Due to Gaijin Girl's thread about losing her virginity now at 23, I felt i figure we could talk about "how old we were for our first time." I say there is no shame in being a virgin at that age. Hugh Hefner lost his at 22 so I say it's not that bad and I learned that just a few years ago lol. I tend to tell some people and teenage relatives that and it does make them feel better.
But as Chef from South Park would recommend, 17 is a good age and that is how old I was when I lost it to a Japanese-American girlfriend I had and that started my appreciation for Japanese girls. She was small framed for her age but had a nice bob cut, really thin, smooth and fresh skin, and she had the most beautiful eyes and a hypnotizing smile. Unfortunately, life just broke us up after graduation. We were seeing each other right after I moved to Arizona and we were in a few classes together and we got along very well and started dating just less than 2 months after we first met. At that age, we did have a good connection and we had a lot in common both having experiences of moving a lot and having fathers in the military. I really loved the way I made her laugh. Other than a former co-worker, amongst my history of shitty relationships since 13, she is probably my 2nd my favorite serious girlfriend in my lifetime.
Then nearly a year later, we were having "the talk," or I was having "the talk" with her. I thought we were going to be together forever and she was special to me at that time and I wanted to share my passion with her to the next level. Of course at each other's houses was relatively impossible since family members were always home as well and we both came from relatively big families. I told them my family had a cabin up north in Arizona.
It was her first time as well when we went on a camping trip together up in Flagstaff, Arizona in late summer when the weather is nicer compared to the Phoenix area when we were living at the time. I borrowed my old man's dodge ram and partially lied to my family that I was camping with the boys for the weekend (that was going to backfire on me) and we would go hunting and my dad let me take his rifles and gave me the keys to the family cabin.
I picked up my girlfriend at the mall and she told her family that she was spending the weekend at a friend's house (ironically that would backfire on her too) and we used that as a meeting point. Then we drove up and just listened to a little bit of N'sync, The Calling, and all the big music names in the late 90s/early 00s. We were laughing, talking about how much of a good time we were going to have all that. Of course we wanted to see the nature of Flagstaff, eat the food, look at the stars, go hunting, swimming, etc.
We made it to the cabin past 5pm. We took time to rest. Guided her to the bed, laid down, held hands, talking about our so called futures, etc. Then she said she wanted to take a shower and said it was cool. Then a few minutes later, seeing the door was unlocked, I undressed myself, let myself in with a towel around my waist. I told her I came in and said I wanted to join her. It was a pretty big shower area and I told her not to be afraid since we made the choice. She closed her eyes and I took off my towel, let myself in and walked behind her hugged her from behind and started kissing her and my teenage erection was just going wild and contact was natural to her body and the size freaked her out. At that point, I had no idea of what my size was and of course this was the beginning of the mainstreaming of the internet and porn was easy to access and didn't have to see "blurry channels" anymore if any of you remember that. She didn't see it yet but she said it felt big.
We didn't really do it yet but I was just kissing her in the shower and told her everything is ok. We just embraced and kissed each other until the hot water ran out. We dried each other off, walked off to the bed, took off her towel, resumed kissing, nibbled down her neck and started sucking on her nipples (her breasts weren't that big) and worked my way down to her pussy. Boy did it feel right at the time. She found it ticklish. Then she started doing small licks on my cock. She was afraid to put it in her mouth. But man, she was small framed to begin with and had small hands and she made it look big compared to my hands. She would lick it and her hand jobs weren't great. Then I finally put on the condom and got it in (after awhile) and we started with missionary. Man it was tighter than I thought and glad we finally did in isolation since she was screaming like crazy but she told me to not stop. I worked a little slowly and I told her if she wanted to stop, we could stop but she also felt there was no turning back.
It was some work and then I lasted I don't know how many minutes I lasted but like many people the first time tends to suck. I thought i would last like the porn stars but we were just kids. At the same time, we felt there were no regrets and we could do it again. We took another shower after talking for a while and we just spent the rest of the night outside just looking outside at the clear skies. It was pretty fun after that.
Then the following morning, we headed back home and I dropped my girlfriend off at a location to get her parents to pick her up and I went home. And the backfire part was that one of my friend's called while I was gone and told them there was no camping trip and my parents called my other friends saying they didn't go with me. My girlfriend at the time had her parents call her friends and they didn't about it either. I looked at my cell phone and realized my battery was out and forgot to call and didn't bring any chargers and neither did she. I just made up a story that my friends bailed out and I just wanted some alone time in the end and my parents were cool. My girlfriend just said it was a new friend her parents didn't know about and it was all cool.
