Gf asks if I ever paid for sex

requiemmorrow said:
Girl never asks but I'm 99% sure she knows. I come home after a session conveniently after work and she smells my hair and goes, "so where were YOU today after work, huh?"

I said, "at the spa."

She said, "Oh really, the spa? I see…" with a giggle and investigate eyes.

She told me if I want to, I can cheat if I want. As long as I put in the effort to hide it and come home and tell her I love her that's all she needs.

That being said, I am a huge fan of answer A.
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For research purposes, does she happen to have a cute friend? I'm a 5th-year student at Poůn̈tanģ University.
 
DuttyDan said:
For research purposes, does she happen to have a cute friend? I'm a 5th-year student at Poůn̈tanģ University.
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She has tons of cute friends.
But they are all 10 year post grads at Núpshůlž College.
 
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In her youth, my partner was at least a sugar baby, but I suspect a fully-employed fuzoku-jo for quite some time. Not that we have ever had that conversation, but I'm a veteran monger, and she has let a LOT of hints slip over the years, especially when drunk. But I had her pegged from the first year of our relationship and only had my suspicions confirmed over time.

She has never asked, I will never tell, and if it ever came out, I do not expect she will be happy about it, but I fully expect leniency. She knows what transactional sex is.
 
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Sometimes I dream I could be honest about how many hundreds of pros I've banged to my gfs but I guess it doesn't work. In the same way I'm pretty sure my girlfriend has banged 100+ guys too and while it kind of makes me horny, it also might be a little weird to know the truth. Goes both ways ... That's what she said
 
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biggiesmallpop said:
What is the right way to dodge this?

A) just say oh no I never did that are you crazy ?
B) well a long time ago I'd did but I regretted it and never again
C) yes I did before ... And still do hahaha

I dunno I don't want to lie but I feel girls who ask don't want the truth and want a nice lie they can believe. True ?
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It's hard to decide without knowing her or her true intentions. Go with C if you're looking for a reason to break up. A might seem safer, without the "crazy" word.

I don't think that it's a good advice, but could you answer that YOU are the one getting paid or you may even ask her if SHE has ever been paid for something like that.
 
bdole said:
Oh it makes sense. The second half of it ("maybe YOU'RE the one being paid for sex") is a typical abuser tactic: DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender).
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Accusing your girlfriend of doing the thing you're doing is a wonderfully projective , total dick move and if that's somehow a good idea because of your "perspective" then your perspective is you're an asshole.
 
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biggiesmallpop said:
What is the right way to dodge this?

A) just say oh no I never did that are you crazy ?
B) well a long time ago I'd did but I regretted it and never again
C) yes I did before ... And still do hahaha

I dunno I don't want to lie but I feel girls who ask don't want the truth and want a nice lie they can believe. True ?
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In the OKCupid questionaire 99.9 % of Japanese ladies state that jealousy is a good thing.
This being said, the answer A is the only one possible unless you are tired of your gf anyway.
 
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bdole said:
Oh it makes sense. The second half of it ("maybe YOU'RE the one being paid for sex") is a typical abuser tactic: DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender).
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I was leaning toward "judge not lest ye be judged," but as your reaction clearly demonstrates, psychology outshines the Bible these days.

That said, I'm glad we can agree this was another coin in the jukebox of bad answers, after B and C.
 
J Escort Fan said:
I was leaning toward "judge not lest ye be judged," but as your reaction clearly demonstrates, psychology outshines the Bible these days.

That said, I'm glad we can agree this was another coin in the jukebox of bad answers, after B and C.
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Judge all you want; I for one do not tend towards manipulative gas-lighting.
 
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