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Dear All,
I am a french man, recently (6 months ago) arrived to Tokyo for work, mid-30s, athletic,..etc
Trying to learn japanese, now able to communicate basically
Looking for some advice from experienced people here about the dating game.
1) looking for SF, FWB, NSA, ONS, ....
2) target : from 18 to 45 years
3) my experience during these 6 months.
- 17 ladies : from 21 to 42
- 3 gaijin and 14 Japanese
- 3 of the japanese spoke good english the rest was terrible
- 3 (japanese) in real contact (river, dotour, pub) and 14 (japanese and gaijin) from apps (Tinder, okc)
- had sex with 12 over 14
I had 2 to 3 ladies in parallel and used to meet them one a week each and switching for the weekends.
It was tough because most of them wanted a boyfriend and to be honest i was horny and i faked the relationship but at a certain point it was hard to handle, the other were ONS and no real chemistry to keep in touch or bad sex.
The reason i detailed all this, is to show that I did my best to find out SF or FWB (in real, apps) but I keep ending with woman who want a relationship.
It was easier for me in Europe but here i am kind of lost.
You will probably say that the language is a barrier, I do agree and I am actually working on it and learning.
So while improving my japanese I would like to get an advice on :
where is the best place to find SF, FWB ? (any districts, places,...), (any specific app?....)
Thanks in advance
I am a french man, recently (6 months ago) arrived to Tokyo for work, mid-30s, athletic,..etc
Trying to learn japanese, now able to communicate basically
Looking for some advice from experienced people here about the dating game.
1) looking for SF, FWB, NSA, ONS, ....
2) target : from 18 to 45 years
3) my experience during these 6 months.
- 17 ladies : from 21 to 42
- 3 gaijin and 14 Japanese
- 3 of the japanese spoke good english the rest was terrible
- 3 (japanese) in real contact (river, dotour, pub) and 14 (japanese and gaijin) from apps (Tinder, okc)
- had sex with 12 over 14
I had 2 to 3 ladies in parallel and used to meet them one a week each and switching for the weekends.
It was tough because most of them wanted a boyfriend and to be honest i was horny and i faked the relationship but at a certain point it was hard to handle, the other were ONS and no real chemistry to keep in touch or bad sex.
The reason i detailed all this, is to show that I did my best to find out SF or FWB (in real, apps) but I keep ending with woman who want a relationship.
It was easier for me in Europe but here i am kind of lost.
You will probably say that the language is a barrier, I do agree and I am actually working on it and learning.
So while improving my japanese I would like to get an advice on :
where is the best place to find SF, FWB ? (any districts, places,...), (any specific app?....)
Thanks in advance
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