Eventually, senior year of high school started, and we did find other opportunities to go at it again and things got better with time. Unfortunately, we graduated, life tore us apart, she did find another guy after college and was engaged but they broke up and she is now a 2nd grade teacher last I heard about her.
But as Chef from South Park would recommend, 17 is a good age and that is how old I was when I lost it to a Japanese-American girlfriend I had and that started my appreciation for Japanese girls. She was small framed for her age but had a nice bob cut, really thin, smooth and fresh skin, and she had the most beautiful eyes and a hypnotizing smile. Unfortunately, life just broke us up after graduation. We were seeing each other right after I moved to Arizona and we were in a few classes together and we got along very well and started dating just less than 2 months after we first met. At that age, we did have a good connection and we had a lot in common both having experiences of moving a lot and having fathers in the military. I really loved the way I made her laugh. Other than a former co-worker, amongst my history of shitty relationships since 13, she is probably my 2nd my favorite serious girlfriend in my lifetime.
Then nearly a year later, we were having "the talk," or I was having "the talk" with her. I thought we were going to be together forever and she was special to me at that time and I wanted to share my passion with her to the next level. Of course at each other's houses was relatively impossible since family members were always home as well and we both came from relatively big families. I told them my family had a cabin up north in Arizona.
It was her first time as well when we went on a camping trip together up in Flagstaff, Arizona in late summer when the weather is nicer compared to the Phoenix area when we were living at the time. I borrowed my old man's dodge ram and partially lied to my family that I was camping with the boys for the weekend (that was going to backfire on me) and we would go hunting and my dad let me take his rifles and gave me the keys to the family cabin.
I picked up my girlfriend at the mall and she told her family that she was spending the weekend at a friend's house (ironically that would backfire on her too) and we used that as a meeting point. Then we drove up and just listened to a little bit of N'sync, The Calling, and all the big music names in the late 90s/early 00s. We were laughing, talking about how much of a good time we were going to have all that. Of course we wanted to see the nature of Flagstaff, eat the food, look at the stars, go hunting, swimming, etc.
We made it to the cabin past 5pm. We took time to rest. Guided her to the bed, laid down, held hands, talking about our so called futures, etc. Then she said she wanted to take a shower and said it was cool. Then a few minutes later, seeing the door was unlocked, I undressed myself, let myself in with a towel around my waist. I told her I came in and said I wanted to join her. It was a pretty big shower area and I told her not to be afraid since we made the choice. She closed her eyes and I took off my towel, let myself in and walked behind her hugged her from behind and started kissing her and my teenage erection was just going wild and contact was natural to her body and the size freaked her out. At that point, I had no idea of what my size was and of course this was the beginning of the mainstreaming of the internet and porn was easy to access and didn't have to see "blurry channels" anymore if any of you remember that. She didn't see it yet but she said it felt big.
We didn't really do it yet but I was just kissing her in the shower and told her everything is ok. We just embraced and kissed each other until the hot water ran out. We dried each other off, walked off to the bed, took off her towel, resumed kissing, nibbled down her neck and started sucking on her nipples (her breasts weren't that big) and worked my way down to her pussy. Boy did it feel right at the time. She found it ticklish. Then she started doing small licks on my cock. She was afraid to put it in her mouth. But man, she was small framed to begin with and had small hands and she made it look big compared to my hands. She would lick it and her hand jobs weren't great. Then I finally put on the condom and got it in (after awhile) and we started with missionary. Man it was tighter than I thought and glad we finally did in isolation since she was screaming like crazy but she told me to not stop. I worked a little slowly and I told her if she wanted to stop, we could stop but she also felt there was no turning back.
It was some work and then I lasted I don't know how many minutes I lasted but like many people the first time tends to suck. I thought i would last like the porn stars but we were just kids. At the same time, we felt there were no regrets and we could do it again. We took another shower after talking for a while and we just spent the rest of the night outside just looking outside at the clear skies. It was pretty fun after that.
Then the following morning, we headed back home and I dropped my girlfriend off at a location to get her parents to pick her up and I went home. And the backfire part was that one of my friend's called while I was gone and told them there was no camping trip and my parents called my other friends saying they didn't go with me. My girlfriend at the time had her parents call her friends and they didn't about it either. I looked at my cell phone and realized my battery was out and forgot to call and didn't bring any chargers and neither did she. I just made up a story that my friends bailed out and I just wanted some alone time in the end and my parents were cool. My girlfriend just said it was a new friend her parents didn't know about and it was all cool.
Eventually, senior year of high school started, and we did find other opportunities to go at it again and things got better with time. Unfortunately, we graduated, life tore us apart, she did find another guy after college and was engaged but they broke up and she is now a 2nd grade teacher last I heard about her.
