GFE

rikkun said:
Should this belong to the Adds section?
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Sadly our Overlord has a policy against male providers ads . I know it’s unfair and discriminatory but we members of that unfortunate gender have to suck it up: for modelling, escorting and porn acting we will always be the mocked, underpaid, unsung heroes... Sad. :D
 
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As far as I am concerned, there is no such thing as GFE in P4P. GFE and P4P are two contradicting terms. You can only hope that your escort gives you a great time and makes you feel like the hottest person in the world.
And what is GFE anyway? After a couple of years with the same lady, I doubt sex is of the same quality as in the first three months. I go to soaplands, because I don't want to have a GFE.
I never trust escorts promising GFE as they are destined to fail. I don't know why, but especially thai and philippino providers on massagerepublic have GFE in their profile. It is basically an empty term.
 
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Kamui16 said:
As far as I am concerned, there is no such thing as GFE in P4P.
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I would like to disagree. Some escorts provide a great GFE, just like with your new girlfriend in the first three months.

What you have to understand is when you pay for one hour of GFE that is what you are getting. After the session is over it is over, she is not your real girlfriend and will never be.
 
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MikeH said:
I would like to disagree. Some escorts provide a great GFE, just like with your new girlfriend in the first three months.

What you have to understand is when you pay for one hour of GFE that is what you are getting. After the session is over it is over, she is not your real girlfriend and will never be.
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I agree with you at 99.9% Never say never. There is an exception to every rule but..............one in a million (maybe)
 
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just4fun said:
I agree with you at 99.9% Never say never. There is an exception to every rule but..............one in a million (maybe)
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But one in a million would mean you agree 99.9999%. :confused::D
 
Ivanhoe said:
Are the providers Who offer GFE compromise on the sexual component of the encounter?
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I hope not! I would not want to "taste" other women's fart.

My wife (when we were dating) she got so comfortable with our relationship that she farted when we were on bed. So that is my definition of what GFE means to me!
LOL! Just kidding!

But seriously, that all GFE experience that many female companions advertise is just to be more attractive to men. You can't buy love or get someone to love you just because you are paying for her time.

I personally contact and hire female companions for fantasy. Things I can't get in my normal and real life (like a threesome) or having a sexual encounter with someone physically different as my wife.
 
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If one wants to have the GFE better he has a GF. Escorts basically are supposed to provide good sex tailor made for every client’s requirements . The escort should be shrewd enough to gauge the ‘sexual intensity quotient’ of every man.The escort who judges well this aspect will be successful eventually. GFE is an advertising gimmick employed by escorts to compromise on the sexual intensity. My point is that sexual intensity and GFE do not go together.The more the GFE the less the sexual intensity and vice-versa.Some males want GFE and not sexual intensity. I prefer sexual intensity to GFE.
 
Ivanhoe said:
. I prefer sexual intensity to GFE.
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... then at least you found out what you like and don’t like , so no need to meet « GFE-type » escorts.

How do you define « sexual intensity » though? If you mean by that being rough on the lady, be careful because that could lead you to jail or being severely beaten up by their protectors or boyfriends... and deservedly so.

if it’s BDSM play you want , then be clear about it, find the providers who accept to do it and clarify boundaries in advance. Don’t assume the escort has to guess your whims.
 
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Frenchy said:
... then at least you found out what you like and don’t like , so no need to meet « GFE-type » escorts.

How do you define « sexual intensity » though? If you mean by that being rough on the lady, be careful because that could lead you to jail or being severely beaten up by their protectors or boyfriends... and deservedly so.

if it’s BDSM play you want , then be clear about it, find the providers who accept to do it and clarify boundaries in advance. Don’t assume the escort has to guess your whims.
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By sexual intensity I don’t mean being rough on the lady or doing something which the lady does not like. By sexual intensity I mean being sexually active for at least 75 percent of the time and not discuss about books, movies and other things which we normally do with our GF.
 
Ivanhoe said:
Yes.. I agree with you. Better talk to the provider well in advance.
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If you mean one message telling her what kind of things you like and asking if she can offer that then I agree with you.

But leave it at that. You are not paying them to be your penpals. Many guys seem to expect days of email exchanges and ask for naked pics and such. Don't be one of those guys.
 
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I agree with @MikeH, it's like renting a movie. You go to the shop, find something you like, bring it home, watch it and when it's done, you bring it back. If you liked it that much, you go and rent it again. There's no in betweens. It's actually a very simple service. If it's difficult to understand then maybe you need to talk to someone professionally.
 
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A guy who's desperate for a GFE with a working girl probably has some sort of underlying issues, most likely stemming from a traumatizing lack of experience with females. If I wanted a GFE, I'd fuck a GF. If I'm paying a day's wages for it, it's because I DON'T want a GFE. I don't want to do fifteen minutes of foreplay, followed by another fifteen minutes of going down on her and end up looking like a retarded kid who tried eating a glue stick. I don't want to keep have to keep telling her how sexy she is or how much I love her. I don't want to pucker my asshole and get a cramp in my ass trying to hold back blowing my load so she can get off. And I certainly don't want to have to "cuddle" afterwards for another fucking half hour, gushing bullshit pleasantries when all I really want to do is saunter off to the kitchen to toss back a triple vodka and chug a beer and then fall asleep on the sofa watching all the hotties on Fox News (I'd tongue Shannon Bream's stinkhole if she'd let me).

If I'm paying good money for it then I'm treating this like any other business transaction, and that's only going to take between two to three minutes. To once again quote Charlie Sheen: "I'm not paying the girl for sex...I'm paying her to shut up and go home afterwards." I'm a hopeless romantic. I can't help it.
 
