Help! Libido getting lower

[Frenchy]

First update after 1 full week of no (duo) action : feeling very pleased with myself, watched porn a bit but nothing drastic
Now 3 fantasies I swear I will realize when next SB arrives (Brazilian, kinky).
1. Sex on the beach. Yes, havent done it yet , a bit ashamed
2. the GI slut. Those girls wanting to fuck US Army guys. So instead of wasting my time trying to get one (I’m not exactly what they look for ! ) I will go with her to a Yokosuka bar or wherever those types congregate and she plays the role ... until I ask to come back to my table. Then the trick is to leave quickly before I get murdered. Or invite the GI for a 3P if we are all cool with that
3. I forgot but there was a third one

Yep, refraining a bit is definitely good for the libido. Not just the wallet !

 

[Sudsy]

3. I forgot but there was a third one

I believe you were asking me to teach you some bar bets....

 

[Frenchy]

I believe you were asking me to teach you some bar bets....

Ah yes true!
3. Dungeon/Bikes/Heavy Metal/ Ice hockey wirh a Trans and Sudsy (not sure if that’s losing or winning the bet but whatever)

Btw, I watched Kimmel recently and he applied for the job of mayor of Dildo, Canada. I think about running against him. Its not a joke, Dildo is a real town in NewFoundLand

 

[Sudsy]

Dildo is a real town in NewFoundLand

I’ve actually been there.

Unsurprisingly, like most of Newfoundland, it’s a bit of a depressing place...

 

[namae]

First update after 1 full week of no (duo) action : feeling very pleased with myself, watched porn a bit but nothing drastic
Now 3 fantasies I swear I will realize when next SB arrives (Brazilian, kinky).
1. Sex on the beach. Yes, havent done it yet , a bit ashamed
2. the GI slut. Those girls wanting to fuck US Army guys. So instead of wasting my time trying to get one (I’m not exactly what they look for ! ) I will go with her to a Yokosuka bar or wherever those types congregate and she plays the role ... until I ask to come back to my table. Then the trick is to leave quickly before I get murdered. Or invite the GI for a 3P if we are all cool with that
3. I forgot but there was a third one

Yep, refraining a bit is definitely good for the libido. Not just the wallet !

A day at the beach is very good for the libido. Drinking beer and carefully studying bikini girls certainly beats yoga, crystals and whale music.

If your on your own, set yourself a goal ..... like consensual sex with a woman under 35 in a pop up tent on the beach before 4pm. Hit that target and you will great on the train ride home......like scoring the winning try for France v. England in the 80th minute of the RWC final.

 

[Frenchy]

A day at the beach is very good for the libido. Drinking beer and carefully studying bikini girls certainly beats yoga, crystals and whale music.

If your on your own, set yourself a goal ..... like consensual sex with a woman under 35 in a pop up tent on the beach before 4pm. Hit that target and you will great on the train ride home......like scoring the winning try for France v. England in the 80th minute of the RWC final.

... I wish ! (All of the above)

 

[Keihan]

First update after 1 full week of no (duo) action : feeling very pleased with myself, watched porn a bit but nothing drastic
Now 3 fantasies I swear I will realize when next SB arrives (Brazilian, kinky).
1. Sex on the beach. Yes, havent done it yet , a bit ashamed
2. the GI slut. Those girls wanting to fuck US Army guys. So instead of wasting my time trying to get one (I’m not exactly what they look for ! ) I will go with her to a Yokosuka bar or wherever those types congregate and she plays the role ... until I ask to come back to my table. Then the trick is to leave quickly before I get murdered. Or invite the GI for a 3P if we are all cool with that
3. I forgot but there was a third one

Yep, refraining a bit is definitely good for the libido. Not just the wallet !

Be careful with #1 and #2. Fucking on the beach sounds really sexy but it can be very difficult, particularly if you're drunk. As a guy who's done the "spontaneous" (and drunken) hump on the beach a few times, I can tell you that if you're both intoxicated and rolling around and kicking up sand, if any of that sand gets stuck on a wet honeypot, the intercourse is NOT going to go well. I would definitely recommend bringing as large a beach blanket as you can find.

