Not trying to thread necro or whatever but I guess to add a resolution, my fuckbuddy and I met and fucked three times before she ghosted me. I'm not mad, just disappointed because damn did she fuck good.
Since then I've been trying a bunch of sites more out of curiosities sake than anything. Notes: My Japanese is barely N5 (I'm studying shut up), and I live in Kyoto. Results below:
PCMAX as an 'old' account now (a few months) and I get maybe a few messages, all ichigo horseshit. This did get me my first success so iunno, worth your time maybe.
Happymail got me a girl who wanted to add me even though she 'has a boyfriend'. She speaks near perfect English though and she's kinda funny so we'll see. Otherwise a few spam messages and mostly footprints.
Swap has me heading to Kobe tomorrow to fuck some dudes wife while he watches. They sent pics, several, and they're SEEMINGLY unedited — his wife is a petite hottie so that's gonna be fun. I also got another request from a couple but my reply hasn't been responded to so idk. Will report back.
Beronica, which is an SM matching website, is an expensive site. You use points to view messages and send messages, but here's the breakdown: 3000 yen gets you 250 points. It's 10 points to view a message and like 30 to send one. I want to say it's a ripoff, but I have a Korean girl who has been texting me for days, yes days plural, wanting to meet up on the 11th to fuck her in the ass so...we'll see. Worst case I'm out 9000 yen and some time wasted, not my worst loss ever. I am curious what the women rates are, but not curious enough to make a burner account and check.
Nannet — I haven't had any hits with this or their regional hookup boards Adamico or whatever. Will spend more time with this to see what I can fish up.
I am also giving sugardaddy.jp a whirl. I want to find a fuckbuddy to call on once or twice a month at most, but also have them be someone I can talk to on LINE/hang out with — so this seems to be a good choice to try.