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多分こういうものは人による。。。僕は気軽にレジの人と話したり、道に歩いている人に道案内助けを聞いた事がいっぱいあるから緊張しない。次そういう事した時(買い物やホームで待っている間)隣の人かレジを働いている方に少しい話したら?そんなに難しくないと思うよ:) (日本語をよう喋らない僕でもできるから簡単だよ!)
It might depend a bit on the person... I personally don't find anything wrong with talking to people on the street (even kids) but that's beacuse when i first came here I practiced learning at bars and cafes so I was fine with that. Maybe next time you're at the cafe, bar, shopping, or waiting for a train, maybe you can open up a bit and talk to them. Little by little you'll find it gets easier!
I would only say if something come up. But, I do have an experience I bravely joined the coversation of guys and a lady from Kyoto, going for their company group offshore trip to Hong Kong .They sounded really funny, I just happened to praise them how amusing to observe their conversation from behind. I asked them where did they come from. It was just time killing conversation at the long custom queue!
But usually, I don't spk to strangers, only if there was a significant reason.
A supermarket counter veteran lady was very friendly to me, noticing whenever I showed up she went like, "otsukaresama desu'" with a lovely smile. I don't sed her anymore, but that was a rare case. Shop registers hardly see my face, they only see our hands when giving change. Is there getting new rules in Tokyo, that we shouldn't lomk into customers eyes, or something? I think, it's pretty rude, but I guess, it's no use and happens to be that way? shoganai??