And be careful in Yokosuka, as that's where we have our naval base. That means sailors. That means stressed out, horny kids who've been stuck on a ship or submarine for months at a time. That can do very, very strange things to a young man, and the consequences usually manifest the second they dock and the c/o signs off on leave. They come off the boat with half chubs, hair-trigger tempers and the only thing they care about is getting laid, getting laid, getting a drink, getting laid, and repeating another fourteen times in the same night. You don't want to be the old guy competing for the young pussy at the sailor bar and trigger a feeding frenzy.

How I wish I was young again!

 

[Frenchy]

Be careful with #1 and #2. Fucking on the beach sounds really sexy but it can be very difficult, particularly if you're drunk. As a guy who's done the "spontaneous" (and drunken) hump on the beach a few times, I can tell you that if you're both intoxicated and rolling around and kicking up sand, if any of that sand gets stuck on a wet honeypot, the intercourse is NOT going to go well. I would definitely recommend bringing as large a beach blanket as you can find.

And be careful in Yokosuka, as that's where we have our naval base. That means sailors. That means stressed out, horny kids who've been stuck on a ship or submarine for months at a time. That can do very, very strange things to a young man, and the consequences usually manifest the second they dock and the c/o signs off on leave. They come off the boat with half chubs, hair-trigger tempers and the only thing they care about is getting laid, getting laid, getting a drink, getting laid, and repeating another fourteen times in the same night. You don't want to be the old guy competing for the young pussy at the sailor bar and trigger a feeding frenzy.

How I wish I was young again!

Yes, these two ideas could go very wrong which is probably why I am interested in them. Having dumb ideas and making bad decisions are my trademarks here, I have a reputation to maintain!

 

[Sudsy]

the only thing they care about is getting laid, getting laid, getting a drink, getting laid, and repeating another fourteen times in the same night.

You underestimate them.

They also truly desire to get as drunk as humanly possible.

 

[namae]

ntercourse is NOT going to go well. I would definitely recommend bringing as large a beach blanket as you can find.

And be careful in Yokosuka, as that's where we have our naval base. That means sailors. That means stressed out, horny kids who've been stuck on a ship or submarine for months at a time. That can do very, very strange things to a young man, and the consequences usually manifest the second they dock and the c/o signs off on leave. They come off the boat with half chubs, hair-trigger tempers and the only thing they care about is getting laid, getting laid, getting a drink, getting laid, and repeating another fourteen times in the same night. You don't want to be the old guy competing for the young pussy at the sailor bar and trigger a feeding frenzy.

How I wish I was young again!

This warning didn't head in the direction I was expecting. I thought the risk was that the sailors would read the situation as: chubby middle aged French male drinking alone in Yokosuka dive bar = sub gagging for an all night gang bang with unlimited Eiffel Towers.

 

[MikeH]

I thought the risk was that the sailors would read the situation as: chubby middle aged French male drinking alone in Yokosuka dive bar = sub gagging for an all night gang bang with unlimited Eiffel Towers.

That scenario doesn't exclude getting a good beating afterwards. Because it's not gay if you beat him after getting your balls emptied.

 

[Frenchy]

This warning didn't head in the direction I was expecting. I thought the risk was that the sailors would read the situation as: chubby middle aged French male drinking alone in Yokosuka dive bar = sub gagging for an all night gang bang with unlimited Eiffel Towers.

That scenario doesn't exclude getting a good beating afterwards. Because it's not gay if you beat him after getting your balls emptied.

Guys, aren’t you projecting just a little bit?

 

[Frenchy]

Guys, aren’t you projecting just a little bit?

Anyway, its a moot point. I don’t like sailors. Except when its on a Beneteau Oceanis 45 or bigger , but I’m sure most of those 20-something in the Navy don’t even know how to handle a sailboat.
So... I will pay for the mock GI too (which is Infantry anyway, so not to be found in Yokosuka as you smartasses should have noticed first )

 

[greenhawk]

How I wish I was young again!

Same here. If I could go back to being 20 again with the knowledge I have know and non head up my ass I would be able to actually enjoy sex in my 20's instead of wasting time trying to find another girlfriend lol.

