sorry and thanks.
What I wanted to know if someone is offering incall service is it safe to go there (or should I worry about various dangers of going to a private unknown place). Is there someone who went for a incall service around tokyo (if yes I would like to know his experience briefly). Sometime I have also seen non-J girls offering incalls, who are listed as independent....what about them?
This is not a review. Please post in the correct location in the future. Thanks.
As to incall, it depends on what you are looking for and your Japanese language ability. The vast majority of places are delivery health, where you meet the girl at a love hotel. For non-Japanese speakers, Asian Mystique is pretty much the gold standard in terms of reliability.
Sometimes I get confused to the term "gaijin friendly" used in the TAG forum. Being gaijin friendly, can I safely assume it means the place will accept customers with absolutely no ability to communicate in Japanese?
No. 99% of the time 'foreigner friendly' means that they will accept Japanese-speaking foreigners, or at least they know enough Japanese to set up an appointment. I'm trying to get a template or some other suggested method of posting reviews up, and it would be nice if people specifically posted language requirements -- however, I would say the rule of thumb at this point would be if their website doesn't have an English-language version (i.e., Hipness) or they don't have a tout that speaks some English (i.e., Hinomaru Pink Salon), you should assume that they will not accept those without Japanese language ability.
Note that this can be a bit of a sliding scale, and can vary depending on the organization, the girl in question, and the tout at the shop. I've called up places one day that refused service because my Japanese sucks, and then the next day I had no problem setting up an appointment. Things certainly aren't cut and dried in Japan.