How would you define a keeper?

I thought you generally want to spend on SB unconditionally, no?
I think I put way too many conditions , on the opposite ! :D
But yeah, you’re right about the money part, I’m not that naive to think they would stay with me for free and happily ever after .
You’re also right there are many girls in this world , some even want to be a real girlfriend ! Incredible huh?! :)
 
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some even want to be a real girlfriend

Run, Frenchy, run!


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I think I put way too many conditions , on the opposite ! :D
But yeah, you’re right about the money part, I’m not that naive to think they would stay with me for free and happily ever after .
You’re also right there are many girls in this world , some even want to be a real girlfriend ! Incredible huh?! :)

Haha, you're funny!
I tend to be GFE or a nurse as possible, when I'm paid to play. If ones not,,, that's sad...that's their chemistry, maybe...
I mean, even I don't get paid, I make a person I'm with, make them feel worth. :)
Good luck!!!
 
My "keepers", the girls I return to repeatedly, all have one thing in common - we laugh together. I'm a fool for a girl with a (genuine) good sense of humour.
Same here!
 
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Be it SB or escort...
i’m interested in other guys perspectives : given all the competition, new faces etc... what would (or does) make you come back to a specific provider, or want to propose a long-term arrangement to a SB etc..?
what makes me want to come back to particular provider here is the fact that I feel like she genuinely enjoys what she's doing
 
I'm afraid @Fenchy you are looking for a Unicorn of sorts... OK not really, there are some good ones out there, but when you have to go through so many to find that "keeper" it can dash your hopes and optimism... Soooo, the SB that just says OK, is only after your cash and "Acting" a part... the P4P women are more genuine... you pay, they play, and they make you feel good.. or should anyway... but the dead fish and greedy one's are just that. You can usually tell when you meet cuz they won't put their fucking phone down to even look at you (me/ anyone)....
I recently ghosted a girl... we went to Okinawa cuz she wanted to go.. keep saying I want steak... I want Craft beer.... I want this... I want that... so I gave her this and that.... and she didn't even offer to buy me a drink/snack anything... I said... "you know, it would be nice if you offered to pay for a round of beers... but you didn't... this means you are selfish and don't appreciate anything".... I haven't heard from her since... so it must be true...
If we look at P4P - they get that customer service is part of the deal aka GFE (well some of them) SB are a little better, but not much... I know we guys can be a pain in their ass and expect this and that... but isn't that what we are paying for to begin with. Since of entitlement seems to be rampant... well that's my 2 yen....

Keep the faith and keep on looking.... Women that have sense of Humor are nice and fun... but rare gems... it seems... fake laughs don't get them anywhere....
 
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I'm afraid @Fenchy you are looking for a Unicorn of sorts... OK not really, there are some good ones out there, but when you have to go through so many to find that "keeper" it can dash your hopes and optimism... Soooo, the SB that just says OK, is only after your cash and "Acting" a part... the P4P women are more genuine... you pay, they play, and they make you feel good.. or should anyway... but the dead fish and greedy one's are just that. You can usually tell when you meet cuz they won't put their fucking phone down to even look at you (me/ anyone)....
I recently ghosted a girl... we went to Okinawa cuz she wanted to go.. keep saying I want steak... I want Craft beer.... I want this... I want that... so I gave her this and that.... and she didn't even offer to buy me a drink/snack anything... I said... "you know, it would be nice if you offered to pay for a round of beers... but you didn't... this means you are selfish and don't appreciate anything".... I haven't heard from her since... so it must be true...
If we look at P4P - they get that customer service is part of the deal aka GFE (well some of them) SB are a little better, but not much... I know we guys can be a pain in their ass and expect this and that... but isn't that what we are paying for to begin with. Since of entitlement seems to be rampant... well that's my 2 yen....

Keep the faith and keep on looking.... Women that have sense of Humor are nice and fun... but rare gems... it seems... fake laughs don't get them anywhere....
sorry but it sounds like SHE ghosted you
 
I'm afraid @Fenchy you are looking for a Unicorn of sorts... OK not really, there are some good ones out there, but when you have to go through so many to find that "keeper" it can dash your hopes and optimism... Soooo, the SB that just says OK, is only after your cash and "Acting" a part... the P4P women are more genuine... you pay, they play, and they make you feel good.. or should anyway... but the dead fish and greedy one's are just that. You can usually tell when you meet cuz they won't put their fucking phone down to even look at you (me/ anyone)....
I recently ghosted a girl... we went to Okinawa cuz she wanted to go.. keep saying I want steak... I want Craft beer.... I want this... I want that... so I gave her this and that.... and she didn't even offer to buy me a drink/snack anything... I said... "you know, it would be nice if you offered to pay for a round of beers... but you didn't... this means you are selfish and don't appreciate anything".... I haven't heard from her since... so it must be true...
If we look at P4P - they get that customer service is part of the deal aka GFE (well some of them) SB are a little better, but not much... I know we guys can be a pain in their ass and expect this and that... but isn't that what we are paying for to begin with. Since of entitlement seems to be rampant... well that's my 2 yen....

Keep the faith and keep on looking.... Women that have sense of Humor are nice and fun... but rare gems... it seems... fake laughs don't get them anywhere....

Thanks for your answer. But Unicorns? Not really. I actually met more keepers than ladies who made me want to run for the exit after a few minutes... I truely enjoyed being with them most of the time, even if I knew it was « fake » , and even when I felt a bit too used and abused (as you mentioned) , the good memories still outweigh the bad ones.
And although I am currently in a « fuck that, I spend way too much on these ladies » mood , and I ended a few stale relationships, I still meet one of them about twice a month.

