How safe it is to call girl at apartment ?
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Hello Mav, welcome to TAG!
If you stick with the normal agencies, such as the ones you mentioned, you should be fine. All three of those have really good reputations in that regard.
What you don't want to do is invite unknowns, such as people from Craigslist or other sites that don't have a known reputation. To my knowledge, there haven’t been any incidents that were considered "major".
There are a few things to consider: If you don't live by yourself and have housemates, in some cases they won't send a girl to your apartment. That's mainly for the safety of the girl that would be coming. If you are concerned with the girl stealing something, I really don't think that's an issue in Japan.
Just be respectful to the girl that comes to see you, don't offer her any alcohol or or anything she could deem to be risky. Have fresh, clean towels available and don't make her feel restricted. Don't be offended if she doesn't use or take something that you offer.
Maybe this explanation was a little excessive, but these are just common things when you have someone visiting your place. If you have more specific questions, let us know.
If you stick with the normal agencies, such as the ones you mentioned, you should be fine. All three of those have really good reputations in that regard.
What you don't want to do is invite unknowns, such as people from Craigslist or other sites that don't have a known reputation. To my knowledge, there haven’t been any incidents that were considered "major".
There are a few things to consider: If you don't live by yourself and have housemates, in some cases they won't send a girl to your apartment. That's mainly for the safety of the girl that would be coming. If you are concerned with the girl stealing something, I really don't think that's an issue in Japan.
Just be respectful to the girl that comes to see you, don't offer her any alcohol or or anything she could deem to be risky. Have fresh, clean towels available and don't make her feel restricted. Don't be offended if she doesn't use or take something that you offer.
Maybe this explanation was a little excessive, but these are just common things when you have someone visiting your place. If you have more specific questions, let us know.
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yeah it is safe. i don't invite them to my apartment though, its too messy!!! i don't want to clean it up.
maybe one day i will get around to it. it's also small
and i have nosy neighbors!
i have friends that have had them at their place.
no problems i have heard of except one rejection because of more than one person
living at the same place. understandable though, i think.
maybe one day i will get around to it. it's also small
and i have nosy neighbors!
i have friends that have had them at their place.
no problems i have heard of except one rejection because of more than one person
living at the same place. understandable though, i think.
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I don't have an apartment or permanent home in Japan, I usually stay in hotels and invite girls to my room while I'm here. I've never had a problem except with certain hotels that restrict guest access to customer rooms. For those, I'll go to a love hotel or meet them in the lobby and sneak them upstairs, haha.
Trust me, the girl coming to your place would be much more nervous that you would be. Until you are a repeating, trusted client, I'm sure they are more worried about what could happen to them vs. you worried about anything happening at your place. Let me qualify that statement a little by saying that I'm refering to the known agencies such as the ones posted on this website. Anyone else from unknown services, I wouldn't trust to come to my home or hotel until I get to know them. Also, carry the bare necessities to avoid a risk of being ripped off while you're not looking.
I've managed to meet three girls on this trip, pending reports to follow of course, but each visit was delightful and there were no issues.
Trust me, the girl coming to your place would be much more nervous that you would be. Until you are a repeating, trusted client, I'm sure they are more worried about what could happen to them vs. you worried about anything happening at your place. Let me qualify that statement a little by saying that I'm refering to the known agencies such as the ones posted on this website. Anyone else from unknown services, I wouldn't trust to come to my home or hotel until I get to know them. Also, carry the bare necessities to avoid a risk of being ripped off while you're not looking.
I've managed to meet three girls on this trip, pending reports to follow of course, but each visit was delightful and there were no issues.
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This link you are trying to post has been banned from this site. 'supergaijin' came here previously and spammed that link all over the place as well as spoke ill of other reputable services.
Sorry that things are like that, but we will not tolerate that sort of behavior.
Thanks for your understanding.
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I'm single, and I personally wouldn't invite a call girl to my apartment, unless I had seen the girl a number of times and knew that she was a consummate professional. I mean, when I go on first dates with civilian girls, I don't tell them my exact train station much less my address until I've gone out on a few dates with them. That may be overly cautious of me, but I'd like to keep the drama as far away from my home as possible.
A call girl that comes to your place not only knows where you live, but probably knows or can easily find your full name, what sort of possessions you have, and can then easily follow you to work, to your SO/family/friends house and then blackmail you. This is an unlikely possibility, but still a possibility, whereas meeting them in a neutral location lowers that possibility to practically nil.
A call girl that comes to your place not only knows where you live, but probably knows or can easily find your full name, what sort of possessions you have, and can then easily follow you to work, to your SO/family/friends house and then blackmail you. This is an unlikely possibility, but still a possibility, whereas meeting them in a neutral location lowers that possibility to practically nil.
