If An Escort Offers Private Service

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  1. RIDER 00

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    Just a general question, but if an escort you got through an agency asks that you contact her directly to make an appointment the next time, what should you do? Suppose the reason the escort asks this is that she trusts her client enough to develop a private relationship with him and doesn't want her agency to take a share of her earnings.

    I know that almost all escort agencies prevent their girls from contacting clients in private, but has anyone else experienced this and what are the pros/cons?

    Thanks in advance.
     
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    It depends. If it's the first time that you've seen her, it probably has nothing to do with trusting the client enough or liking that client. In Japan, the chances of someone getting hurt are a lot smaller than in the States or elsewhere.

    The only real plus is that you might be able to negotiate a lower amount or possibly different services than you might through the agency. It's far more likely however that she's going to charge you the same amount and just pocket the agency fee (this is generally why agencies ban both girls and clients from suggesting such an arrangement).

    If its a situation where you've been seeing the girl for a while and you 'click', she might be willing to give you more time for the same amount or give you a 'volume discount' if you are seeing her regularly, etc.

    Some of the possible downsides:
    The girl would get fired if discovered, and you might get blackballed from the org, which is a consideration if you use it regularly.

    There's probably a slightly larger chance of you getting robbed or stiffed or even stalked by such a provider, given that she's already shown she's not necessarily going to 'play by the rules'. These instances are incredibly rare in Japan as long as you are careful -- I wouldn't follow her to a 'cheap/good hotel she knows', for example.
     
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    In the US it is called "stealing clients/customers" by both the agencies and the escorts or at least it was back in the days when I saw escorts regularly in the US. It was and still is incredibly common there, and it causes a lot of drama. However, if you are a regular customer over some considerable period of time, it is half expected and usually ignored (by the agencies), though not happily.

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    Thanks for the feedback. I'll test the waters and see how it goes.

    After hearing your remarks on possible stalking and such, is there a chance in hell that this escort is looking for a long-term relationship, one that possible doesn't have the exchange of money for services? I'm not saying I want to date and marry an escort at the moment, but it's not something I would be totally against...
     
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    I mean, anything is possible, but those sorts of situations usually don't happen after the initial encounter.
     
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    Though fairly rare, escorts wanting to convert a customer to a bf does happen, but as meiji says, it is extraordinarily rare after a single session as a customer. I have never heard of a single case that I can recall.

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    I've had that happen twice:

    1 was Thai, we have sex like 1 time and then she asked to borrow a lot of money. Last time we ever spoke.

    1 was Chinese, we ended up dating and eventually moved into together as a serious couple over about 7-8 month. She quit the job I met her through and got real work. We broke up later, she had a bad/quick temper.

    Draw your own conclusions.
     
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    It happened to me once with a Japanese escort, but I never followed through just because I didn't click with the girl. She didn't say the reason, but I assumed she just wanted to pocket all the money. I literally chatted with her for 5 minutes before she started bringing up "next time". However, if you contact her and get to avoid all the club fees, why not? If something seems sketchy, you can always just say "no thanks".

    As people have said though, there are girls who are looking for a foreign bf for various reasons. The girl I was with kept bringing that up, but I just assumed she was trying to flatter me as part of the service. Honestly it just made me feel really uncomfortable, but maybe some dudes are into that? I don't have any experience with the whole GFE thing, so I'm not sure.
     
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    She might have wanted to actually meet on a personal level, not that I'm saying it would have been worthwhile.
     
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