Well folks here have pretty much and pretty well summarized it for me.
First of all, try to know how much you're willing to pay for a massage and a HJ.
That means that should keep in your wallet that precise amount only, MAXIMUM.
Most of girls asking for more money for happy endings once they started the massage, will leave you with nothing left in your wallet, even the spare change if they can.
Been there done that.
And once you're in the booth, in the mood, almost fully naked, it's hard to turn down the offer if you're not experienced...
You can pretty much tell 8 times out of 10 upfront, places where things might go well at the end: girls dressed up in a sexy outfit, dim light, "lymph drainage" option and the use of the word "Relaxation" instead of "massage".
For me red flags are: men therapists (unless it's your thing and that's perfectly fine), girls dressed up like they work in a clinic, plenty of people and/or staff, the list is long.
To be honest, I now tend to ask more or less directly which kind of services they provide. That works relatively well too... Actually a few places will tell you the truth once you're barely seated, picking up one of their course.
I'd say that if you have a doubt, just leave and try another place. And I still if you read my last review, I still fall for the wrong places!
I do consider massage parlors cruising like an adventure... Part of the fun is to try to discover your new favorite place and see things heating up while being massaged. I guess that's part of the thrill, at least for me
