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I am sick getting message from Indian guy asking no condom and low price.
Maybe SD agency is better, if I got good look in universal club will report here:)
 
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sugarcatwhite said:
I am sick getting message from Indian guy asking no condom and low price.
Maybe SD agency is better, if I got good look in universal club will report here:)
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just ignore him, isn't there an option to block someone in SA ?
 
Oh I block him..and come next Indian guy....I think is plenty of Indian all place lol
 
Sugar cat,

I’ve never been a sugar baby, but I’ve been an escort for about a year. I don’t do short 1 hour meetings and prefer to establish a deeper rapport and connection with my clients, therefore I believe my escorting style is close to sugaring.

Since you’re new on sugaring websites you should be aware that some guys lurk there to take advantage of new girls. You sound like you are firm about your expectations, which is a good thing. I don’t think your expectations are unrealistic. If people are wasting your time or causing you emotional distress, don’t hesitate to cut contact.

I don’t know about your target demographics but by sugaring you can meet a better caliber of gentlemen who can mentor you on many things: meeting and connecting with people is why I prefer escorting over some other alternative like camming. You should also be very careful with protection and sexual health, some SD are known to, uh.. not pay attention to such simple (!) details. Regarding transportation: I guess I’m the opposite, camming will confine me at home and I like going outside and exploring. :) I have a fire in my belly and I need to be on the go! If it’s a weekend day and I have time, I love walking to nearby attractions before or after appointments. (Also I love meeting businessmen from whom I can get professional advice during the downtime. Camming on the other hand require hustling with multiple people and some of these people won’t be my cup of tea.. no offense to anyone.. )

A good alternative to SA or similar websites is going out to hotel bars and meeting businessmen there. If you have the stamina and you don’t mind investing your time, it can be very fruitful after a few evenings of trying to meet new people. Gentlemen who frequently travel to Tokyo for business can be your SD candidate. Also your relationship grows more organically and you can see if you like him or not. Personally, I need to enjoy myself too ;)

I hope this helps and I wish you the best!
 
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Frenchy said:
What kind of agency? For escorts or sugar babes? Sounds like way too complicated and not as fun as writing my life on TAG :D
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I like your humor lol
Today I was at home,,,I get message from Indian and creepy old japanese man.
Everything take time I'm okay with that.
But those man does not want use condom is .....unrealistic.
They does not worry get STD? jesus.
 
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sugarcatwhite said:
I like your humor lol
Today I was at home,,,I get message from Indian and creepy old japanese man.
Everything take time I'm okay with that.
But those man does not want use condom is .....unrealistic.
They does not worry get STD? jesus.
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If I were you I’d write on my SA profile , at the top « You will not get responses if you propose stupidly low conditions and no condom usage ».

On my profile I wrote something about no interest in being contacted by ladies out of Japan. So many women from far away expect Tokyo-based guys to buy them the plane ticket without even meeting first! Ridiculous !
 
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Simonka said:
Sugar cat,

I’ve never been a sugar baby, but I’ve been an escort for about a year. I don’t do short 1 hour meetings and prefer to establish a deeper rapport and connection with my clients, therefore I believe my escorting style is close to sugaring.

Since you’re new on sugaring websites you should be aware that some guys lurk there to take advantage of new girls. You sound like you are firm about your expectations, which is a good thing. I don’t think your expectations are unrealistic. If people are wasting your time or causing you emotional distress, don’t hesitate to cut contact.

I don’t know about your target demographics but by sugaring you can meet a better caliber of gentlemen who can mentor you on many things: meeting and connecting with people why I prefer escorting over some other alternative like camming. You should also be very careful with protection and sexual health, some SD are known to, uh.. not pay attention to such simple (!) details. I guess I’m the opposite: camming will confine me at home and I like going outside and exploring. :) (Also I love meeting businessmen from whom I can get professional advice during the downtime.)

A good alternative to SA or similar websites is going out to hotel bars and meeting businessmen there. If you have the stamina and you don’t mind investing your time, it can be very fruitful after a few evenings of trying to meet new people.