 

[hkAlone]

First update after 1 full week of no (duo) action : feeling very pleased with myself, watched porn a bit but nothing drastic
Now 3 fantasies I swear I will realize when next SB arrives (Brazilian, kinky).
1. Sex on the beach. Yes, havent done it yet , a bit ashamed
2. the GI slut. Those girls wanting to fuck US Army guys. So instead of wasting my time trying to get one (I’m not exactly what they look for ! ) I will go with her to a Yokosuka bar or wherever those types congregate and she plays the role ... until I ask to come back to my table. Then the trick is to leave quickly before I get murdered. Or invite the GI for a 3P if we are all cool with that
3. I forgot but there was a third one

Yep, refraining a bit is definitely good for the libido. Not just the wallet !

#2 is a good one to bring back your libido at its best. Indeed putting yourself in a life threatening situation tends to make you amazingly horny. The bad side with a life threatening situation is that you can get murdered. But anyway, get horny or die trying

 

[Lukes]

#2 is a good one to bring back your libido at its best. Indeed putting yourself in a life threatening situation tends to make you amazingly horny. The bad side with a life threatening situation is that you can get murdered. But anyway, get horny or die trying

Lol. Dangling some pussy in front of a trained killer and then yanking it away at the last second. What could possibly go wrong?

 

[Frenchy]

get horny or die trying

That would be an excellent motto for some pervy coat of arms to be invented! Better in any case than “Dieu et mon droit” or “E pluribus unum”

 

[Frenchy]

Lol. Dangling some pussy in front of a trained killer and then yanking it away at the last second. What could possibly go wrong?

Hey don’t worry, both France and Brazil are America’s allies, I’m sure they will take that into consideration

 

[namae]

That scenario doesn't exclude getting a good beating afterwards. Because it's not gay if you beat him after getting your balls emptied.

No need for violence! A floral patterned short summer dress and some haphazardly applied red lipstick and everything is kosher. Flying under the gaydar.

 

[Lukes]

Hey don’t worry, both France and Brazil are America’s allies, I’m sure they will take that into consideration

Well, friendly fire accidents do happen

 

[scorpioni6ths]

2. the GI slut. Those girls wanting to fuck US Army guys. So instead of wasting my time trying to get one

just buy yourself some milsurp fatigues in Ueno/Okachimachi and surprise her ... GI Joe Frenchy ~

 

[Frenchy]

just buy yourself some milsurp fatigues in Ueno/Okachimachi and surprise her ... GI Joe Frenchy ~

Good idea! Also bars near US bases are mostly shitty from what I heard, and I already did the “hey baby lets go back home now” thing with another SB recently, it was fun to see the young dudes’ faces (not Army guys though, just tourists)

 

[scorpioni6ths]

http://www.nakatashoten.com/

 

[Hereiam15]

and its weird as usually Summer is good for it...
Recently had 3 dates when I could barely perform and was not into it anyway.
Fed-up with P4P , which happens often, but usually because I think I waste money.
Now I know I waste money but it’s not the main issue , rather I don’t even really want what it pays for anymore.
In a way maybe its healthy , like a curse being slowly lifted..
What do you guys do , if and when it happens?

This may have been answered already, but I've worked with nutrition and how libido is effected as we age. If you are suffering from lower libido and possibly not able to stay aroused, it's probably due to your circulation and the fact you mentioned drinking alcohol. Alcohol acts as a suppressant, especially when it comes to sex and can make you libido actually much lower and not be able to maintain an erection.

The heat also plays a role in this as we get dehydrated and aren't thinking about sex as our body is just trying to maintain vitality. I highly suggest drinking lots of water, as simple as it sounds, but it makes a huge difference. What food are you eating as well? Just curious to know, because food also plays a big role on libido. Hope this helps!

 

[Frenchy]

This may have been answered already, but I've worked with nutrition and how libido is effected as we age. If you are suffering from lower libido and possibly not able to stay aroused, it's probably due to your circulation and the fact you mentioned drinking alcohol. Alcohol acts as a suppressant, especially when it comes to sex and can make you libido actually much lower and not be able to maintain an erection.

The heat also plays a role in this as we get dehydrated and aren't thinking about sex as our body is just trying to maintain vitality. I highly suggest drinking lots of water, as simple as it sounds, but it makes a huge difference. What food are you eating as well? Just curious to know, because food also plays a big role on libido. Hope this helps!

Thanks! Eating lots (too much actually) of different stuff but that did not change between libido-on and libido-off periods.
In fact abstinence and less alcohol + more water helped a lot. Already having more naughty thoughts again