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I have my first japanses girl date next week, we chose the place and then she asked me for treat, didnt understand asked what you mean ,she told me i usually dont say that but i mean transport expense and some pocket money, is it normal ? I asked i am searching for a real relationship she told me we will meet many times till we know each other more then we decide? Is she trustful? She also asked you can bring your japanese friends and she will bring her friends later to have fun together? Please can you explain for me if i can be in real relationship with her?
 
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e-smile said:
paying her the meal, cinema, drinks ... is normal but giving pocket money or refunding transportation isn't.
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Yea i really felt she is after money , wasnt sure so wanted to share , but she is cute i will try to let her fall for me and keep in mind she is after money!
 
e-smile said:
no it's not normal
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It's pretty normal if she is an escort or a sugar babe to pay for her time and travel expenses. :eek:

I'm not saying there ain't no fun around to be had with her but if you are looking for a traditional girlfriend then be warned that she is not looking for a traditional boyfriend.
 
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MikeH said:
It's pretty normal if she is an escort or a sugar babe to pay for her time and travel expenses. :eek:

I'm not saying there ain't no fun around to be had with her but if you are looking for a traditional girlfriend then be warned that she is not looking for a traditional boyfriend.
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No she is not escort or a sugar babe just a normal university student who works in a dorm and a cafe!
 
Rvd1 said:
No she is not escort or a sugar babe just a normal university student who works in a dorm and a cafe!
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And i guess ( im a psychic ;) ), you are about 40 and her on her 20...

Do you still believe in Santa Claus? just for knowing!

Im not a so much confirm member/punter in Japan, but for my little experience there, with girls there(outside the pro network), no offense, but my feeling is about 80% of the Japanese females are potentially sex worker. :)
 
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Wwanderer said:
Lots of SBs are normal university students, and the majority have regular jobs of some sort.

-Ww
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If she is really , dont think she will bring her friend with her next time , she also told me she looking for someone who can travel with her and do shopping together?
 
It is normal for you to pay for normal date things. Meal, movie, drinks etc... I could see possible transportation fee if she doesn't get paid much. If she's in Tokyo and you're date is in Tokyo, that would be reasonable. "Pocket money" however is not normal. She is looking for money in my opinion.
 
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Rvd1 said:
Well i know that i lived in japan for 3 years, but i think i wouldnt confirm that till i know her better
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you not Japanese so?
 
Rvd1 said:
she also told me she looking for someone who can travel with her and do shopping together?
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These are absolutely standard parts of sugar dating, even more than of conventional dating...especially the shopping part.

I have the feeling that you aren't very familiar with the difference between sugar dating and more conventional forms of p4p (not even sure if sugar dating should be called p4p in many cases), and while I have no way of knowing if this young woman is into sugar dating, what she is suggesting to you sounds *exactly* like what I have heard from *many* SBs I've met via sugar dating services. There is a whole forum on sugar dating on TAG if you want to learn more.

-Ww
 
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Rvd1 said:
No i am not
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wtf, give her the pocket money... then take her back to your room, you will know what to do with her immediately, simple! ;)
 
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Wwanderer said:
These are absolutely standard parts of sugar dating, even more than of conventional dating...especially the shopping part.

I have the feeling that you aren't very familiar with the difference between sugar dating and more conventional forms of p4p (not even sure if sugar dating should be called p4p in many cases), and while I have no way of knowing if this young woman is into sugar dating, what she is suggesting to you sounds *exactly* like what I have heard from *many* SBs I've met via sugar dating services. There is a whole forum on sugar dating on TAG if you want to learn more.

-Ww
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Okay i can speak japanese i send her in japanese , she told i need to pay her this お小遣い first time to see this kanji translate to pocket money ? Can someone explain what this kanji?
 
impish said:
It is normal for you to pay for normal date things. Meal, movie, drinks etc... I could see possible transportation fee if she doesn't get paid much. If she's in Tokyo and you're date is in Tokyo, that would be reasonable. "Pocket money" however is not normal. She is looking for money in my opinion.
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I've been with many Japanese girls and none of them has ever asked me for transportation fees. never heard of that either from a friend's experience.
 
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Rvd1 said:
Okay i can speak japanese i send her in japanese , she told i need to pay her this お小遣い first time to see this kanji translate to pocket money ? Can someone explain what this kanji?
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yeah okozukai is pocket money you give to your kid of your spoiled wife.
 
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e-smile said:
I've been with many Japanese girls and none of them has ever asked me for transportation fees. never heard of that either from a friend's experience.
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last escort girl asked for that, and i gave her... 20$ or something when you enjoyed a good fuck, what is this honestly?

its a jobless thread here or what? :D
 
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