Cute VS. Sexy

Which look do you prefer?

  • Cute

    Votes: 21 36.2%

  • Sexy

    Votes: 13 22.4%

  • Both

    Votes: 24 41.4%
  • Total voters
    58
Frenchy said:
I agree . I think its hard to be good at both, a « cute » girl trying to look « sexy » can be a fail, and vice-versa.
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Ariana Grande nails it. apart from that, can't think of anyone that pulls of the cute and sexy look.
 
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Frenchy said:
You will understand when its too late
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That's a curious thing to say Frenchy! In my experience, both cute girls and sexy girls can be either good relationships or bad relationships depending on other factors. It's really the other things, like priorities, loyalty, maturity, certain personality traits etc that determine whether they are going to destroy you or not.
 
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Viggagadye said:
That's a curious thing to say Frenchy! In my experience, both cute girls and sexy girls can be either good relationships or bad relationships depending on other factors. It's really the other things, like priorities, loyalty, maturity, certain personality traits etc that determine whether they are going to destroy you or not.
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Yes, of course you’re right. I just meant that everything else being equal its better to be with a person who stays sexy than one who stays cute. After 20 or 30 years together that may make the difference between still having sex together ... or not!
 
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TheScientist said:
Theres a couple of middle aged women in my neighborhood who try to look "cute" and it just weirds me out
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Well, I believe if you try to force a style it will always just be creepy. I know some middle aged women who still think they look as hot as when they were twenty and when they dress for sexy it's better not to be around to see that if you want to keep your lunch in.

So much better to be a man. It's totally acceptable to be old, fat and ugly as long as you can pay their asking price.
 
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MikeH said:
Well, I believe if you try to force a style it will always just be creepy. I know some middle aged women who still think they look as hot as when they were twenty and when they dress for sexy it's better not to be around to see that if you want to keep your lunch in.

So much better to be a man. It's totally acceptable to be old, fat and ugly as long as you can pay their asking price.
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Yes. Also we don’t really need to dress sexy
 
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MikeH said:
Well, I believe if you try to force a style it will always just be creepy. I know some middle aged women who still think they look as hot as when they were twenty and when they dress for sexy it's better not to be around to see that if you want to keep your lunch in.

So much better to be a man. It's totally acceptable to be old, fat and ugly as long as you can pay their asking price.
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Hey, you gotta believe to make things work. Sometimes convincing only yourself can be enough.

Either way, its a know fact that sex workers and foreigners who come to Japan stay the same age from the moment they start to work/start living in Japan so many of us here don’t have to worry about time creeping up on us. :)
 
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User#8628 said:
Definitely a mix of both.
Well, you know my style, i hope i’m nailing both. ;)
If i had to choose i prefer sexy, but i feel like i have to go more for cute in Japan. I don’t want people to guess that i’m 10 years older than my actual age. I basically stopped wearing tiger print because i noticed i got less positive attention from the men here if i did. I think for patterns and colors i do more cute things now, but my clothes are almost always skin tight. Wide clothes are completely unflattering and these wide sport shirts that have been trending in Japan the past few years disgust me, and even if i wanted to wear them, they don’t work with big boobs.

Something i’m also really into lately is the elegant style like long dresses and enka singers and snack bar owners in kimono. I’m planning to become like this when i’m old but i fear it may die out (how long are snack bars and enka still gonna be a thing anyway?)
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You absolutely capture the cute/sexy look in that little dress of yours featured on your website. Still remember seeing you put that on and then taking you to dinner.
 
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sealax said:
You absolutely capture the cute/sexy look in that little dress of yours featured on your website. Still remember seeing you put that on and then taking you to dinner.
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MikeH said:
Amen, brother.

In general I like variety so with escorts one day I might go for cute, the next for sexy. But what is always good for longer relationships is if the girl looks like she ain't going to take any shit from anyone. And the bonus is that kind of look keeps the local guys from trying too so less competition. :eek::D
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Well now I wonder does that kinda more display a lack of confidence in you my friend? If another guy makes a move on my babe, I sort him out in no uncertain terms immediately. Thats my job. I dont leave it to her. I go for cute absolutely and cute Japanese women are so beautiful. But you cant find such cute women in Europe.The key thing is that I live in Europe not Japan. I wonder is it that you lucky guys who live in Japan are getting so used to these absolutely amazing cute Japanese beauties that you are taking them for granted and missing the "sexy" ( Man-eater) western-style women? Even when Japanese women come to Europe, I have noticed that they adopt to European attitudes and are nowhere near as attractive as women inside Japan. So thank your lucky cards and enjoy your Japanese Cute Japanese women- us guys outsisde of Japan would love to have your choice.:)

Grass is always greener etc.
 
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Natural ladies cute any day. My wife she may claim 5ft..just cute as fuck and when she goes for sexy it happens. I’m down with cute. When we check escorts never look for sexy we look for a fit who will gel with us.
 
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earnesteric said:
Well now I wonder does that kinda more display a lack of confidence in you my friend? If another guy makes a move on my babe, I sort him out in no uncertain terms immediately.
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If you actually read it you might have noticed it discusses events before I even approach the girl. So she ain't even my girl that time.

But even when she is my girl I am perfectly fine watching other guys try to pick her up. It's fun to watch them: first they drool, then they try and then they fail. How's that for confidence? :ROFLMAO:
 
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earnesteric said:
Well now I wonder does that kinda more display a lack of confidence in you my friend? If another guy makes a move on my babe, I sort him out in no uncertain terms immediately. Thats my job. I dont leave it to her. I go for cute absolutely and cute Japanese women are so beautiful. But you cant find such cute women in Europe.The key thing is that I live in Europe not Japan. I wonder is it that you lucky guys who live in Japan are getting so used to these absolutely amazing cute Japanese beauties that you are taking them for granted and missing the "sexy" ( Man-eater) western-style women? Even when Japanese women come to Europe, I have noticed that they adopt to European attitudes and are nowhere near as attractive as women inside Japan. So thank your lucky cards and enjoy your Japanese Cute Japanese women- us guys outsisde of Japan would love to have your choice.:)

Grass is always greener etc.
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Did you accidentally put soy-milk in your cheerios this morning and now you're having a placebo driven hormonal crises?

Just asking.
 
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A lot of J-Girls are good at combining both. Although I agree with some posters - it's not good when they go overboard with cute ...

For fun, I like both. For a relationship, I like sexy and smart.

Early in her career, 松嶋菜々子 was cute and sexy. At 172 cm, she's at that height range that really starts to grab my attention. For me, the perfect height for a J-Girl is 180 cm. One of my dream J-Girls would be 180 cm, wearing a charcoal gray suit/skirt combo, and graduated with a STEM degree ... Of course, another dream J-Girl would be a 180 cm Race Queen/Car Show Model ...
 
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Mathias said:
Cute and slim is nice.......
Sexy and slim is nice.......
Cute and curvy is nice.....
Sexy and curvy is HOT...;););)

Just my opinion!
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We all have our different tastes - which is great. That’s what helps make the world special.

However, during the past 5 years or so, some people have changed the usage of the word “curvy.”
 
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