What does it take to get her to have sex with you? I won’t question your performance but could it be her drive? How old are you two, if I may ask. I know for some women, especially Japanese, seem to lose their sex drive once they pass their thirties, especially if they feel pessimistic about finding a man. Then again, I have met older Japanese women with active sex drives as well. But let her know when you want it, it comes from a place of love, and not for the sake of having sex. That’s what I do with my wife.
I have been married for the last six years, and the sex has been less (especially with a kid). But when we do it, it is certainly worthwhile and find ways to keep things fresh and fun. I always let my wife know that I am attracted to her and always show her affection. When she’s wearing something like yoga pants and a tank top, I can’t help but get an erection and I let her know it when possible. She likes that she turns me on in some way. She knows she has my attention, and that tends to motivate her. My wife and I are only six months apart in age and she still looks over ten years younger than me. I want her to know that. I always buy her micro bikinis and Calvin Klein thongs to let her know that she’s still desirable to me. We may not do it every night, but when we do, we make it worth it.
I would go to soaplands, but there’s a different feeling when you do it with a woman you love, especially when you do it raw. I love the sensation of cumming inside my wife. It’s nothing you can get anywhere else.
