creating mood for fap / sex

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so when you want to fap / having sex but not in a mood to do that, what you guys / girls usually do to enter the mood ?
 
I found a google translation and believe I might understand the question. It's like a woman who needs things to be just right before sex is an option. I do my best to stay away from women like that.

I am almost 60 and still waiting for that point in my life when sex isn't the first thing on my mind. Even when I was recovering in a hospital after surgery I could easily have performed with a few of the nurses.
 
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hibikifeza said:
so when you want to fap / having sex but not in a mood to do that, what you guys / girls usually do to enter the mood ?
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Enter the trains in Tokyo during the peak commute.

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Mmm. Imagine some erotic situations, listen to sensual music, softly touch your body on non sexual places.

Also not cool to make fun of someone for not having the same libido as you. If anything, its useful to not have to think of sex the whole day.
 
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User#8628 said:
Mmm. Imagine some erotic situations, listen to sensual music, softly touch your body on non sexual places.

Also not cool to make fun of someone for not having the same libido as you. If anything, its useful to not have to think of sex the whole day.
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I wasn't making fun of him, I really don't understand how can someone not be in the mood and still want to fap.
If he said "need to" instead of "want to" (for example if he has to fap to give his sperm for medical check) that would make more sense.

Also I'm not sure sensual music works for guys ...
 
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e-smile said:
I wasn't making fun of him, I really don't understand how can someone not be in the mood and still want to fap.
If he said "need to" instead of "want to" (for example if he has to fap to give his sperm for medical check) that would make more sense.

Also I'm not sure sensual music works for guys ...
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Not directly to you but all of the comments on this were not really serious.
I dont know either, but some guys put on music during play. I had one experience where someone kept "shape of you" on replay the whole time. Haha!
 
User#8628 said:
Not directly to you but all of the comments on this were not really serious.
I dont know either, but some guys put on music during play. I had one experience where someone kept "shape of you" on replay the whole time. Haha!
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good music, good smell, candle light are indeed making the atmosphere better... with or without sex.
 
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Yeah having a partner not in the mood makes sense..

But I can't imagine a situation where I would want to fap but not be in the mood. If I wasn't in the mood.. I just wouldn't want to fap?
 
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e-smile said:
I can't make fun of people with low libido cause I actually envy them.
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Actually being able to think clearly would be an ability that would make you millions. :ROFLMAO:
 
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uh sorry dumb me, yeah i meant need to fap not want to lulz, thx for the correction
 
User#8628 said:
Not directly to you but all of the comments on this were not really serious.
I dont know either, but some guys put on music during play. I had one experience where someone kept "shape of you" on replay the whole time. Haha!
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I am guilty:notworthy:

OK, after being chastised by Alice:cry: for flippancy, I'll endeavor to seriously address the OP's original concern.

In order to do so, I need to understand something that I don't, perhaps a case of low mental libido on my part.

Like, I guess I need to need to be serious not want to. Sorry, Alice, I tried.:whistle:

But, back to my need for clarification, before I can give a serious response.

Please explain the circumstances. What is the purpose of the fap? (Oh, how I'm hoping John Chavers will take notice and place that on his Wall of Fame)
 
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User#8628 said:
I had one experience where someone kept "shape of you" on replay the whole time. Haha!
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And that didn't result in a murder-suicide?!

Seriously though, if not in the mood, there would be a reason. Find out what it is and you can resolve the issue.
 
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User#8628 said:
It did get kind of annoying, but sometimes you have to endure things ;)
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Now, ain't that the truth! It's truly a motto to live by.

For example,

My wife likes to hum and sing when she's in the mood. I find it massively annoying-like for fifteen years now. I keep my mouth shut and tell myself that I should be grateful she's so happy. And after a while, I start to believe myself.
 
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hibikifeza said:
uh sorry dumb me, yeah i meant need to fap not want to lulz, thx for the correction
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what about porn ? doesn't it trigger you ?
sometimes I fap on porn even if I'm super sleepy and just to wash my memory when I'm back home after a drunk fuck session with a friend who's "not my cup of tea" if you know what I mean.
 
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e-smile said:
when I'm back home after a drunk fuck session with a friend who's "not my cup of tea" if you know what I mean.
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That's the reason there are girls patrolling most of the train stations late at night! You should be shamed to take away their livelihood by doing it yourself! :D
 
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e-smile said:
you need a looker to wash some memories and I don't think those kind of girls are particularly good looking are they ?
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Matthew 7:7 says "seek, and ye shall find".
 
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