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OK, last one, unless someone wants me to check out another one. I've not met anyone off this site, so if that's your metric of success, you can skip this. However, I find Digicafe strangely compelling.
Digicafe, at first glance, looks like a cheery, pastel colored discussion board. But, if you click on a button in the top right corner named 裏に切替, depending on which profile, you will have fallen down the rabbit hole. If you don't have much Japanese, give Google translate a spin.
The idea that people have this omote and ura is pretty deeply embedded in Japan, and this website exploits that. There are cash-back sites for women who write and encourage men to spend points. There are not a lot of people near where I am. But have had some very interesting exchanges on this board. Even if you don't want to exchange, you can check out various 'ura-logs' for some eye-opening stuff. They try and prime the pump by posting a daily ura log topic (ranging from 外国人とHするならどこの国の人がいい?[which country's foreigner is best for doing it?] to お気に入りのラブホテルはある?[Do you have a favorite love hotel]) Of course, people don't have to write on the topic, and some of the ura logs are long musings on love, life and everything in between. The ura part leans towards SM (along with the 秘密 option, they have really M, a little M, regular, a little S and a lot S), though I'm not sure if 普通 means they do S and M, or it doesn't interest them.
I'm not sure if I'm actually seeing inside the heads of Japanese women, but some of the stuff is really interesting. I'd give it a try, if only to read what Japanese people write. There also some people who leave their ura profile untouched, making wonder if they know what is going on, or they stay oblivious to it.
The address is http://www.digicafe.jp/ to get started. If you'd like more information and tips, drop a line in the comments.
in the form at the bottom so I can get some points. Thanks!
Digicafe, at first glance, looks like a cheery, pastel colored discussion board. But, if you click on a button in the top right corner named 裏に切替, depending on which profile, you will have fallen down the rabbit hole. If you don't have much Japanese, give Google translate a spin.
The idea that people have this omote and ura is pretty deeply embedded in Japan, and this website exploits that. There are cash-back sites for women who write and encourage men to spend points. There are not a lot of people near where I am. But have had some very interesting exchanges on this board. Even if you don't want to exchange, you can check out various 'ura-logs' for some eye-opening stuff. They try and prime the pump by posting a daily ura log topic (ranging from 外国人とHするならどこの国の人がいい?[which country's foreigner is best for doing it?] to お気に入りのラブホテルはある?[Do you have a favorite love hotel]) Of course, people don't have to write on the topic, and some of the ura logs are long musings on love, life and everything in between. The ura part leans towards SM (along with the 秘密 option, they have really M, a little M, regular, a little S and a lot S), though I'm not sure if 普通 means they do S and M, or it doesn't interest them.
I'm not sure if I'm actually seeing inside the heads of Japanese women, but some of the stuff is really interesting. I'd give it a try, if only to read what Japanese people write. There also some people who leave their ura profile untouched, making wonder if they know what is going on, or they stay oblivious to it.
The address is http://www.digicafe.jp/ to get started. If you'd like more information and tips, drop a line in the comments.
in the form at the bottom so I can get some points. Thanks!