Has anyone ever fallen in love with someone who they pay to service them?

[youngtourist]

I've visited the same girl three times now for a massage and happy ending and each time it gets better and better, and she throws in more and more extras with me each time. I've not caught feelings but I do wish the best for her as she's a hard worker and a genuine nice person. Then it made me curious, would be cool to hear if anyone has ever caught feelings for someone they have P4P with? As I can definitely see how that could happen 😂

 

[kirayamato]

well usually it wont end well especially if you have a partner already

 

[Lyse]

I've visited the same girl three times now for a massage and happy ending and each time it gets better and better, and she throws in more and more extras with me each time. I've not caught feelings but I do wish the best for her as she's a hard worker and a genuine nice person. Then it made me curious, would be cool to hear if anyone has ever caught feelings for someone they have P4P with? As I can definitely see how that could happen 😂

She wants you to keep coming, because you keep paying. Men and to a lesser extent, women, have issues when separating feelings from a business transaction.
We love you because you bring us money.

 

[User#75794]

Smooth-brained men have been falling in love with providers since before the modern vagina evolved.

 

[Babaram]

True love might be uncommon in this situation, but it is not out of the question either. I am good friends with a Manhattan madam, and she used to complain that the "biggest reason for employee churn is my girls marrying my customers." A few months ago, she called me with the good news that she would get married. The new husband was her best client.

 

[tkthedk]

Wouldn't consider it love, but I did find someone who I wanted to be a regular with when I was visiting Tokyo. Like you, the sessions kept getting better and better with more freebies being thrown in. However, she showed her true colors after I returned home, so I had to cut her off.

 

[Don Draper]

Yes, I have. I've seen the same girl five times now - three times on my first trip and twice during my second. I am planning to go back in the fall and hope to see her again. For a while there we were chatting on LINE, but it's been a few weeks since I last heard from her, since I said how I would love to fly her to the States (rookie mistake, I know. A guy can dream though, right?).

 

[LastExile13]

It is I think a benefit to only being a tourist, I'm never around consistently enough to catch the feels. I definitely have walked out of sessions with a crush when it's insanely good service or we click well, but then I'm gone for a few months and don't have to worry about it.

 

[maikeru]

After seeing a provider for more than 10 years I'd say that it works both ways. With time you ask each other more and more personal questions until you have a clear idea of how you both are.
Until it gets to the point that the logistics aren't gonna work and you remain in a state between friends, FWB, customer and provider.
Still nice though.

 

[Maxblack]

I fall in love EVERY. DAMN. TIME.
The one time I tried to pursue it "for real" it ended badly. Like, call the police and lawyers badly.

Enjoy the feeling, and like Miyamoto says: the cherry blossom is most beautiful as it falls from the branch.

Life is impermanence and "now" only exists for a moment. Revel in it but don't long for that which only exists as a memory or a hope.

 

[Airnest]

https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/kens-story-too-much-trust-too-soon.32283/page-2#post-365145

 

[MikeH]

You mean you have sexual relationships with women you are not in love with? Mind-boggling.

 

[YokoMonger]

Ok, let's be realistic here. Money is a new concept compared to how long sex and emotion have been part of the human experience. That you happened to exchange money doesn't prevent emotions that develop during the encounter and repeated encounters. What you have to do as a provider or customer is overcome those emotions to not interfere in what is still a financial exchange of services.

Not everyone has the mentality to overcome emotions to operate in the p4p area, so they should opt out. Same goes with swinging and other erotic type of hobbies.

 

[Don Draper]

Enjoy the feeling, and like Miyamoto says: the cherry blossom is most beautiful as it falls from the branch.

Life is impermanence and "now" only exists for a moment. Revel in it but don't long for that which only exists as a memory or a hope.

一期一会

 

[Chinolal]

Met a woman 10 years ago for a 2 hour session and had a really good time together. Before she left, we exchanged contacts and told her I would like to see her again. A few minutes after she left, I saw the money was still left in the table and I message her that she forgot to pick up. She replied that it was okay and to contact her again to meet up. Well a week went by and I ask her if I can take her out to the movies for a date and she replied yes.

