How/why Did You Start With Mongering?

My first P4P was on a business trip... I had some extra cash and found her in the Yellow Pages - for a few that may remember what that was... Gave a call - nooooo not rotary... it was push button phone - Classy Hotel :)
The only thing about her was described correctly was her height... She was a Spinner, but the bleached blond hair smell of ciggies - and I smoke mind you, the worn out look of her body and skin... and the up-sell to fuck her ass for an extra $200 just kind of made it a less than ideal situation... I have refined my hunting skillz and my standards have changed - quite picky these days... but the providers are much better now as well... I did get burned in S. Korea a few months back... BP girl photo's matched, but the stench from your vagina was horrendous... like a dumpster that's been fermenting in the sun for a month.. once the smell hit me, I lost all interest and had a discussion that she needed to see a medical professional...because something was rotten and we were not in Denmark... she seemed unaware...and look on her face WTF are you talking about. I asked sincerely, You can not smell yourself ? I know women can, because I always heard my sisters talking about it...:eek: she said. can I keep the money... I said sure if you promise to use it for medical service..
 
The rule in the music business is your first recording deal is terrible. The same rule applies to p4p.

My first time the girl gave me a half hearted blow job after I paid for intercourse and then stole the rest of my money from my wallet when I was not paying attention. :eek::D

Yeah - my first time, the girl went to freshen up, and she snorted a rail of heroin while she did so, and was nodding for the entire session... literally moving in slow motion like a sloth.
 
I've only been mongering in the lines of massages with HE's except this one case with AM recently that was really lackluster.
(I've seen Yuriko & Meyrin, which should have clued me in that this doesn't work for me. Retrospectively, I should have skipped AM.)

The primary reason of doing it at all is to get some sort of stimulation from another human being instead of manual action. I never had used a real escort before this last experience with AM last week and now I know why. I definitely need some sort of chemistry for more than just a HE+Massage situation.

I don't think I'll go back to see some sort of escort, I just don't see the value in the money spent on the limited amount of time. I could easily spend 40-60k a week or save up and do something like 120k every two weeks. Just don't see the value, someone try to sell me on an experience I should take.
Im going that way too. The majority of HE massages or hand job club p4p experiences have been good, whereas with straight up FS im reguarly dissapointed. 3 of the 4 soapland experiences ive had were significantly below expectation, and both times Ive seen an escort it wasnt great.

To answer the original question- i first got into p4p in about 2006 at asian feeling. Good massage and then she let me oil he up and get on top of her and f*ck her thigh gap. It was good.
 
This seems like an interesting thread. Not sure if my story is interesting at all but oh well.

Background
Lets see, I'm half Asian and grew up in a very small American town. I never had much trouble making friends or attracting girls. I was MVP in multiple sports and had plenty of confidence. That was until my senior year when I realized I was still a virgin.
Even though I could initially attract girls, as soon as they got to know me, I was instantly in the friendzone. The funny part is I somehow convinced everyone I new that I have had sex because I dated this girl for a month. But we never got past kissing. Bummer.

How I started
The spring after I graduated high school (still a virgin). My Grandpa invited me on a trip. He wanted me to go backpack around South East Asia with him.
I never had much interest in SEA but I figured why not. Mongering also wasn't even on my radar at the time. Though I've always had sort of a fetish for it. I've always wanted to travel so I figured this would be the best time to start. (Maybe I could have an exotic foreign romance! lmao)
Anyways, we started our journey in Bangkok. Oh sweet Bangkok.
It was my first time ever leaving the US (except for Canada) so everything was so exotic and exciting for 18 year old me. We were only in Bangkok for a few days and saw the regular touristy stuff. My grandpa would always turn in early leaving me on my own for the evening.
It was during this time that I wandered into a red light district and saw many wonderful things. Girls left and right coming up to me trying to sweet talk me into their bars. I wasn't oblivious either. I knew exactly what they were offering. Especially when they say "blowjob, sex! Handsome man, you looking for good sex?". During these few nights I turned down every offer but it lit a fire inside me. I've grown tired of dancing around in the dating game only to get rejected the final prize back home. This is where I could make up all the lost time in high school.
We left Bangkok and continued on our month and a half long journey through Thailand, Laos, and Cambodia.

The first time
It was finally time to head home. We arrived back in Bangkok about a week before we had to fly out. We didn't want to risk any unexpected delays. This was perfect for me because I knew exactly what I wanted to do these last few days.
The first night we got back into Bangkok, after my gramps went to bed, I headed straight for the redlight district. Soi Cowboy if I remember right. I did tons and tons research in the time in between and decided I wanted to go with a massage parlor.
Found the one I had on the top of my list and stood in front of it for a few minutes. It didn't have any girls outside which kind of made me second guess if it was the right place. But it had good reviews and it was now or never. I walked in and the rest is history.
 
Dating never made me happy. I didn't desire relationships for the right reason anyway. Most of the girls that I met were ugly and had some sort of mental illness. I never paid attention to their problems because they struck me as insignificant and stupid. Even the ones that didn't pull that stuff were fuckbuddies with boyfriends and that was kinda awkward.

I got into visiting iffy massage parlors after that because I figured things would go better for me that way. And it did. First P4P experience was with a Chinese woman in their thirties that reeked of cigarettes. I didn't pop and was disappointed. It was still better than paying for dinner or putting up with ridiculous fetishes, though.

BP girl photo's matched, but the stench from your vagina was horrendous... like a dumpster that's been fermenting in the sun for a month.. once the smell hit me, I lost all interest and had a discussion that she needed to see a medical professional...because something was rotten and we were not in Denmark... she seemed unaware...and look on her face WTF are you talking about. I asked sincerely, You can not smell yourself ? I know women can, because I always heard my sisters talking about it...:eek: she said. can I keep the money... I said sure if you promise to use it for medical service..

Perfect response. Poor girl must've had BV or trich.
 
There was a beautiful girl who seduced and betrayed me.
Drinking didn’t help ease the pain. Taking on more work helped a bit.
I’m very grateful to my friends for keeping me sane at that time.
A year later, I accepted an assignment in Amsterdam where I tried to just focus on the job. Yeah, right.
The scars from that betrayal remain, but my P4P adventure continues.
 
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My first time parktaking in the hobby was in St. Louis while I was visiting family. One can only take so much family interaction, so I excused myself to go grab a beer and dinner at Schlafly tap room. Whist there, I used a few review sites to see if I could set up a short notice visit with someone well reviewed to relieve some stress. Two hours later, I was in bed with a blonde MILF exchanging stories
 
was on a business trip in the UK bored out of my fucking mind. recently i had been reading reddit AMA threads from escorts which opened my perspective to working girls...so i googled for UK escorts and within a couple hours there was a girl knocking on my hotel door. she was ugly as hell but this got the ball rolling. when i got back home i started researching agencies and discovered that, interestingly, korean girl agencies provided the best combination of cheap/safe/smoking hot girls.
 
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Not safe in Japan where they always offer BB though, lol.

Ah I meant safe more as in, they require very rigorous screening to get accepted by the agency. It's not like Japan where you can literally make a phone call and get a girl at your door in an hour. I've been offered bbfs by kgirls in the states, rarely though.
 
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