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Going rate for SBs in Tokyo

As I age and get more cynical, I tend to agree with Nosophobia2017, that everyone is possibly a prostitute/monger. Maybe that's just a more realistic way to look at relationships.

SA hasn’t changed my mind much. I’ve had direct offers from various women and I never even introduced myself. And for the price quoted I should just very well use Asian Mystique or some other agency and have my fun with multiple women at once or just hang with the women in my circle and hope for the best. I’m not one to bang chics with boyfriends I’ve met or who are associated with my industry. Burned by the gossip mill one time too many. Well that’s that.

Coda87, it might be that I’m jaded. Who knows. But at the end of the day, a sugar daddy is looking for sexual sugar for his contributions and a sugar baby wants the SD’s contributions. If it were the case of being in a relationship, then the process would be totally different. Married people start off on equally horny ground, but it ends up that one becomes the contributor and the other the receiver and for the contributor, offspring would ensure that the contributor’s legacy carries on. Without such an arrangement, the state would swallow up the assets. In sugar dating, it would seem that the central contributing factor is money. How much money indicates what will be given in return. Straight economics of the flesh market. So far only one interested me, but turned out to be a scammer or some sort.
I’m back to square one. Ha ha! That must be a sign that I shouldn’t look for an SB.
 
In what I would call pure escorting, sexual intimacy and money are the two primary motivations of the two people, nearly the only positive motivations. (In other words, the only other significant motivations are negative ones like a bad attitude, bad skills, bad hygiene, rudeness etc.)

In what I would call pure sugaring, other positive motivations are equally, and sometimes more. important.

In messy reality, there is a continuum between the two, but an most situations fall reasonably clearly into one category or the other.

In @Nosophobia2017's OP scenario, he does not give the relevant information to make a choice based on my understanding of sugaring, namely how do I feel about the two SBs he posits and how do they feel about me.

-Ww