, he started telling me that he was unemployed because he is taking care of a disabled family member, and they probably lives on welfare I'm not sure. I also notice we just had one food, drinks were non existent and I figured he probably doesn't have money, so when the bill came I paid out of consideration and went to the station and bid goodbye. Why would he post stuff like he will shop for the girl, whatever if he has practically nothing, is he crazy?
(2) There was this older guy I met on seeking arrangement site. We decided to go for dinner, the meeting place was 2 hour away from me. So I went there and even got lost, eventually we found each other he looks soo small haha, we went to dinner in an upscale hotel restaurant and he enjoyed soo much, he even keep telling me how beautiful, good conversationalist I am, I on the other hand was soooo pissed but contained it. He was soo literally fucking arrogant. He has god complex and he think that he is the most precious, powerful in the world. His ego is as high as the everest and I petted him. He even told me about all his other potential sugar baby first date and how he hated every girl who just seeks money from him, there was this girl who wanted to start the arrangement immediately (i was thinking, coz you probably wanna fuck her immediately) I put up with him coz he could be a potential sugar daddy. And then dinner was finished we decided to take a stroll, when we were out and walking, he would always want to put his hand on my shoulder, which they don't reach lol. I needed to stoop to his level which is super duper tiring. I tried just holding his hand but he wont budge he really want to hold me on the shoulder and probably get the feeling of dominating me. Lol. Until we saw a tall apartment he asked me to come over to his places saying sexy suggestive things, but those words coming from him are not sex, they were disgusting and considering how he bad mouthed the girls he went out with who wanted arrangment he seemed like he didn't even want an arrangement just free fuck, lol (he would be too lucky for that) so before going back to the station I was expecting some gift cash for my fare and time, he gave me a bottle of water, I'm like what the fuck. I wasted too much time and I had to go home and travel for another two fucking hours standing on the train.
(3) This is the worst and a nightmare for me. When I wad looking up for a sugar daddy a guy messaged me. He sent me a photo he is young and white. I told him no, I am not interested in him as I am interested more on older gentlemen who could be a regular sugar daddy. He said I could pay you this amout (which is quite high) for a one night hook up, I really needed the money so I agreed. We talked on phone for quite a long time, and out convesation was great he was really nice. We previously arrranged to meet somewhere in between out place as I am three hours away from him. But then last minute he had to make it him place and offered additional money for my trouble. So I went to his station which was soooo fucking far took me 4 changes of trains, there were incidents of train stopping and everything, I was one heck of a ride and it was freezing cold. Found his there and we decided to go for coffee, he is indeed nice. So after coffee we went to the parking lot and get in his car, and before we pass by the ticket parking he told me, I am not sure if I have enough for parking, he seemed nervous. And I just disregard it, pretended to ignore it. And then his ticket got okay and he enthusiastically said, it worked! And then I thought we would be heading for a love hotel or something, but no, we just kept rounding and rounding the place. And I asked him where are we going and he said just showing me the place (there is nothing interesting to look at), and then we pulled over into this dark residential area and he said listen, I gotta be very honest with you, the money that I promise, I haven't really got it, and he said he promise he would get me the next time (which is bullshit) if I continue seeing him. He tried to touch me on the car in the dsrk residential area, turns out he didn't even have money for a love hotel, and he noticed I tensed up so he stopped just went back to where we were before and I told him (feeling very very upset) to just take me back to the station and I'm off to go back to my home and take 3 hours of train ride and got nothing butt wasted time, effort and train money. Just to be clear the night before we decided to meet, we talked on phone agreed on the amount by email, I wasn't even the one who suggested, it was him who offered. So I thought he have it. Turns out that he didn't even have a parking ticket money. WTF!!!!! After that he called on phone i gave him a chance to explain but all he was saying was sorry sorry sorry, I understand you had to go through that trouble, I'm so sorry. His sorry couldn't do anything now. He is such a liar jerk who doesn't have a word.
These people I met are probably mentally challenged or they probably have issues. The first one, why would he offer to take a girl out shooping if he is fucking unemployed? The second one,why would he be in seeking arrangement if he didn't want an arrangement and just want free fuck which he wouldn't get from anybody considering how old and ugly and short he is but more importantly, how his attitude sucks he is such a stucked up asshole. And the last one, don't even get me started. Why would you promise money to someone and make then travel a total of more than 6 hours to your place if you literally have nothing even for a parking fee? The only consolation I have is that I never have had sex with of those mentally ill people. I should probably stop meeting people considering how it turned out.