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So here's another noob question from me.
I emailed an escort a few weeks ago about a tour she's taking in my city (not in Japan), to make an appointment, and she replied within a couple of days to say the time was available and we were good to go. She also wrote that I should let her know about any services I wanted in particular. So I did (regular GFE stuff plus a striptease, nothing crazy). No response. So after two weeks, I sent her another friendly email, just saying "Hey, just checking in, haven't heard back from you."
Nothing.
So do I assume she's flaking on the appointment and organise something else, or do I wait? Is this common?
 
Depends on who it is. Some have a known history of flaking and other times it could be a case of ghosting you in particular.

That said, it’s not that common. Most touring ladies like to book their slots ahead of time so they know it’s not going to be a wasted trip.

Ask her again and if no reply, send a cancellation message (due to her non-reply).

Do your part, at least. No blame on your side if you did everything right.
 
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You have already communicated with her once so most likely your message didn’t go to spam holder; I sometimes find new messages from new clients stored in spam holder although they look legit and are actual inquiry.
As @TAG Manager said, why don’t you poke her one last time? If you don’t hear from her back, then I guess that’s the answer. It is not professional her side to not answering regardless if it is positive or not, to inquiries from client but that’s her loss.
 
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Thank you both. Yeah, I'll just do that. I did read some reviews of her saying that her communication takes time, but I think over 2 weeks is too long.
 
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Personally there are cases when I just stop replying: (Negotiating and rudeness are other obvious reasons of course)

- Client is sending too many emails without pinning down the date for the appointment. I do not offer uncompensated chat.
- Client is expecting uncompensated consultation and has too many questions about traveling to Japan, again hotel recommendation etc. is okay but tour planning is not something I offer (especially for unconfirmed advanced bookings)
- Way too many schedule changes. With all the respect I have other responsibilities and appointments and constant schedule changes are not something I can accommodate

I do not think it’s unprofessional to stop replying in such cases. However if a booking is confirmed, it’s very rude for the escort or the client to just ghost without offering any explanation.

You sound like your part of the correspondence was okay, so you can poke her once again. I must also add that some emails from potential clients may end up in my spam folder. On my part, real bookings get confirmed quickly and if I don’t hear back from someone in a couple of days chances are high that they’ve moved to greener pastures so I don’t think it’s inappropriate to move on.
 
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Simonka said:
Personally there are cases when I just stop replying: (Negotiating and rudeness are other obvious reasons of course)

- Client is sending too many emails without pinning down the date for the appointment. I do not offer uncompensated chat.
- Client is expecting uncompensated consultation and has too many questions about traveling to Japan, again hotel recommendation etc. is okay but tour planning is not something I offer (especially for unconfirmed advanced bookings)
- Way too many schedule changes. With all the respect I have other responsibilities and appointments and constant schedule changes are not something I can accommodate

I do not think it’s unprofessional to stop replying in such cases. However if a booking is confirmed, it’s very rude for the escort or the client to just ghost without offering any explanation.

You sound your part of the correspondence was okay, so you can poke her once again. I must also add that some emails from potential clients may end up in my spam folder. On my part, real bookings get confirmed quickly and if I don’t hear back from someone in a couple of days chances are high that they’ve moved to greener pastures so I don’t think it’s inappropriate to move on.
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Thanks Simona. Yeah, I definitely wasn't doing any of those things you mentioned. It was one initial email to enquire with date, time etc. Then she replied asking what services I wanted. So my second email was about that. And then one poke. That was all. I guess we'll see. I'll wait a couple of days and if there's nothing, I'll email her to cancel, no big deal.
 
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In my opinion of pooning all over as a single and with a partner. It’s a huge red flag if you don’t receive a response to your first email.
 
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In my opinion of pooning all over as a single and with a partner. It’s a huge red flag if you don’t receive a response to your first email.
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Let's be fair... Your first message should be appropriate to get a response.

Surprisingly (or not) many clients have trouble communicating or even reading.

- Don't send one word or very short, useless messages to escorts or agencies, examples:
"Hi!"
"Hello!"
"Where are you?"
"Do you have any friends you can show me?"
"Can I be your friend?"

Or, from reading an escort ad/website:
"How much?" (When the rates are right on the same page.)
"Discount?"
"I'll book you if you lower your rate by 15,000 yen."

Just be polite and to the point, don't ask questions or send messages that don't really accomplish anything.
Things to note in your arrangement message: Where? When? Which course? Options (if applicable)? - This will make the booking go quickly for both the agency/escort and the client.

This goes for both agency and independent escort messages.
 
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TAG Manager said:
Let's be fair... Your first message should be appropriate to get a response.

Surprisingly (or not) many clients have trouble communicating or even reading.

- Don't send one word or very short, useless messages to escorts or agencies, examples:
"Hi!"
"Hello!"
"Where are you?"
"Do you have any friends you can show me?"
"Can I be your friend?"

Or, from reading an escort ad/website:
"How much?" (When the rates are right on the same page.)
"Discount?"
"I'll book you if you lower your rate by 15,000 yen."

Just be polite and to the point, don't ask questions or send messages that don't really accomplish anything.
Things to note in your arrangement message: Where? When? Which course? Options (if applicable)? - This will make the booking go quickly for both the agency/escort and the client.

This goes for both agency and independent escort messages.
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That’s nice, I still stand by you don’t get a response after your first message move on. Regardless..

I’ll move on thanks for the 411 here cheers
 
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