Fast forward to a couple more dates and 2 more years, I ended up marrying this wonderful woman. We have been married 8 years now with 3 kids. When we got married, she stopped working and told me its okay for me to see other woman because she knows I love sex. All she ask from me is to be a good father to our kids and to never bring another woman to our home.

 

[Papa]

Yes I did, twice. Once when I was in my early 20's which I wrote about on TAG.

The second (I'm 65), a Japanese escort, I ended it about a month ago and my heart still hurts. I'll write about it on here after the feelings subside more. To help that along, I'll be in Japan in 2 weeks and have an appointment set up with a really beautiful soap girl, I'll review her too after my visit.

 

[quizmaster]

Sure did. I get pretty awkward at the beginning when meeting a new provider. So one time I decided to meet a girl I liked from a few months prior, hoping that we'd hit the ground running.

Worked out fantastically, had a great time. Traded info to make it easier to meet her. Met a bunch more times. The 'L' word was thrown around, mutually.

I had to call it off after about 18 months. While we had great memories and enjoyed each other's company, there were a bunch of reasons I knew we weren't fully compatible. Chief among them was she talked at the movie theater.

 

[just4fun]

(So I'm not the only idiot)

 

[Cinnabums]

Met a woman 10 years ago for a 2 hour session and had a really good time together. Before she left, we exchanged contacts and told her I would like to see her again. A few minutes after she left, I saw the money was still left in the table and I message her that she forgot to pick up. She replied that it was okay and to contact her again to meet up. Well a week went by and I ask her if I can take her out to the movies for a date and she replied yes.

Fast forward to a couple more dates and 2 more years, I ended up marrying this wonderful woman. We have been married 8 years now with 3 kids. When we got married, she stopped working and told me its okay for me to see other woman because she knows I love sex. All she ask from me is to be a good father to our kids and to never bring another woman to our home.

Still waiting for the review.

 

[Lyse]

Chief among them was she talked at the movie theater.

This is punishable by a well deserved ghosting. It's right up there with chewing with your mouth open.

 

[Babaram]

Met a woman 10 years ago for a 2 hour session and had a really good time together. Before she left, we exchanged contacts and told her I would like to see her again. A few minutes after she left, I saw the money was still left in the table and I message her that she forgot to pick up. She replied that it was okay and to contact her again to meet up. Well a week went by and I ask her if I can take her out to the movies for a date and she replied yes.

Fast forward to a couple more dates and 2 more years, I ended up marrying this wonderful woman. We have been married 8 years now with 3 kids. When we got married, she stopped working and told me its okay for me to see other woman because she knows I love sex. All she ask from me is to be a good father to our kids and to never bring another woman to our home.

Good on you.

 

[just4fun]

This is punishable by a well deserved ghosting. It's right up there with chewing with your mouth open.

Is a scream ok if you reach into the popcorn and find something unexpected? (I haven't been to a movie theater in over 20 years.)

 

[Alice]

Not everyone has the mentality to overcome emotions to operate in the p4p area, so they should opt out. Same goes with swinging and other erotic type of hobbies.

This exactly.
Love addiction is the best addiction there is, most intense, beats everything.
If you can control yourself I would play the game. Feels so good and it's all the natural hormones. If you're a jealous or stalky person, refrain.
It's also easy to overspend when getting carried away. So catch yourself if it gets out of hand.

 

[Papa]

This exactly.
Love addiction is the best addiction there is, most intense, beats everything.
If you can control yourself I would play the game. Feels so good and it's all the natural hormones. If you're a jealous or stalky person, refrain.
It's also easy to overspend when getting carried away. So catch yourself if it gets out of hand.

So true, I'm never going to forget or regret what I went through!

 

[thirdman]

I saw the same provider three times, which is something I have never done before. I decided to leave it at that, as I was a bit worried about becoming a bit emotionallly attached.