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I am looking for the best way to meet an older, married, Japanese woman for a long term affair.
You would think it shouldn’t be that difficult. I am an older Caucasian guy, physically fit and muscular, not balding, actually rather attractive and I tested at near-native in Japanese on the J-CAT. I know I can be charming to a woman if I can only find the one. And I have no problem in bed, quite the opposite.
I was having an affair with a lovely, married 50-something lady for years until last year when she decided that she couldn’t continue giving in to the temptation of being with me. She was worried what her children would think if they found out. I met her through a friend of a friend – I swept her off her feet on our first meeting which I found out later that she had only expected to be a platonic meeting.
I’m not sure if the Deai sites are worth the time and money or not. I know that what I am looking for is not unusual but I’m having a hard time finding it. I don’t need to stick to English language centric venues since that just narrows the audience down to women who speak English.
Part of my problem is that when I was young and single I was good looking enough that I could pretty much play with any woman I wanted to. And Japan back then – the 80’s and early 90’s – was much easier to play in. So I never developed any pick up skills and I have no idea about on-line hook-ups.
Where should I start looking for a married woman in her 40’s or 50’s who wants a long term affair?
You would think it shouldn’t be that difficult. I am an older Caucasian guy, physically fit and muscular, not balding, actually rather attractive and I tested at near-native in Japanese on the J-CAT. I know I can be charming to a woman if I can only find the one. And I have no problem in bed, quite the opposite.
I was having an affair with a lovely, married 50-something lady for years until last year when she decided that she couldn’t continue giving in to the temptation of being with me. She was worried what her children would think if they found out. I met her through a friend of a friend – I swept her off her feet on our first meeting which I found out later that she had only expected to be a platonic meeting.
I’m not sure if the Deai sites are worth the time and money or not. I know that what I am looking for is not unusual but I’m having a hard time finding it. I don’t need to stick to English language centric venues since that just narrows the audience down to women who speak English.
Part of my problem is that when I was young and single I was good looking enough that I could pretty much play with any woman I wanted to. And Japan back then – the 80’s and early 90’s – was much easier to play in. So I never developed any pick up skills and I have no idea about on-line hook-ups.
Where should I start looking for a married woman in her 40’s or 50’s who wants a long term affair?