True unicorns for me are actually not the keepers but those encounters that happened only once and were really exceptional. The « booked for a few hours , stayed the whole night (coz they wanted it) and fucked my brains out repeatedly » types. Like the Black Pearl (French Carribean model-type escort in Paris while I was on a business trip there) and my recent Valentines Day SB (Australian-Asian tourist, although not really P4P as she just wanted to be entertained and didnt ask for cash). Now if only those two could have become keepers! :rolleyes:
 
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Many people have written about a sense of humor. Agree on that one.
The other thing I look for is the ability to hold a conversation on a variety of topics, and actually have something interesting to say.

I also like an independent streak and people who don't mind being alone (travel, dining etc)

On the other hand, SB constant whinging about jobs, lack of money etc will be shown the door quickly.
 
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Something which I find important is adaptability. Finding a woman that knows how to act in any situation and can feel comfortable in any surrounding or type of company.

Being happy siting a top rated restaurant of the world or in sitting on a dirty plastic stool in Vietnam. I think it reflects upon a persons ability to appreciate different aspects of life. Sometimes you get fly in 1st class and sometimes the airplane doesn’t have 3 classes of seating. Maybe lucky to get seat and the ability to be satisfied with that.

You need to experience both ends to appreciate everything and keep it all in perspective. If said in one word, humble.
 
Many people have written about a sense of humor. Agree on that one.
The other thing I look for is the ability to hold a conversation on a variety of topics, and actually have something interesting to say.

I also like an independent streak and people who don't mind being alone (travel, dining etc)

On the other hand, SB constant whinging about jobs, lack of money etc will be shown the door quickly.

That's what kills me too. It's like they can message a lot when not meeting, but then they have no conversation skills when we meet so after a few moments, it's awkward silence. It happened a lot during meeting some SBs and also some from online.
 
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Be it SB or escort...
i’m interested in other guys perspectives : given all the competition, new faces etc... what would (or does) make you come back to a specific provider, or want to propose a long-term arrangement to a SB etc..?


A few things that keep me coming back

Hotness sexuality ,doing what I ask of you,able to carry on a conversation and make me the center of your world for our duration. I’m easy. Being a foodie and traveler a plus ;)


Just funny how chemistry goes I’ve been wth 10s and it’s been fine. But been with not as physically fine and they were so much better connection.
 
Something which I find important is adaptability. Finding a woman that knows how to act in any situation and can feel comfortable in any surrounding or type of company.

Being happy siting a top rated restaurant of the world or in sitting on a dirty plastic stool in Vietnam. I think it reflects upon a persons ability to appreciate different aspects of life. Sometimes you get fly in 1st class and sometimes the airplane doesn’t have 3 classes of seating. Maybe lucky to get seat and the ability to be satisfied with that.

You need to experience both ends to appreciate everything and keep it all in perspective. If said in one word, humble.

Totally agreed, and this is rare. There was this woman on SA whose profile read like this « I travel only first or business and stay only at five stars hotels and I want my own room » . I trolled her a bit, I must admit . It was fun :D
 
I guess in your profile you write "specific requirements"??? I think if you're looking for more like real connection, you expect for what you get, is better mention at first, otherwise most girls just want money. Don't wanna involved with a married man. Or maybe donno how much to involve, or just sadly not interested...young girls can be very direct to older genration maybe.

I don't get clients younger than 24, nor unwanting type, that I'm happy what clients I receive nowadays.
 
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A few things that keep me coming back

Hotness sexuality ,doing what I ask of you,able to carry on a conversation and make me the center of your world for our duration. I’m easy. Being a foodie and traveler a plus ;)


Just funny how chemistry goes I’ve been wth 10s and it’s been fine. But been with not as physically fine and they were so much better connection.

That would be a good summary of my wish list too. The « make me the center » thing is probably, at the end of the day,what should diffentiate the most p4p with a normal GF, in my opinion. With the latter I could understand (even expect) not being attentive all the time and being cold or cranky due to her own problems etc... much harder to accept that when you pay for the lady’s time or spend a fortune on a date. Even worse if I find out this time is used online with other guys!

And totally agreed on the physicality : the one I keep seeing now is not the prettiest (well , some members here who met the same ladies might disagree :D) but she’s a dynamo in bed and other places, 100% devoted when we’re together and hilarious when we talk about sex (which seems to be her 2nd favorite pastime just after doing it!)
 
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I guess in your profile you write "specific requirements"??? I think if you're looking for more like real connection, you expect for what you get, is better mention at first, otherwise most girls just want money. Don't wanna involved with a married man. Or maybe donno how much to involve, or just sadly not interested...young girls can be very direct to older genration maybe.

I don't get clients younger than 24, nor unwanting type, that I'm happy what clients I receive nowadays.

Yeah well I can be very direct with younger generations too :D! Not a problem for me.
What % of your dates are repeaters Yuriko? (だいたい)
 
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Yeah well I can be very direct with younger generations too :D! Not a problem for me.
What % of your dates are repeaters Yuriko? (だいたい)

Haha, sure. I can see that.
My repeats ratio is very low. Rather than by ratio, I
would say 2 to 3 clients. I'm not for FS. I know some FS providers have number of repeats. I only have one or two hour session. Maybe that's another reason...Also, most of my clients are business or holiday travellers. Small number of locals. But I get alot of clients a month. That matters most, tbh.
 
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Haha, sure. I can see that.
My repeats ratio is very low. Rather than by ratio, I
would say 2 to 3 clients. I'm not for FS. I know some FS providers have number of repeats. I only have one or two hour session. Maybe that's another reason... But I get alot of clients a month. That's more important, tbh.

It also helps with the variety of cocks you get so you never get bored seeing the same cock ;)
 
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