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Help choosing Soapland for one time visit

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Hi there,
I‘ve watched videos and I am dying to try the Soapland experience for myself. But in the reviews section, I read lots of accounts of sub-optimal experiences.

I was just wondering if anyone can recommend a place that is more or less guaranteed to give me a good experience? I’ll only be in Tokyo for a few days and don’t have unlimited funds, so it’s likely to be a single visit.

What attracts me is the total package. Being undressed by the girl, a decent BJ, a quality soapy wash on one of those stools with the slot in them, a nice time in the bath and bed.

I‘ll likely go for 120 minutes or more and had been attracted by the reports I saw of Casanovas, but is there anywhere else that might improve my chances?

For the record, I’m a retired (60 year old) Australian bloke, so will need somewhere that is good with foreigners. I’d like to find a girl who speaks English as well, but I am aware that is likely to be tricky.
 
There is no 100% guarantee, does not exist. Ever.
Even if there's a good experience or a good review, if the provider doesn't get along with you, it's going not to going to turn out well.

I'd suggest saving your money. Repeat encounters with a provider you build rapport with will net the best experience.
 
Theres not many girls working in soaps who speak English. Even those who do only speak a little bit generally, not enough to get into real conversation.

You will get a lot of responses telling you we don't do recommendations.

Just read the reviews, focus on individual girls rather than shops - some girls have consistently good reviews and you can be reasonably confident you will have a good time.
 
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After researching the median retirement pension amount for Australia, I would agree with you that OP might have a better time in Thailand with the limited budget he has considering more of the providers over there speak English and less chance of getting charged foreigner tax too.
Better yet…. Go to Philippines….. Anywhere but Japan will provide better options for this particular OP…. Japan is too complicated for this OP in terms of budget, language, and possible pitfalls of failed encounters. ….
 
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Better yet…. Go to Philippines….. Anywhere but Japan will provide better options for this particular OP…. Japan is too complicated for this OP in terms of budget, language, and possible pitfalls of failed encounters. ….
Forgot about the Philippines, thank you for that. Southeast Asia specifically Thailand and the Philippines are good choices. Others will land outside of OP’s budget like Singapore
 
Agree with everyone! You might end up spending quite a bit visiting various places before you discover what truly fits your needs.

If you're looking to make a single, solid choice, consider booking Kaoru at Y-Shirt before she leaves for a short break. Her service is known for its high satisfaction rate, but keep in mind that there's never a 100% guarantee.
 
I would agree with you that OP might have a better time in Thailand with the limited budget he has considering more of the providers over there speak English and less chance of getting charged foreigner tax too.
The places catering to foreigners in Thailand are already including foreigner taxes. Locals have their own lower priced places generally - I read a paper once that estimated 97% of Thai sex workers don't actually serve foreigners. I'm a little dubious of that figure, but definitely there are a lot of options there that are not available to tourists or foreign residents.
 
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The best way to increase your chances of a good time... is to be a good time yourself. Even the most patient, duty-oriented person can have off days, and will certainly be affected by a customer's attitude. Be courteous, put her at ease, and let her know it's your first soapland experience. There's a couple soaplands with certain ladies that receive consistently high praise on this forum. I think one's name ends with "U". ;)

I feel I need to add: the more you insist (in your mind) of a "can't fail, guaranteed good time", I think the more you'd set yourself up for a bad experience. I realize you have limited time and funds, so I'd suggest going for two different 60-minute sessions, at the lower end of the price spectrum. Hopefully you'll be back in Tokyo again soon.
 
so I'd suggest going for two different 60-minute sessions
Depends on how important mat play is though.
Some girls may not want to do it in that time frame, and even for girls who do, you may have to choose between bed and mat.
 
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Kaoru at y shirts
Sadly as I found out, she's going on vacation in like a week's time and won't be back until November so either book soon or wait a while.
 
Forgot about the Philippines, thank you for that. Southeast Asia specifically Thailand and the Philippines are good choices. Others will land outside of OP’s budget like Singapore
If you're talking about budget, then I'd have to agree.

In terms of quality (in the context of wanting a soapland experience) however... It's hit of miss with a vastly larger miss percentage. Some notes:
  • Only a few can do nuru/mat play at the same level as JP providers and even then they may not unless you're a reg
  • The gel they use isn't as high quality and tends to dry up fast
  • Longest nuru/mat play I've experienced was a little less than 15 mins
  • There's no sukebe chair or tub soaking, usually it's just a quick shower then straight to mat/bed
This is all from the "specialty" nuru salons in the metro - outcall providers I wouldn't recommend as most of them think nuru is just moving in a circular motion while lying down on top of you with massage oil as substitute. Of course this is still dependent on the provider (I've had some that are pretty good as well) so best to do research so you don't build up your expectations too much.

But then again, if you're willing to compromise, then it's no biggie.
 
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I have a provider there I would highly recommend at a smaller shop who speaks perfect English and charged next to nothing.

Unfortunately for OP but for the betterment of herself she used her language and money she earned to end up working on an online degree, then moved to the states. *Well, at least that’s what I was told. Her English sounded native at the very least so I believe it.

Fantastic lady she was fun to talk to. I generally find my best experiences are with people I vibe with on a personal level even if not a sexual level.

I didn’t even go to Bangkok for that it was for something completely different but then I got curious.
 
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Can’t stress this enough. Kaoru at Y-shirts!
Just to repeat from Kaoru's Twitter translated: "Scheduled holidays from 9/8 to 10/31"
 
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Frankly based on my experience, all conversations you need during the session is "yes" and "no" for things to happen. You'd get better experience if you speak Japanese but not the other way round.

Not many girls speak English in the industry and those who do are mostly basic conversational, eventually you just say yes and no in a different language that's all.
 
Frankly based on my experience, all conversations you need during the session is "yes" and "no" for things to happen. You'd get better experience if you speak Japanese but not the other way round.
Haha, there's definitely some truth to that! I've noticed that when I downplay my speaking abilities, the session SOMETIMES tends to have more action and less chatting.