Joe2017
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BTW. Days have gone, aren’t you curious to know how the story ended? Reconciliation or divorce?
You have a particular strong opinion that relations by women who had many sexual partners are doomed to fail, so you probably didn't consider that this kind of marry your first love relationships in general tend not to have the highest success rate
I don't think her porn life means she is fucking random men in her personal life
The quoted Institute for Family Studies (IFS) is a right-wing conservative think tank that states its mission as “to strengthen marriage and family life, and advance the well-being of children through research and public education.” You hardly will see it publish data supporting many sex partners before marriage. You might as well quote an Evangelical priest. It looks like you are reaching for anything to support your already reached conclusion. Get a divorce, it's easy. You've got the $50,000 it usually costs? Once divorced, pack up and go home. You won't be happy here,.
Your assumptions and theories are flawed. The data sample you offered is limited.Yeah. absolutely no fucking going on in Fashion health clubs LOL!!!
So as the title says, that is the subject of my first post.
Honestly, im doing this because i don’t know with who talk about this and i suppose i can get a bit of advice here. Im a foreigner living here since three years ago, in the journey after dating, working and some adventures, i just met this beautiful girl who make look everything nice for me. After a While she proposed me to get married, in that way "I will not have a difficult visa process", i must say; i didn’t get married with her because it was the golden ticket, i truly love my wife but her past is quite the nightmare for me.
After a few months we were looking some photos from her past and then one in the salon pop up, i got super shocked and then the true came out in a period of two months of discussions. She actually work around one week there when she was finishing the university, in this kind of soap lands, or more specific the JJ CLUB in Shibuya, she got 4 to 5 guys per day and Honestly i cannot deal with this, so it have been super difficult since then, also our first month was very difficult because we were dating other people, but she was with more than one guy and me just seeing 1 girl... so i don’t know. it got toxic in some way.
I have been reading the forum since long time ago, to understand how it work the sexual work in Japan, i never went into any of the sexual services who they offer in Japan but im Very keen going to Bliss out for example, because in some way i think this kind of place could expand my perception about the multiple sexuality tendencies from the Japanese People, as far as i read theres couples who go there too.
I cannot take this feeling out from me, like being scammed. Do you think guys, im being too judgemental ? sometimes i think maybe i should consume a few delivery girls, maybe in that way i could deal with this, forcing myself to feel guilty about something, but i don’t know... I think sometimes i didn’t explore this are from Japan before get married and its just my ego... Just once after a fight a hang out with a friend and we finish in the love hotel but i feel like shit after.
How do you do to go into delivery girls? or into bliss out with couples? it is my reality lie a crap or im exaggerating ?
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Well saidJJ CLUB in Shibuya means she was banging dudes for money. The fact that she only did it for a week is actually a good thing, but it may not align with your moral compass, but who says being with a girl with a good moral compass means a successful marriage. Maybe she needed to sow her oats or maybe she was in a financial bind. You need to put your ego aside as its been said 1 out of 500 girls in Japan have done some kind of sex work. The biggest mistake you made was making her feel like a slut and that's the LAST thing you want to do any woman.
The only person you are scamming is your self. Get over your self.. the idea that you are the only guy that banged your girl is archaic thinking. Personally, I wouldn't intentionally marry a soapland girl, but if I were to find out in the future she was...I would mitigate the situation and asked her how she feels about it and let her know and express my disappointment that she never told me. (that's just me)
That fact that you want to counter this by banging a bunch of women in juvenile.