To further add to this, some people need aftercare, even the OP might need aftercare, a lot of people think that Dom's or those in control of the scene don't need anything afterward but that's not true either, some submissive people don't need nor want anything after play, some need a lot of assurance, some Dom's don't need nor want anything, some also need assurance and cuddles and to be told that they're not bad people, that everything that happened was cool and consensual.
So don't get into a mindset that you (Jenkins) might not need assurances that everything is ok after you have your fun, if you go with a provider, or just meet a girl who likes this sort of thing, calculate for a half-hour to an hour of cool-down and talking about the scene and having a little feelings jam. Letting out those more raw inner parts can be freeing, can be euphoric, but can also be like a really intense therapy session where you feel super raw and vulnerable after, and you're going to need a little aloe for those emotional workouts.
So whatever you do (anyone on this forum) make sure that you talk to whomever your with about the things you'd like to try, keeping an open, non-judgmental communication going between all parties is the best way to make sure that a good, safe, risk-aware, and consensual play is always taking place.
And that's just a good time all around.
