Has anyone ever fallen in love with someone who they pay to service them?

playboy1990 said:
Thank you for your and Alice's insight. This feeling is probably fleeting anyway so I should just bask in it while it lasts 😄
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I know you read and liked my post #35 above. And in post #37, I mentioned that our relationship was 11 months long. This also included many all day dates and hundreds of texts and photos, so we got to know each other very well.

While you feel emotion, I believe yours could be more infatuation at this point.

I've dated girls in the past who I really was infatuated with, but after seeing them a little more and getting to know them better, they beccame a pass for me. So yes, this could definitely be fleeting and as you say and enjoy it while it lasts.
 
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playboy1990 said:
Are we the same person? 😂

At the end of my first visit (1.5h), she said I should have a shorter session next time (1h) so that I could visit her more frequently. During my second visit, she was showing off her body and even hinted that she wanted to go further than a HE massage 😂 She seems like such a simple and genuinely cheerful person that I am contemplating just giving her some allowance and forgoing the HE if she does not feel like doing it for me on any day 😥

Am I in love? or just stupid lol
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Third time seeing her again today, I did eventually give her a small allowance and she was overjoyed which made me happy too. Also got the usual happy ending (longer rub and super big load today 🤣). Clearer now that I am not in love with her (post-nut clarity?) and just enjoy her touch and conversations. We chatted about our families after the massage and I got her personal mobile too for direct bookings. Pretty neat sweet spot as I have never gotten this personally close with a provider before and will see how this progresses. Thanks all for sharing.
 
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Isn't there a Japanese term for unreturned love or one way love? I think I might be in love but I know the feeling cannot be mutual. Doesn't make it any less fun or exciting.

I think I actually prefer it this way because I know what's expected of us both so there isn't some nasty surprise coming down the line.

My last love in a "real" relationship was awful. Bad sex, arguments, and I was cheated on. I wasted two years of my life and it probably cost the same amount as a provider in the long run.
 
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Jimmy Chu1969 said:
I'm sure she's a stunning lady and can spin any conversation towards group sex with Mike, his main attraction, and your sidekick Frenchy.
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Dude, @Frenchy is way too expensive for my salary.
 
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So, this was back in the day, but I was an avid customer of Landmark, and ended up hitting it off with one of the girls there. After a couple sessions we ended up exchanging line and went out a for about 6 months before I moved back to the states. Wouldn't say it was love, more like FWB+?

She was one of those girls who loved what she did though, so there was never a thing about getting her out of the life or anything. Really sweet girl.
 
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static said:
So, this was back in the day, but I was an avid customer of Landmark, and ended up hitting it off with one of the girls there. After a couple sessions we ended up exchanging line and went out a for about 6 months before I moved back to the states. Wouldn't say it was love, more like FWB+?

She was one of those girls who loved what she did though, so there was never a thing about getting her out of the life or anything. Really sweet girl.
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But I thought Frenchy worked for you for free? It seems line Frenchy will do anything for you.
 
Jimmy Chu1969 said:
But I thought Frenchy worked for you for free? It seems line Frenchy will do anything for you.
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Well he was kinda/ sort of my pimp during my escort days (2 days, to be precise) but let me reinsure you, it was strictly business
 
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static said:
So, this was back in the day, but I was an avid customer of Landmark, and ended up hitting it off with one of the girls there. After a couple sessions we ended up exchanging line and went out a for about 6 months before I moved back to the states. Wouldn't say it was love, more like FWB+?

She was one of those girls who loved what she did though, so there was never a thing about getting her out of the life or anything. Really sweet girl.
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I ended up visiting her for the fourth time (less than 24 hours from my third visit). This time, she teased me by using her mouth to squeeze my erect little man while it was covered in a towel. Getting seduced incrementally like this is really addictive and detrimental to my wallet 🤯
 
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playboy1990 said:
I ended up visiting her for the fourth time (less than 24 hours from my third visit). This time, she teased me by using her mouth to squeeze my erect little man while it was covered in a towel. Getting seduced incrementally like this is really addictive and detrimental to my wallet 🤯
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Quick update on the 5th session:

Was not expecting it but she pulled her pants down halfway in the middle of the session and guided my hand underneath her lace panties while giving me a HJ. I could feel her wetness but unfortunately did not manage to pleasure her properly as my hand was in an awkward position.

She also teased me by pretending to give me a BJ during this session but unlike the last round, this time she made connection with the tip using her tongue (although just barely). The tease was insanely hot! Hoping it progress to actual licking next session.

Also, as i was her last customer for the day, I accompanied and treated her to takeout after our session at her request. She joked that I would run out of money soon if i kept visiting her like that lol
 
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playboy1990 said:
Quick update on the 5th session:

Was not expecting it but she pulled her pants down halfway in the middle of the session and guided my hand underneath her lace panties while giving me a HJ. I could feel her wetness but unfortunately did not manage to pleasure her properly as my hand was in an awkward position.

She also teased me by pretending to give me a BJ during this session but unlike the last round, this time she made connection with the tip using her tongue (although just barely). The tease was insanely hot! Hoping it progress to actual licking next session.

Also, as i was her last customer for the day, I accompanied and treated her to takeout after our session at her request. She joked that I would run out of money soon if i kept visiting her like that lol
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And.. err…. How much you pay for this vigorous porn star experience, if I may ask?
 
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playboy1990 said:
More than i should lol.

Edit: Sorry, what i meant to say was "too much for my own good". I don't regret anything lol @Frenchy
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I think I'm missing a lot of context here.

Are you talking about 5 or 6 sessions at a happy ending massage place that only ends with a handy?
 
when can we get the name and location ?
 
Papa said:
As a younger man I used to have the same thoughts. Having said that, our relationship may continue.
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On the day before I was to return to the states, I met with my beautiful escort. A most emotional day for the both of us.

We've worked a few things out and will move forward with our relationship. Only time will tell, but I'm very happy!
 
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Just saw a tweet from provider,
which basically:

it is common to fall in love with a provider at a store, where she dresses her best, put on best make up, and act agreeable for the customers.

it might be different outside work, when she doesnt have to wear make up or expecting for return visit.
 
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kirayamato said:
Just saw a tweet from provider,
which basically:

it is common to fall in love with a provider at a store, where she dresses her best, put on best make up, and act agreeable for the customers.

it might be different outside work, when she doesnt have to wear make up or expecting for return visit.
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I feel like this is the main reason girls get hooked on host.
It's guys who put effort in their appearances, but who reply to line messages and are always eager to meet (as long as it involves the girl going to the club on the same day generally).
Most guys who pull girls for fun would just put in effort in their appearance and on the first few meetings and then only ever message once in a blue moon in the middle of the night or so.
Money put people on their best behavior.

That said, not all of us need makeup to make a good impression.
 
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playboy1990 said:
Quick update on the 5th session:

Was not expecting it but she pulled her pants down halfway in the middle of the session and guided my hand underneath her lace panties while giving me a HJ. I could feel her wetness but unfortunately did not manage to pleasure her properly as my hand was in an awkward position.

She also teased me by pretending to give me a BJ during this session but unlike the last round, this time she made connection with the tip using her tongue (although just barely). The tease was insanely hot! Hoping it progress to actual licking next session.

Also, as i was her last customer for the day, I accompanied and treated her to takeout after our session at her request. She joked that I would run out of money soon if i kept visiting her like that lol
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To me it sounds like she just knows how to make every repeat visit different and fun and how to show special appreciation to regulars.
 
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