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pinkpalamino

pinkpalamino

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Good evening,

Lived in japan for over a year now.
I want to go to a HB, but I'm a little nervous as I've never been before.
My Japanese is so-so, so maybe bliss out would be best.

can anyone give my any advice, or even better, does anyone want to go with me and take me under their wing?
 
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MikeH said:
And now we now what sound an exploding inbox makes.
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pinkpalamino said:
you'd think so, but nothing. I just want an idea of what it's like please.
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Read a few threads about Bliss Out, 9259, Sleeping Beauty
Dont think its a wild orgy a la Eyes Wide Shut, just accept it is what it is
PM me , I feel lonely tonight... :)
 
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MikeH said:
You slut, trying to sweet talk someone new just in the next message after breaking up with me.
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Stop flattering me Mikey. We the Parisian race have a God-given right to be sluts, its in the DNA :kiss:
 
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Frenchy said:
Stop flattering me Mikey. We the Parisian race have a God-given right to be sluts, its in the DNA :kiss:
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That DNA must be from the Vikings who killed all your male and violated all your women.
 
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MikeH said:
That DNA must be from the Vikings who killed all your male and violated all your women.
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After the Romans, before the Germans , Arabs etc... yeah I know the song :)
 
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pinkpalamino said:
you'd think so, but nothing. I just want an idea of what it's like please.
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Reading the threads is best to get an idea but maybe a wingman would be best going the first time.
 
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pinkpalamino said:
can anyone give my any advice, or even better, does anyone want to go with me and take me under their wing?
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This is disappointing, I thought more people would speak up but I guess not.

I cannot take you, but I'll give you some experiences of my own and single women.

First and foremost, going to Bliss Out is the safest bet since you'll likely encounter some people you can communicate with. You can certainly go as a single female and if you're moderately attractive and outgoing, you'll have plenty of attention from the men and/or couples that may be there. Of course, it depends on the night... but it's possible that you may go on a night when it's not very busy. If you stick to Thur, Fri, Sat evenings, before last train, you should see a fair amount of activity.

Once inside, it's fairly straight forward as far as interacting with people in the bar. Just keep in mind that each HB has it's own rules about the playrooms and who may enter and who may not, depending on the rooms. I'm not going to go in details for each HB, you will get a tour as first timer when you go in for the first time.

I do recommend going with someone you're comfortable with, but it's not 100% necessary.
 
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Its cheap or free for women alone. Take a deep breath, find your inner courage and go in. Guys can be pushy but there are rules and especially in the bar area you can keep your own space and distance. If you don’t like the atmosphere, you can leave. You don’t have to do much, just sit down and have a drink and look around, if there are people inside they will likely approach you, being a singe woman.
 
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I went to Bliss Out with my husband and another escort during our last visit and I thought the environment was clean and it had a relaxing vibe. We encountered one guy who was kinda rude when we declined his request to join in the play but overall most guys were very nice and respectful.

If I was going as a single lady, I would feel safe and comfortable in their main lounge area but their play area is located downstairs and it’s secluded from the bar which could cause some safety concerns for me. It’s probably more ideal to go with another person (guy or girl) and if you decide to go alone, try to relax and have fun and listen to your intuition. If you feel uncomfortable don’t hesitate to leave and just use common sense. Good luck!
 
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pinkpalamino said:
Good evening,

Lived in japan for over a year now.
I want to go to a HB, but I'm a little nervous as I've never been before.
My Japanese is so-so, so maybe bliss out would be best.

can anyone give my any advice, or even better, does anyone want to go with me and take me under their wing?
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This is my 14th time in Tokyo. I heared and readed already a lot about te HB's. And I also wanted to go to one, and see what's happening insider . But never had the real opportunity. I'm an atletic sportsmen. So I can take you under my wings

Greetz
Daniel
 
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I might go tomorrow night. I’m incredibly free this weekend (which happens rarely) and want to do something different than waking up at 5am on Sunday morning to hit the mountains.

If you’re still game, let me know. Peace
 
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Did this happen? Dying to find out how you fared.
 
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