How Did You Lose Your Virginity?

Interesting thread! It now also makes me wonder why there wasn't a thread like this before. :)

I lost my virginity the first time I came to Japan at a one night stand after clubbing. I was quite 'late' and wanted to get it done I guess. Around that time everything seemed good for me, timing, feeling and so on so I jumped on it. The fact that I was a bit tipsy might helped haha. It was not bad but nothing romantic unlike some others always tell. And I didn't expect it to be something 'special'.
 
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I had sex!
Isn't the answer you are looking for I suppose..
I lost my virginity at the soapland Last Scene in August of 2015.
I was 36 at the time, haven't exactly been saving myself for a Japanese girl but I do like them the best so I figured I might as well do it and I'd been curious about soaplands for a while.
I was crazy nervous, and I had to wait for over 2 hours in the waiting room because it was a busy day, which didn't make things better.
I had problems with erection so I kept slipping out plus she seemed very small inside, so I couldn't come but I had a great time anyway and she was fun and beautiful and kind to me.
 
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e-smile said:
my first time was far from being romantic, she was a little fat and old (50) I was young and horny (15). I don't remember her face but I remember she had a cat watching us doing it.
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Bit curious surrounding this. Boys at 15 usually do go straight for 50 yo fat women..
 
My first time...
I was around 15 and had invited my boyfriend to my house.
My parents were out for a bit so i figured we had time.
I was really excited because i had been wanting to lose my virginity for a while but i had not found the right boy before and also privacy was an issue because of my age.
I don't know if i made the right choice but it doesn't matter so much to me.
As for looks he looked really cool, still the type i would go for. At least i can look back at that without cringling.
But the sex was horrible.. Wow. He was quite older than me, already in his 20s. So i figured he'd know better what to do than someone my age. Sadly he was unexperienced and didn't really like sex, he told me before but we both thought it'd be fine because there was a good chemistry between us.
Well no, he was much bigger than i expected. I was dry and although he went down on me for a bit it wasn't enough to really get me wet and we really should have known to use a bit of lube for the first time or at least to apply spit.
It hurt like hell and i had to tell him to stop after a while. It just totally wasn't working.
I had already interest in sex work at the time but almost gave up because of this bad experience.
We tried again a few times and the second time was a bit better but still... Third time also not good. Never made him cum. I felt like still being a virgin because i couldn't even ride out one round.
A month after he took my virginity this guy broke up with me. Since he didn't seem to enjoy sex i don't think he "used" me or anything but i suspect the rubbish sex was one of the reasons he broke up with me.
The reasons he told me were so stupid but he had some mental issues (i know everyone says that about their exes but this case is a bit different) so maybe it was legit. Really disturbed person but i was naive and he looked really cool and acted kinda cool and sweet to me.

Second boyfriend was much older than me and looking back i feel used by him but he taught me how to properly have sex and even enjoy it a bit. He was build smaller and more experienced with technique so that was a good thing at least.

I think experienced guys are better for the experience of losing virginity but there is a bigger chance they are just using you.
 
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@User#8628 it may sound funny from some one who had sex at that age with a 50 yo woman but I don't have a high esteem on guys in their 20s who have sex with a 15 yo girl. and I'm not suprised to read he had mental issues.
 
Soapysoap66 said:
Having sex with virgins is probably not so good sex no, from both sides.
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yeah but at least the virgin guy can hardly feel pain from his 1st time. I've always stopped relations when I found out the girl I was dating was virgin. not only because of the pain but also of the "engagement" symbol behind it, especially here in north Africa.
 
Soapysoap66 said:
To clarify, 15 is legal in some countries, including mine.
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depends on the partner age in most countries I think.
for example in the european countries I know there is no legal problem if both are under 18 but if the guy is over 18 and the girl under and there is a 5 years difference between them, it will be considered as a statutory rape.
 
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I don't think it was a great move from him and i don't think he was a great pick of me looking back now but i don't really regret it.
We live and we learn.

It wasn't exactly legal but not something that got him in trouble.
 
after an eternity of waiting.. Out of nowhere this hot artist chick took a liking to me and we tried our best to have good sex.. We didn't

she admitted she had problems getting wet.. She could hardly take any of me in her mouth before gagging..

I had no idea what I was doing and after years of frequent hard masturbation to porn was basically impossible to finish.. I liked her a lot but it quickly fizzled out.. Overall I am very happy I lost it with someone I genuinely liked
 
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Soapysoap66 said:
Northern Europe is as specific as I'll get for now.
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I wanted to google the exact law because sometimes it's tricky. may be you can do it for me.
for example in France the minimum age consent is 15, yet you can be sued for statutory rape (or underage abuse to be closer to the french words) if you're 20 and she's 15.
 
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Oh well, supposing no one here is planning to hit on a 15 years old in Europe its not that important.

I don't think i could succesfully sue him now, nor do i want to. :p
 
I looked it up and if the child is considered under the care of the older person, such as a parent, foster parent etc then the child has to be 18 or over for it to be legal.
If both parties are under 15 then there are no legal ramifications as they are not legally punishable. This is for my country, no idea about others.
But way off topic now.
 
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At a delivery health shop, last year, she secretly offer FJ so I just agree to it without thinking twice.
 
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BlackJack1 said:
At a delivery health shop, last year, she secretly offer FJ so I just agree to it without thinking twice.
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Ok, this is where my problem with reading acronyms comes up again. What is FJ? Full job? I'm not making fun of you, I genuinely can't figure it out and I'd like to know.
 
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Whateveryouwant said:
I lost my virginity in Paris and it was as magical and sickly as it sounds haha.

We went at it all night and pretty hard so I couldn't walk the next day. But that was ok because we spent the next day in bed anyway ;).
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Double like!
 
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