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I am married with kids. The marriage is ok, but not great and sex has gone down to nothing since the second kid a few years ago. I have had a couple of P4P experiences since then to help things in my own department though it is not frequent and nothing too intense. Mostly massage HJ kind of thing.
Recently I got a private message through an online social site from a co-worker who said she wants to get to know me better and some flattering things. We met up and we talked for a bit. She said she is interested in me and would like to get together more. She says she will not speak anything about our visits. We discussed possible ways to meet and how to stay in contact. She knows I am married, we talked about it and our kids. She also has a child, is about my age and is either divorced or living separate from her spouse.
So, can you help me understand this? My instinct is that she was perhaps a hostess at one point in the past, but now is just like an office worker. Where do you think this is going? Should I engage in this? I am just looking for general feedback I guess at this point based on the large amount of experience on this site with various relationships. Thanks in advance.
Recently I got a private message through an online social site from a co-worker who said she wants to get to know me better and some flattering things. We met up and we talked for a bit. She said she is interested in me and would like to get together more. She says she will not speak anything about our visits. We discussed possible ways to meet and how to stay in contact. She knows I am married, we talked about it and our kids. She also has a child, is about my age and is either divorced or living separate from her spouse.
So, can you help me understand this? My instinct is that she was perhaps a hostess at one point in the past, but now is just like an office worker. Where do you think this is going? Should I engage in this? I am just looking for general feedback I guess at this point based on the large amount of experience on this site with various relationships. Thanks in advance.