I posted something in TAG earlier about sleeping with my Japanese teacher. We’ll, she told me that she probably shouldn’t teach me anymore but asked if we could maybe go on a date together. She is a lot younger than I am (a bit over a decade) and I haven’t anybody around that age, let alone a Japanese girl (ok half Japanese but she grew up here). I am super happy she took charge of the situation because I am not sure I would’ve asked her out (I feel like I’m totally out of her league).
This is all well and good, but I am also dating around (I’ve been dating a couple of Chinese girls on and off since June), so I am now on a bit of a situation where I am dating two girls (no mention of exclusivity with either st this point).
My question is a bit more a cultural one because I am a barbarian who doesn’t quite understand Japanese dating culture yet. I know there is no one-size-fits-alll answer, but generally, is there a cultural expectation of exclusivity when starting to date here? I’d ask my date, but she might no longer be my date if I do.
This is all well and good, but I am also dating around (I’ve been dating a couple of Chinese girls on and off since June), so I am now on a bit of a situation where I am dating two girls (no mention of exclusivity with either st this point).
My question is a bit more a cultural one because I am a barbarian who doesn’t quite understand Japanese dating culture yet. I know there is no one-size-fits-alll answer, but generally, is there a cultural expectation of exclusivity when starting to date here? I’d ask my date, but she might no longer be my date if I do.