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Keihan Chikan said:
A guy who's desperate for a GFE with a working girl probably has some sort of underlying issues, most likely stemming from a traumatizing lack of experience with females. If I wanted a GFE, I'd fuck a GF. If I'm paying a day's wages for it, it's because I DON'T want a GFE. I don't want to do fifteen minutes of foreplay, followed by another fifteen minutes of going down on her and end up looking like a retarded kid who tried eating a glue stick. I don't want to keep have to keep telling her how sexy she is or how much I love her. I don't want to pucker my asshole and get a cramp in my ass trying to hold back blowing my load so she can get off. And I certainly don't want to have to "cuddle" afterwards for another fucking half hour, gushing bullshit pleasantries when all I really want to do is saunter off to the kitchen to toss back a triple vodka and chug a beer and then fall asleep on the sofa watching all the hotties on Fox News (I'd tongue Shannon Bream's stinkhole if she'd let me).

If I'm paying good money for it then I'm treating this like any other business transaction, and that's only going to take between two to three minutes. To once again quote Charlie Sheen: "I'm not paying the girl for sex...I'm paying her to shut up and go home afterwards." I'm a hopeless romantic. I can't help it.
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You are assuming here, that everyone is a Neanderthal like you, but preferences can indeed be different.
 
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Keihan Chikan said:
A guy who's desperate for a GFE with a working girl probably has some sort of underlying issues, most likely stemming from a traumatizing lack of experience with females. If I wanted a GFE, I'd fuck a GF. If I'm paying a day's wages for it, it's because I DON'T want a GFE. I don't want to do fifteen minutes of foreplay, followed by another fifteen minutes of going down on her and end up looking like a retarded kid who tried eating a glue stick. I don't want to keep have to keep telling her how sexy she is or how much I love her. I don't want to pucker my asshole and get a cramp in my ass trying to hold back blowing my load so she can get off. And I certainly don't want to have to "cuddle" afterwards for another fucking half hour, gushing bullshit pleasantries when all I really want to do is saunter off to the kitchen to toss back a triple vodka and chug a beer and then fall asleep on the sofa watching all the hotties on Fox News (I'd tongue Shannon Bream's stinkhole if she'd let me).

If I'm paying good money for it then I'm treating this like any other business transaction, and that's only going to take between two to three minutes. To once again quote Charlie Sheen: "I'm not paying the girl for sex...I'm paying her to shut up and go home afterwards." I'm a hopeless romantic. I can't help it.
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you actually have a very romantic (and generous) notion of what a GFE is :D
 
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I've never bothered to analyze it as much as all this.
GFE means a girl who does kissing & cuddling as part of her routine. Good for when you're in a mellow/romantic mood.
PSE means a girl who'll act out something similar to a porno scene. Good for when you're in that kind of mood.

Some girls are a combo of both those things, they're usually the ones I go back to.

And both GFE & PSE are just descriptions of the kind of experience you'll have if you book that girl, so you know what to expect. They don't define anything about how she feels about it, they just inform potential clients that she provides that service.
 
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newbie said:
GFE mostly has to do with how well you click with someone. Some girls are better than others at making the click happen, but who feels GFE for me might not turn out the same for you. Just be aware of that and set your expectations accordingly. Still, as with marketing anywhere else there is usually lots of bullshit involved. Just tell me your measurements and what you'll do, I don't care how erotic, sophisticated, or world traveled you think you are, lol.
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I second that. GFE is nothing that can be offered or expected like other services that are 100% an act.......boils down to good chemistry on both sides and is therefore a matter of luck I would say. Some girls offer great service but it still doesn't click on a personal level. Hard to put in words ;)
 
Ivanhoe said:
If one wants to have the GFE better he has a GF. Escorts basically are supposed to provide good sex tailor made for every client’s requirements . The escort should be shrewd enough to gauge the ‘sexual intensity quotient’ of every man.The escort who judges well this aspect will be successful eventually. GFE is an advertising gimmick employed by escorts to compromise on the sexual intensity. My point is that sexual intensity and GFE do not go together.The more the GFE the less the sexual intensity and vice-versa.Some males want GFE and not sexual intensity. I prefer sexual intensity to GFE.
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Ivanhoe said:
By sexual intensity I don’t mean being rough on the lady or doing something which the lady does not like. By sexual intensity I mean being sexually active for at least 75 percent of the time and not discuss about books, movies and other things which we normally do with our GF.
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Nope. GFE is a term used by escorts to describe and categorise the type of service they provide. And every escort is different in the way they provide it.
You saying "GFE" is a gimmick is like a guy watching a rom-com and then complaining that the movie wasn't exactly "75% sexual activity" (what the fuck), and declaring all rom-com movies a scam. The problem isn't them, it's you and your expectations. If you don't like the term GFE, then find an escort that does PSE, simple as that.
Even a PSE provider isn't going to spend 45min out of an hour fucking you, mostly because you wouldn't be able to keep up yourself.
 
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Viggagadye said:
Even a PSE provider isn't going to spend 45min out of an hour fucking you, mostly because you wouldn't be able to keep up yourself.
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We shouldn’t assume that as we don’t know anything about his stamina. So, perhaps he will be lucky with a PSE provider.
 
shadowboxer said:
We shouldn’t assume that as we don’t know anything about his stamina. So, perhaps he will be lucky with a PSE provider.
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If it's PSE, you spend your downtime instead of cuddling with all kind of toys, no? So technically you have almost 100% action. If you have her use a strap-on, I'm sure it will be pretty intense as well:rolleyes:
 
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