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Can't find an 'agree' button anywhere, but I really agree with this.
Any p4p activity, at least for me, is segregated away from any potential contact with neighbors, friends, possessions and whatever else! It's just smart to keep that activity separated.
To date, I've not had a problem with anyone, but that could very well change if I ever let down my defenses.
With AM or ND, I have always had the girls come to my apartment. Never once had a bad experience. I even had some girls come over from The 10,000 Yen place. Again, never a bad experience. Maybe I was just lucky, but I think in Japan, with the reputable places, you won't have any problems. But if you are really worried about it, then hide your valuables or head out to the love hotel. Love hotels really aren't that bad, by the way. ;-)
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This is exactly what I mean. Nothing against AM or any of the other orgs that I've frequented, it's just that even in the case of a single guy keeping the hobby life and my normal life separate is a good habit to get into. When you are dealing with sex and money, "nothing bad has happened to me yet" isn't good enough for me.
I think the only thing I've backed off on is that in the US I had a pre-paid phone as a 'hobby phone', and I didn't want to pay for an extra phone here in Japan (that would be identifiable here anyway), so I just use my standard JP phone number.
is it safe to have guests form escort-erotic-massage.com / hipness/ 1000yen in hotel rooms (not love hotels)? How to save the identity. I do not want to reveal my identity. Is it possible? Are these safe from HIV? I am new comer to this forum, so please dont mind the ridiculous queries. http://www.shinjuku-escort-erotic-massage.com/top.php
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Identity-wise, if you are staying alone in a nicer hotel, you probably aren't going to have any major issues. I'm not sure about the erotic massage place, but the times that I contacted hipness, they didn't require my full name -- although they did have my phone number and I met them at a love hotel in Uguisudani. I don't know if you are staying in a regular hotel if they require your full name. You could email them and ask. Asian Mystique, for example, requires your full name, I think mainly so they can call the hotel and ask for you if need be.
Safe from HIV- I'm pretty sure erotic massage is an over-priced handjob, so you probably aren't going to be exposed to many fluids if you don't want. The girls I've seen with hipness have been GFE, but with condoms during sex. It's really up to you to weigh the STD risks. Just kissing someone can expose you, however minuscule chance there is. You probably have as much chance of HIV exposure or less at a place like Hipness than you would going to Gas Panic and picking up a really drunk gaijin hunter girl and sleeping with her. Happy hobbying.
It all depends on your risk appetite.
The providers in Japan are reasonably safe and I have had girls from AM and other places at my apartment with no issues but a someone here said that past is not a good indicator of future...
Having said that, girls in this business are worried about their own safety and protection as they are on the wrong side of the law so doing something as dangerous as blackmail need some real guts and huge risk - including angering their employer as the establishment they work with and rest of the comfort/sex industry do not want any undue attention.
My 2 cents.
The providers in Japan are reasonably safe and I have had girls from AM and other places at my apartment with no issues but a someone here said that past is not a good indicator of future...
Having said that, girls in this business are worried about their own safety and protection as they are on the wrong side of the law so doing something as dangerous as blackmail need some real guts and huge risk - including angering their employer as the establishment they work with and rest of the comfort/sex industry do not want any undue attention.
My 2 cents.
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There's several places in Uguisudani that have the 'press the button, pay at the window' process, which doesn't really require any language skills at all, other than making sure to press the right button.
Keep in mind that prices are more expensive in the evenings or weekends, so the short stay price may not be the same in the afternoon vs the late evening.
Keep in mind that prices are more expensive in the evenings or weekends, so the short stay price may not be the same in the afternoon vs the late evening.
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Usually it's the cheaper one.
But I think the two choices are "rest" and "stay", which in Japanese are:
休憩 - rest
宿泊 - stay
If you can't find one that is the right price, you can either meet the girl at the station and have HER talk to the people at the desk, or go to a place that has a regular desk and just use some basic Japanese.
nijikan = 2 hours duration
sanjikan = 3 hours duration
If you pay with a 10,000 Yen note you won't have to worry about the dollar values. But again, the price advertised outside for a rest may be different depending on the day and time of day.
But I think the two choices are "rest" and "stay", which in Japanese are:
休憩 - rest
宿泊 - stay
If you can't find one that is the right price, you can either meet the girl at the station and have HER talk to the people at the desk, or go to a place that has a regular desk and just use some basic Japanese.
nijikan = 2 hours duration
sanjikan = 3 hours duration
If you pay with a 10,000 Yen note you won't have to worry about the dollar values. But again, the price advertised outside for a rest may be different depending on the day and time of day.