Hello, I've read the forum for awhile but this is my first post. I'm in a sexless marriage and have been looking for other options to have fun. One option I've pursued is Happening Bars. I'm relatively handsome, mid-thirties white guy and find I can have some luck at these establishments. I've been to Colors Bar about five times between a year and 6 months ago. The first two times were nice. The first time I got to play with a nice, older woman, the second time with a wild younger woman. The third time it was too quiet and I didn't get to play. The forth and fifth times, the owner had changed and it was like a wild, party atmosphere. People were talking and they had an S&M show, but nobody was really playing. I didn't go back after that. Everytime I went it was a Friday night. This is the URL, by the way. http://www.t-colors.net Has anyone had good experiences at Happening Bars when showing up as a single guy? I'm tempted to try Waku Waku and Sleeping Beauty. Has anyone been successful at these bars or other Happening Bars? And if so, what night of the week? And has anyone been successful during the daytime at any Happening Bars, or participating in specific themes? Colors has a secret married rendevous theme most Monday afternoons. That would be perfect for me but I don't want to waste an afternoon hanging out there with a few guys and no girls if they don't have good turn out at those events. Anyways, thanks for reading and any feedback you can offer!