So, it looks like there are two kinds of people :
#1.
The ones who seek true love and who would prefer to remain single until they find it.
#2.
The ones who of course would be happy to find true love but choose to have at least some fun with any descent partner until they find it with someone else.
I've often despised #1 people because by remaining single so long they don't build experience (they often are the worst kind of people to date because of that), they are left with building frustration most of the time. However I admire those who manage to be spared by frustration, finding unlimited happiness outside partnerships.
I'm the #2 kind of person. Mainly because I hate sleeping alone, I'm not asexual and I constantly need someone to provide me with something new (personality, experience, etc.). The sad part is that deep inside me I'm rooting for true/deep love which is kind of unproductive if you ask me. But I can't help it.
Twice I've had exceptional dreams at night, dreams that filled me with unlimited love/admiration for someone I've never seen before. Some may call it a spiritual experience but in my case I think that it's just my brain desperately begging for true love. After these dreams, reality has a sour taste and feels really dull.
So there I am, at 47, again with a new girlfriend 25 years younger than me, trying to enjoy a new personality, learning new things etc. but knowing that I'll be repeating that cycle over and over frustrated by the lack of the powerful love I felt in my dreams.
You're #1 or #2?
What's your take on this?
#1.
The ones who seek true love and who would prefer to remain single until they find it.
#2.
The ones who of course would be happy to find true love but choose to have at least some fun with any descent partner until they find it with someone else.
I've often despised #1 people because by remaining single so long they don't build experience (they often are the worst kind of people to date because of that), they are left with building frustration most of the time. However I admire those who manage to be spared by frustration, finding unlimited happiness outside partnerships.
I'm the #2 kind of person. Mainly because I hate sleeping alone, I'm not asexual and I constantly need someone to provide me with something new (personality, experience, etc.). The sad part is that deep inside me I'm rooting for true/deep love which is kind of unproductive if you ask me. But I can't help it.
Twice I've had exceptional dreams at night, dreams that filled me with unlimited love/admiration for someone I've never seen before. Some may call it a spiritual experience but in my case I think that it's just my brain desperately begging for true love. After these dreams, reality has a sour taste and feels really dull.
So there I am, at 47, again with a new girlfriend 25 years younger than me, trying to enjoy a new personality, learning new things etc. but knowing that I'll be repeating that cycle over and over frustrated by the lack of the powerful love I felt in my dreams.
You're #1 or #2?
What's your take on this?