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Sudsy said:
This would be normal for a sugar arrangement. For regular dating, not so much. Women like this are, while not commonplace, definitely not entirely unusual in Japan. I've run into a handful over the years.

Hearkens back to the 90s when Tokyo girls were rumoured to have a string of boyfriends....

Honmei-kun (term from horse racing meaning favourite) their main guy
Kiipu-kun (Japlish for keep, as in keep in reserve) the backup to honmei-kun
Mitsugu-kun (tribute) a guy who's kept around for presents or money
Ashi-kun (literally foot) the guy with a car who could take them places
Benri-kun (useful) the guy who knew how to fix or sort things - also sometimes called Koodo-kun (cable guy) if he's kept around for tech support.

Basically, she was trying to set you up as Mitsugu-kun.
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Awesome! :D
i will talk to my Japan teacher about those words, at my next school session, what mean kun?
 
Kulbutor said:
Awesome! :D
i will talk to my Japan teacher about those words, at my next school session, what mean kun?
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Equivalent de "mec" dans ce contexte. "Mon mec portefeuille, mon mec bagnole, mon mec bricolage etc"
 
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Frenchy said:
Equivalent de "mec" dans ce contexte. "Mon mec portefeuille, mon mec bagnole, mon mec bricolage etc"
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Merci,
t'as déjà entendu parler comme ça en Fr? elles méritent juste une paire de baffes ces nanas sans déconner.
 
Oh shit! maintenant que j'y pense, i think i know one like that :(
 
Rvd1 said:
But i heard that japanese expect man to pay everything in first date? And i was thinking she only need my money beacuse she know my country is rich?
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People from your country can shit gold or what, please be specific, I'm very interested
 
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Ahh to be 22 again. :LOL:

I say for the sake of your own personal science, you should accept the date. Especially if you have the money to burn. Could be a good learning experience.

If you don't have the money to burn, steer clear, brosky.
 
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yeah if it's reasonable and you can afford it and really like her, why not...

But if she asks you to pay for all her friends as well , then simply say no. Maybe shes not so much interested by a "date", rather having someone taking care of her and her friends group so that they can have a nice day of fun at no cost.
 
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Kulbutor said:
ok, by "jobless guys" thread, i was thinking that really is it so important for you to give 20$ for the transport fee to a girl who gave you good sex, or even nice company? Of course if she was a mess, unpleasant, you dont give her nothing... but if she is cute, kind, funny, if she please you... for me its even a pleasure to see her leave me with a smile! im a moron may be ok!

And btw, a taxi fare its not a Louis Vuitton bag!
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Dont feel offended but for some weird reasons I imagined Borat saying this and I smiled like an idiot! Thanks, i needed this! :)
 
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Frenchy said:
yeah if it's reasonable and you can afford it and really like her, why not...

But if she asks you to pay for all her friends as well , then simply say no. Maybe shes not so much interested by a "date", rather having someone taking care of her and her friends group so that they can have a nice day of fun at no cost.
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Gaijin hunter?
 
And if shes demanding off the bat like that, shes experienced. That shit takes confidence and a first timer wouldnt be so bold as to demand these things outright.
 
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