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Have not done any SD before, purely transactional p4p and dating.

I've recently reconnected with a previous partner in crime after nearly a year. Met her in a sekukyaba but we spent a lot of time together outside her club: non-douhan dinners, visiting strip clubs, happening bars and the occasional love hotel.

She's currently got some financial issues and I've offered her a SD arrangement. Trying to come up with terms and expectations. My thoughts were 10man monthly for 2 full dates (dinner and hotel time) and 1 platonic date. She's never done パパ活 before either and doesn't have a grasp on the going rate. Is this out of line for a 21 year old college student, an 8.5-9 in my estimation, with a great attitude?
 
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MongerInAStrLnd said:
Have not done any SD before, purely transactional p4p and dating.

I've recently reconnected with a previous partner in crime after nearly a year. Met her in a sekukyaba but we spent a lot of time together outside her club: non-douhan dinners, visiting strip clubs, happening bars and the occasional love hotel.

She's currently got some financial issues and I've offered her a SD arrangement. Trying to come up with terms and expectations. My thoughts were 10man monthly for 2 full dates (dinner and hotel time) and 1 platonic date. She's never done パパ活 before either and doesn't have a grasp on the going rate. Is this out of line for a 21 year old college student, an 8.5-9 in my estimation, with a great attitude?
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It's a fair deal. It seems that you have good chemistry, and that counts in your favor. Try not to fall into a honey trap.
 
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Seems like a good deal
But please set the terms very clearly , in writing, and keep a record. Just do what’s agreed and if she wants more , refuse or ask for more too. And don’t get too emotionally involved.
 
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Why not give her 50 per dinner and hotel date. This way you make sure she keeps her side of the bargain.
Going to a monthly rate straight away is a bit risky.
 
Yeah, there's really no reason to go to a monthly rate unless she demands it.
Per-use rate is usually a better option for the donor - otherwise time works against you, if you need to cancel an appointment, or she's on her period and what not ...
 
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