Difference between Sex with wife and with escort

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  1. tad3239

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    This is a question for the married members , obviously .

    I was thinking that maybe with the wife you are accustomed to each other making everything better , plus the emotional side which could elevate the sex . But maybe it gets boring over time ?

    but , the escort is more experienced, you don’t have to focus on her having a good time and also you can explore more of your sexuality if you want

    but I would really like to know the opinions of the more experienced members .So would the members care to add to this ?
     
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    It's like supporting the Wallabies vs supporting the All Blacks.
    Wallabies win once in a while and makes you dream for more.
    All Blacks win most of the time and play with speed, grace and sophistication.

    Once in a Blue moon supporting the Wallabies works, whereas you know you're gonna get excited every time the All Blacks play.

    That's why watching the Wallabies play the All Blacks is the game made in heaven.
     
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  4. Ivanhoe

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    With the escorts you can always be yourself but with your wife you can not always be yourself.
    Having sex with the escort is like having food in a restaurant and having sex with the wife is like having food at home.
    But always be convinced about the fact that women are more intelligent than men..(Women know less but understand more).
     
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    So what you're saying is arrange a threesome with @Mischa Maxwell and a Kiwi?
     
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    Ive not gotten bored of sex with my wife, and its been over 10 years.

    Main difference between sex with escort and wife for me, is that im lazy with escorts. If im paying for it, im more self-centered and just there for my own enjoyment. I still enjoy things like giving oral but the difference is if the escort hasnt cum (or pretended to) once im a bit bored or tired Ill just move on to sex or whatever makes me feel good. With the wife if i tried that Id be in a lot of trouble.

    the other huge difference is condom vs no condom. Obviously sex feels better without the condom so the actual sensation of penetrative sex is better with the wife vs an escort.
     
  7. Frenchy

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    Personally I find Sex with escort is existent , and sex with wife is not. That’s a non-negligible difference
     
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    Elle Macpherson / Rachel Hunter and Me.

    That's how old I am!
     
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    This is utter rubbish, and sexist.
     
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    How many restaurants are you barred from?
     
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    You should stop reading those aphorism books. There are many different kinds of restaurants, from McDonalds to Michelin star sushi places. The only similarity is you need to pay.

    Then again at home you need to pay for the whole kitchen, not just the food. And your wife could be one of those who over-boil water. Or an experienced chef.
     
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    Till now 3 and still counting..
     
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    That's a comparison that's totally subjective. I think it depends heavily on what kind of relationship you have with your wife in the first place. If it's healthy, the sex is probably pretty good too even if you like to occasionally mix things up and see an escort here and there.

    For me it's quite the opposite. I love my wife but our sexual relationship just isn't what I feel it should be. She's totally "vanilla" in terms of sexual preferences and yet she always complains our sex life isn't exciting and spontaneous. She wants what stereotypical housewives think is sexy and romantic but that dudes hate. You know - flowers on the bed, husbands doing the Magic Mike routine every once in a while before sexy time and whatever else the Lifetime channel's shitty romance movies are brainwashing these broads with.

    On the other hand, I'm a depraved, perverted maniac but have to pretend that I'm not. So seeing an escort for me is the ONLY time I can really be myself.
     
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    Fuck, i am (and my wife) exactly the same.
     
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    I only pay in Japan. The main difference is I can be as perverted and nasty as I like and the escort is OK with that. Need to pretend otherwise with my wife. You married guys know what I'm talking about. I usually thank them for putting up with my hentai behavior without being judgmental, it makes all the difference in the world.
     
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    I was going add much the same thing, although "perverted and nasty" might be a bit hyperbolic. Many people have rather benign fetishes that many partners feel uncomfortable with. Apparently foot fetish is very common and an escort is likely be quite accommodating with that - it's no big deal to let someone go crazy over your feet for an hour ... or two ... unless you're ticklish I guess.
     
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    details please! :)
     
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    FrenchyFrenchy is a Verified Member Peace, Love and Camembert

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    That made me smile, thanks
    Now Im really confused because MiniScherzy (PhilSB) is the one offering ME flowers and doing little dance/songs routines before sex. And she’s really dominant in bed. Maybe she thinks I’ve been brainwashed too? :confused:
     
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    Well, sex with the wife is essentially non-existent for me nowadays (not for lack of me trying), but if I have to compare from the "memory archive":
    * Intimacy level with the wife was great, however with an escort with a good chemistry / GFE, and repeat meetings it can get pretty close and even surpass (new spark is hard to beat).
    * Frequency and timing with an escort is basically exactly how I want it, while with the wife is usually how she wants it ... (which is now 0).
    * It's much easier to try new things, fantasies, cosplay etc with an escort than with the wife (eg we used to watch porn together, but that stopped after a while, and now porn is "disgusting" according to her).
    * Sex with the wife can be without a condom, and while the feeling is a bit better, I tend to last longer with a condom, so I prefer that trade off :) Also, she used to respond really well to ribbed condoms so that was great fun for a while (I miss those days).
    * Sex with the wife is theoretically free, but given it's non-existent now, sadly I wish I could pay to have sex with her!
     
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    Totally feel you. Miss those good old time back.
     
  21. shadowboxer

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    Details please :)
     
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    likes to be on top and in control of the tempo
     
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    That’s what you call being “really dominant in bed”?
     
  24. Frenchy

    FrenchyFrenchy is a Verified Member Peace, Love and Camembert

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    Yes, and fuck you if it’s not what you expected, I’m not here to provide you wet dreams :)
     
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    C'est dommage, but no need to get excited. I didn’t expect anything and just (wrongly) assumed that your initial response was an understatement.
     

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