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So I met an adorable SB, we have great chemistry, always have good times when we are together about once or twice a week. She is much younger than I, less than half my age. And we've been sugar dating about 4 months now.
I have no illusions that we could ever have real bf/gf relationship. And I'm not trying to figure out a plan on how she can be my real girlfriend. The problem is that I'm starting to have some romantic feelings for her. I suppose its natural to begin to have these feelings with someone that is sweet to you and that you are intimate with on a regular basis. But those one sided romantic feelings are making me uncomfortable, a bit jealous, making me imagine things about her. I've talked to her about how I feel without trying to make a big deal about it. She has been very gentle and understanding. But basically said she has a hard time having romantic feelings for anyone including me.
Anyone have advice on how I temper these feelings? I understand the situation and what logically, my expectations should be. Im concerned my feelings for her will get out of control and spoil what we have. I really do not want to stop seeing her.
I imagine this also happens the other way around, where the SB falls for the SD.
Would be great to hear how SB's handle this, both ways.
I have no illusions that we could ever have real bf/gf relationship. And I'm not trying to figure out a plan on how she can be my real girlfriend. The problem is that I'm starting to have some romantic feelings for her. I suppose its natural to begin to have these feelings with someone that is sweet to you and that you are intimate with on a regular basis. But those one sided romantic feelings are making me uncomfortable, a bit jealous, making me imagine things about her. I've talked to her about how I feel without trying to make a big deal about it. She has been very gentle and understanding. But basically said she has a hard time having romantic feelings for anyone including me.
Anyone have advice on how I temper these feelings? I understand the situation and what logically, my expectations should be. Im concerned my feelings for her will get out of control and spoil what we have. I really do not want to stop seeing her.
I imagine this also happens the other way around, where the SB falls for the SD.
Would be great to hear how SB's handle this, both ways.
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