I hope this helps and I wish you the best!
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Nice to meet you Simonka.
You are very right! I can tell clearly that because I am new they want take advantage of me.
Thanks god I have few job ( sales, translate and cam girl must of time showing just boobies lol)
The reason I want have SD is because I prefers have some kind connection to have sex and is more comfortable then have many customer.
( also I am picky and not such open to do all kind sex. in my opinion.)
No money is enough to risk life to get STD.
Since I use japanese cam sometime is not more than show boobies or have talk to guys, will work on it until meet potential SD.
If you are girl I would like go with you to hotel bar, is sound fun. At last if I don't get any sd will have with you girls chat .

Thanks very much for message. :)
 
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Frenchy said:
If I were you I’d write on my SA profile , at the top « You will not get responses if you propose stupidly low conditions and no condom usage ».

On my profile I wrote something about no interest in being contacted by ladies out of Japan. So many women from far away expect Tokyo-based guys to buy them the plane ticket without even meeting first! Ridiculous !
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Thanks ! I will use it.
 
sugarcatwhite said:
Nice to meet you Simonka.
You are very right! I can tell clearly that because I am new they want take advantage of me.
Thanks god I have few job ( sales, translate and cam girl must of time showing just boobies lol)
The reason I want have SD is because I prefers have some kind connection to have sex and is more comfortable then have many customer.
( also I am picky and not such open to do all kind sex. in my opinion.)
No money is enough to risk life to get STD.
Since I use japanese cam sometime is not more than show boobies or have talk to guys, will work on it until meet potential SD.
If you are girl I would like go with you to hotel bar, is sound fun. At last if I don't get any sd will have with you girls chat .

Thanks very much for message. :)
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You’re welcome! At the moment I advertise on TAG as an independent escort and I’m very grateful that I can fill my weekly client quota (which is not too much) So I don’t go to hotel bars for free styling, but I wanted to let you know that there are other options than overly saturated websites such as SA. Wish you the best and hope you stay safe!
 
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Lets me know if you want have girls chat :) I am open have female friend. #womangetalong.
 
Hey sugar cat, I've been sugaring for about a year now. I've met some fantastic guys and I've also gotten ripped off. Here is what I wish I had been told before I started:

*Have very clear expectations going in. It saves time for both you and the guy if you can establish what he wants out of the arrangement (emotional level of intimacy and physical), as well as what level of support you are looking for. During a first meeting, ask him about how often he'd like to try and meet and what his ideal arrangement would be. Finding the middle ground between what the two of you want is key.
*Do not under sell yourself, but be realistic. People will try to take advantage of you; know your worth. But at the same time, don't expect to land a monthly allowance right off the bat.
*Don't ever give out personal information. Including but not limited to: cell phone number, bank information, place of employment/school, full name. If you have an ongoing, long term relationship with an SD that you trust, then divulging those things might be necessary (for plane ticket purchases, apartments etc), but try to screen guys as best you can
*Mind the wife. Even if you trust him, if his wife gets a hold of your personal information it could mean trouble. In Japan women can sue their husband's "mistress."
*Try and be genuine. Men can tell when you are playing a part. Sugaring is about adapting your behavior to make your SD happy, but you shouldn't be a completely different person. It will make the arrangement unpleasant for both involved
*Treat every encounter as a learning experience. You will meet a lot of guys who you don't hit it off with, but don't get discouraged. Try and apply what you learned during your next date.

Good luck!
 
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This should be on sugar daddy dating book Guide!!!!
About the the law, that the reason when the man have wife should never say love him or talk bad about wife or leave any eveidence.
I will do my best not be with marriage guy.
Is ridiculous the mistress get in trouble when almost all Japanese cheat lol.( anyway this is the law and I will respect)
I will read every morning to be aware your best advice!

Thank you very much C4ssandra :)
 
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sugarcatwhite said:
About the the law, that the reason when the man have wife should never say love him or talk bad about wife or leave any eveidence
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I'm not very well-versed with the wording of the law in particular but I believe it's something like "Any relationship that could be seen as a threat to the harmony of the marriage and cause the emotional alienation." There have been cases where nonsexual relationships have qualified for "threatening harmony"

Just be careful out there!
 
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If we don’t ask about he is married we are safe. But yes, let’s stay away from Trouble
 
sugarcatwhite said:
I am from Latina America.
Very used with high violence.
Also suffered many time stalking and harassment.
Is another reason I like talk well before of meeting.
And thank you very much for kind advice :)
Will keep it in my mind.
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Aca argentino viviendo en yokohama ! De donde sos?
 
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